Does this woman have no decency??

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I really thought I believed in letting women do whatever they want to and trying to see things from their point of view. But I just can’t understand Bonnie Blue for her “baby shower” plans… https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1DHqdeB6ed/?mibextid=wwXIfr

And to think people put their trust in them and put them on a pedestal. 🤮
The world is sick!

Silliness? Words matter.

I have said multiple times it's not normal and it is not good.

I agree there is some sort of scale, and I understand that in some extreme cases where a pregnant woman has caused harm to her unborn child and it is deemed that this woman cannot reasonably stop or care for the baby once it's here (e.g. significant illegal drug use, or severe alcohol misuse such that she could not care for a baby etc) then social care will step in. I agree what Bonnie Blue is doing is at a point that is nowhere near normal, and is terrible.

However, the problem with scales, particularly for things that have not actually harmed the unborn child, do not necessarily compromise her ability to look after a child, and are not illegal, is that where people draw the line could have some pretty big implications. This is particularly true of sex acts (over, say, drug use) as generally these legal sex acts are not inherently harmful to an unborn child, only affect the mother's body and sexual/ bodily autonomy.

Lots of sex workers have children. There will be several previous porn actors/ only fans content creators with content still available who have children.

I do have to say again I do not agree with anything Bonnie Blue does and I really pity her child.

I didnt realise she was English I thought she was American or Australian

Not sure who has written the wiki page but it reads as if she met a bloke when she was 14 or so and later married him. Hopefully her income is protected as he's onto a winner there in terms of a divorce pay out if she wasnt careful.

I suppose if there could be said to be anything 'wrong' with her as such, it would come under Anti Social PD, she seems to have some traits indicating that with regard to her personality and disregard for social norms and the law (many arrests etc), but largely women dont tend to be diagnosed with that for some reason

Theres certainly no sign of a MH disorder as such. She seems just a deeply unpleasant person

Im not sure I understand the talk about 'barely legal' in terms of 18 year old men. the age of consent is 16.

The situations you are describing are quite different to this one. Nobody is saying sex workers can’t have children. I’m sure very many of them are wonderful parents. They are not bringing their parenthood status into their sexual activities which are then broadcast for money. Bonnie Blue is using a baby shower as a theme for sexual activity. I think that is a huge difference from sex workers simply having kids.

Sadly his reply to me was already deleted by the time I came to read it.
What a shame.

It will be a shit show

Lets not give her ideas 🤢

What do you mean “not being serious”?

She goes ahead with these things. She doesn’t just talk about it, she actually does them.

How does that make it funny?

I wouldn't. I wouldn't be seen dead with a bunch of inadequate, gormless pervs like that, and that vacant, disturbed midden hosting it. Honestly, take if from a normal everyday guy, there's nothing remotely erotic about this 'event'.

I was responding to "A woman being ridiculously promiscuous or engaging in sex work during pregnancy, having unprotected sex with multiple men in unsafe setting which may have a detrimental effect of her unborn babies health, SS may step in."

The baby food / golden baby shower things are truly disgusting and the fact that someone would put those things together is morally bankrupt, but I don't think social services can "remove" or "adopt" (both used in this thread) or possibly even "step in" for morally disgusting, but legal, sex acts and fetishes between consenting adults.

Reading the wiki page I think I would put her in the category of social agitator, a sort of sexual Katie Hopkins. This is done for shock and challenge. But its also making her a pretty penny in the meantime. The figures are unbelievable (if true) in terms of her income.

@IwannaeatapastyI’ve seen you talk about your ex husband on a thread before. It stuck with me because it was so awful.

I feel similarly to you. I am married, to a “good man” but I would never fully trust him.

My husband is a great dad, hard working and very good at his job. Does voluntary work. Cares for a disabled relative. Is patient and nice natured. He’s a great cook and an accomplished pianist.

Imagine my shock when I found out he was snorting cocaine and sending dick pics to numerous people.

I trust my husband not to ever physically hurt me. He would never steal from me or anybody else. I trust him to always do his best for his kids.

But when it comes to his dick, no, I no longer trust him and never will, and will never trust any man.

if I asked him about lining up to piss on BB then have sex with her he would exclaim over how awful that is. And part of him probably genuinely thinks it is. But there’s another part of him that I feel quite sure would want to do it. Whether he would then feel full of guilt and shame in the cold light of day, I don’t know.

But men and women are fundamentally different and once you see it you can’t unsee it.

Thank you so much for posting 🤗 We need to hear these things from more normal, decent, regular guys to restore our faith. I know my 2 brothers wouldn't do anything like that either...

I judge the men and her parents

You say this, but unfortunately men in an aroused state take leave of their senses. Sorry to say it but none of you can be fully trusted.

Hopefully the baby will be removed at birth for its own protection. This is possibly the most disturbed thing I have ever read. Her poor midwife must be desperate to get a healthy baby born safely (that’s presuming she has actually had any pre natal care? )

Yes, I’ve spoken about my ex a few times on here over the years, under different names and people all do remember. I am aware it does sound quite shocking, but I tell it to point out that you can never fully trust anyone and even the most vocal of people can behave the worst.

I am so sorry you found out the hard way as well.

And I’m the same, I trust my now husband implicitly with my children, with our lives, he would go to the ends of the earth for any of us.

With his dick? No. Never.

Also, you have to remember that a lot of men wouldn’t do a Bonnie Blue type situation not because they find it disgusting, but for the fact they they don’t want other men seeing their dicks as they are insecure about them. That’s the truth of it.

She has the money for the best care in the world and I am sure she is getting it.

She’s not sitting in a packed NHS clinic waiting for a ten minute midwife appointment at the local hospital.

Social services wont get near her, her lawyers will keep them away
Just like the McCanns

She’s openly said that says a lot of it for rage bait.

Bonnie Blue seems to think she's providing a service for the poor blokes who are unable (for whatever reason) to get their ends away in a normal relationship. She doesn't mind if they are fat/thin/old/young/look like Pierce Brosnan or Piers Morgan .

We should be congratulating her and thanking her for being so considerate to these unfortunate men.
They get to shag a Real Life Porn Star (for all of 14 seconds) who won't say "Urgh" or "I don't think so matey" (she will say "next" as they're just a pawn in her game )
ETA - obvious sarcasm here

Anyone else remember from years ago a very famous Page 3 girl who said that if a "little man has a picture of me on his wall he won't go out and rape women "
No that's not how it works , and she was protected by bodyguards , had cars and taxis .

She can shag the entire team of the New Zealand All Blacks Rugby Team and their reserves if she likes . But don't think she's doing it for woman kind .
It's Money & Fame for her .
She had a rivalry with another Porn Star ( who's name escapes me and I CBA looking up . Lily something ) Same sort of 1000 Men in 24 hours sort of thing.
I do not believe for one second she has any pychosis . She plans , she wants to shock . She is a blatant self publicist and promoter

Oh, get lost, ffs. You don't know me, so how can you say I, and thousands like me, can't be trusted.

Experience, statistics, news stories, history.... take your pick.

Your reaction isnt a good example of self control now is it ?

Because you’re a man. Why are you skulking around here anyway? There’s a Dadsnet.