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Does this woman have no decency??

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somanychristmaslights · 29/05/2026 18:22

I really thought I believed in letting women do whatever they want to and trying to see things from their point of view. But I just can’t understand Bonnie Blue for her “baby shower” plans… https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1DHqdeB6ed/?mibextid=wwXIfr

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AlternateLook · 30/05/2026 10:19

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StartingFreshFor2026 · 30/05/2026 10:26

Idlewilder · 30/05/2026 10:12

I think this is substantively different to the perfectly normal act of having sex while pregnant. Because the act is documented and public, and will forever be associated with Bonnie Blue's first child. So the child is being forced to participate in something and has no right to anonymity.

It's truly unbelievable when you think of all the well known celebrity offspring who have been screwed up by their parents' fame. So unbelievable, I'm hoping it's not actually going to happen and the whole thing has just been another bid for attention.

I agree it is substantially different and really awful. I just don't think that people suggesting that the child should - or will - be removed at birth have fully thought through what that would mean and I don't think there's any legal framework / justification for it.

A pregnant woman could do showjumping on a horse every day, drink raw unpasteurised milk, eat sushi that's not properly cured, take all manor of random herbal supplements, swim in frozen lakes, sauna for ages, even smoke and drink to some degree etc etc and no one could do much about it because she has bodily autonomy and it becomes questionable if that gets taken away.

Feel very sorry for this child personally though.

LimbOnTheTreeTheTreeInTheHoleTheHoleInTheGround · 30/05/2026 10:27

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The fact you can't see the problem, makes you part of the problem

seagullstolemypie · 30/05/2026 10:33

She is not being degraded. She is the organiser, the advertiser, and the willing orchestrater of the whole sordid debacle. Along with the willing participants, she and they are the ones degrading all other women (and also men).

Very sadly, her poor innocent and yet unborn child (and any future children) will reap what she has sewed. What a burden they will carry.

Whyohwhy321 · 30/05/2026 10:35

LimbOnTheTreeTheTreeInTheHoleTheHoleInTheGround · 30/05/2026 10:27

The fact you can't see the problem, makes you part of the problem

It's blindingly clear that AlternateLook is part of the problem. He is oblivious to this though.

Dollysleftnip · 30/05/2026 10:37

Whyohwhy321 · 30/05/2026 10:35

It's blindingly clear that AlternateLook is part of the problem. He is oblivious to this though.

No he is not oblivious he like the rest of them doesnt care.

AndyBurnhamForPM · 30/05/2026 10:37

Iwannaeatapasty · 30/05/2026 07:30

I agree it’s her body her choice.

when you are pregnant, yes it’s still your body, your choice but you have to be okay with the risks you are putting the baby inside your body at. She obviously is, but fucking hell, there are women who won’t even take paracetamol for a headache when they are pregnant, so of course people won’t understand anyone taking risks like this.

I don’t give a shit about her choices really. But I can personally think it’s shitty to put a baby you are carrying at risk of harm from STDs and violence (I know she says she’s “protected” but it it takes one nutcase to harm her before anyone can step in).

I also think it’s a pedophiles dream with the baby food etc. she’s sexualising an unborn baby. No one could be called prudish for finding that disgusting and shocking. This has moved away from her usual sex stunts.

So that’s why I think it’s fucking grim.

As for the men, yeah I know. My ex husband who was a medical professor and also used to travel the world talking about women’s rights in healthcare used to shag sex workers on those trips, a lot of men are full of shit and absolute monsters behind the facade.

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Presumably you support abortion?

If we agree with abortion, which I very much do, then I agree with a pregnant woman having consensual sex with multiple partners and have them urinate on her.

Her body, her choice.

We don't have to choose the same things for ourselves.

That's because her body, her choice applies to every woman.

Dollysleftnip · 30/05/2026 10:38

AndyBurnhamForPM · 30/05/2026 10:37

Presumably you support abortion?

If we agree with abortion, which I very much do, then I agree with a pregnant woman having consensual sex with multiple partners and have them urinate on her.

Her body, her choice.

We don't have to choose the same things for ourselves.

That's because her body, her choice applies to every woman.

I think this is the narrative they will use to criminalise abortion again. Her body her choice and look what she does with it

ICECOLDLATTENOW · 30/05/2026 10:59

🚨 🚨 🚨
This reeks of a psyop. Full stop.

I think there is a coordinated push to demoralise British women specifically. Not random. Coordinated. Go search "UK Beast" on Twitter right now. Look at what comes up. I've also noticed several Twitter accounts suddenly crop up and get thousands of followers over night out of nowhere. They all use working class British coded language like "UK CHAVZ" "UK Slags" "UK Tarts". They post rough looking half-naked photos of British women. I watched them ok and they started off US-based and South Asia-based. Now suddenly "UK-based" after VPNs. These people aren't British. They're running an operation.This isn't organic. Someone is funding this. It's too coordinated. Someone wants British women demoralised, humiliated. Why? My guess is someone wants the public outraged enough to beg the government to regulate the internet. That's what I reckon the play is. Create the problem, wait for the reaction, offer the solution. That is my guess.

DontShoutInMyEarholeTracey · 30/05/2026 11:00

Whyohwhy321 · 30/05/2026 08:28

Nope. They walk amongst us. They don't have 2 heads and a label on their face. We sit next to them on the bus, they're the policemen who turn up when you've been robbed, the guy running the corner shop, the local vicar, the plumber who turns up to fix the shower, the colleague we work on projects with. The people who think it's someone else's son/father/brother/husband could not be more wrong.

Ain’t that the truth! I mean it’s not like any of these men are going to say to their parents, siblings, spouses, children, nieces, nephews work colleagues that they paid to have sex with Bonnie Blue or any other sex worker. People don’t want to believe it.

Iwannaeatapasty · 30/05/2026 11:01

AndyBurnhamForPM · 30/05/2026 10:37

Presumably you support abortion?

If we agree with abortion, which I very much do, then I agree with a pregnant woman having consensual sex with multiple partners and have them urinate on her.

Her body, her choice.

We don't have to choose the same things for ourselves.

That's because her body, her choice applies to every woman.

That’s what I said.

It is her choice and she must be okay with any risk to the baby.

I couldn’t give a shit if another woman smokes, drinks or shoots up in pregnancy. It’s decision they have made knowing that they are growing a baby.

It doesn’t mean that I can’t personally find it grim. This is a thread talking about what she’s doing and I’m free to add my opinion that I think it’s a shit decision for a number of reasons. Which is why I didn’t I don’t have gangbangs and get pissed on when I’m pregnant.

As for abortion, I wouldn’t have one but again, I don’t care what anyone else does with their own body it’s none of my business.

But the thing I find terrible through is the baby food and mixing it with semen. That is sexualising the pregnancy and it appeals to a certain type of man.

SignGrudgeBluebook · 30/05/2026 11:18

I wonder what her parents think of her? I wonder how the conversation around the Christmas dinner table goes. "So....what have we all been up to this year?"

WeAreNotOutnumbered · 30/05/2026 11:22

Her mother is her 'manager'.

ItsTheSmell · 30/05/2026 11:26

StartingFreshFor2026 · 30/05/2026 08:38

"But she doesn't have the right to involve her unborn child in sexual activity." What she's doing is horrible, but surely this quote would mean that any pregnant woman having sex or "sexual activity" was committing a child sex offence? Pregnant women are allowed to have sex, even disgusting and risky sex.

No, there is a scale.

Take alcohol in pregnancy. Some women avoid it. Some women have the odd glass of wine. Some women drink moderately.
And then there are women who abuse alcohol in pregnancy to the point it could be detrimental to the babies health so SS step in.

Sex in pregnancy is normal. Having sex with the father of your baby or someone youre in a relationship with during pregnancy, practicing safe sex. No one would bat an eye. Normal.
A woman being ridiculously promiscuous or engaging in sex work during pregnancy, having unprotected sex with multiple men in unsafe setting which may have a detrimental effect of her unborn babies health, SS may step in.

Nobody is saying women can't have sex during pregnancy.

But do you honestly think rounding up dozens upon dozens of random, unscreened men to have sex with, one after another, after another whilst engaging in things like mixing semen with food and being urinated on is in the realms of normality??

It is an extreme and therefore open to criticism and potential involvement from child protection agencies.

As much as you may not like it, people will consider how the way she treats her own body affects her unborn child.
The same way a drug addict may be forced into rehab during pregnancy.

EvieBB · 30/05/2026 11:27

OctaviaC74 · 30/05/2026 07:28

No wonder so many women will chose the Bear.

She picks "ordinary" guys, as do many other women involved in pornography, guys with partners, children, the men we go home to every day.

Don't anyone make the mistake their guy wouldn't do any of this.

My DH wouldn't. He think it's sick

ItsTheSmell · 30/05/2026 11:28

And SS may not be able to stop a mother engaging in risky behaviour during pregnancy, that may not be able to stop her drinking everyday or shooting up, but they can look at that decision she is making and use it to determine if this woman is fit to raise that child.

I do not think this woman is fit to raise a child.

I hope it's not a girl. Somehow that seems like it would be even worse.

SproutingBee · 30/05/2026 11:31

EvieBB · 30/05/2026 11:27

My DH wouldn't. He think it's sick

Haha so did my ex. You can guess the rest. The faux outrage is a red flag.

DontShoutInMyEarholeTracey · 30/05/2026 11:35

Any baby born to Bonnie Blue should be taken away from her at birth and put up for adoption!

Iwannaeatapasty · 30/05/2026 11:36

EvieBB · 30/05/2026 11:27

My DH wouldn't. He think it's sick

My medical professor ex husband used to travel the world talking about women who’d been abused while accessing healthcare and was a quite famous (in his field) for it. He used to say at length how degrading sex work was to women, used to speak on pannels about how porn was damaging to the brain development of young men. He said he found sex work damaging to women and men who bought sex were abhorrent.

Imagine everyone’s surprise when it came out that he had a thing for engaging in strangulation with sex workers and used to make them eat his shit.

I would have said my husband thinks it’s sick too, as that’s what he insisted and that’s what his fucking work centred around, until I found out he was one of them.

Look, I’m not saying your husband is like that at all. I’m not saying it’s ALL men. But I would never trust a man fully.

I am married again. Would my husband now go and piss on a pregnant Bonnie blue? I’d like to hope not.

DontShoutInMyEarholeTracey · 30/05/2026 11:41

So how many of you will be voting Reform? I sure as hell won’t be. Is Bonnie Blue and her antics going to become the norm? Is that what our children can aspire to? No thanks!

Adult film star Bonnie Blue made headlines by publicly endorsing Nigel Farage and the Reform UK party. She praised the party's stance on immigration and inheritance tax, sparking significant political debate and media reactions Reform UK welcomes backing from adult film star Bonnie Blue | The Standard.

Bonnie Blue (actress) - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bonnie_Blue_(actress)

omghereistrouble · 30/05/2026 11:49

who is the father?
I am not a fan of baby showers waste of money but that version is disgusting
as someone who has miscarried quite a few times she is lucky having all those men she does not do the same

DontShoutInMyEarholeTracey · 30/05/2026 11:50

Iwannaeatapasty · 30/05/2026 11:36

My medical professor ex husband used to travel the world talking about women who’d been abused while accessing healthcare and was a quite famous (in his field) for it. He used to say at length how degrading sex work was to women, used to speak on pannels about how porn was damaging to the brain development of young men. He said he found sex work damaging to women and men who bought sex were abhorrent.

Imagine everyone’s surprise when it came out that he had a thing for engaging in strangulation with sex workers and used to make them eat his shit.

I would have said my husband thinks it’s sick too, as that’s what he insisted and that’s what his fucking work centred around, until I found out he was one of them.

Look, I’m not saying your husband is like that at all. I’m not saying it’s ALL men. But I would never trust a man fully.

I am married again. Would my husband now go and piss on a pregnant Bonnie blue? I’d like to hope not.

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Fucking hell that’s grim! Wonder how many medical professionals, psychologists, psychiatrists would participate in this? Dr Jekyll and Hyde.

Iwannaeatapasty · 30/05/2026 11:53

DontShoutInMyEarholeTracey · 30/05/2026 11:50

Fucking hell that’s grim! Wonder how many medical professionals, psychologists, psychiatrists would participate in this? Dr Jekyll and Hyde.

I’d hazzard that a man with money and a bit of clout is more likely to do things like that than Geoff off the estate.

Plus, they tend to have god complexes.

Whyohwhy321 · 30/05/2026 11:54

ItsTheSmell · 30/05/2026 11:26

No, there is a scale.

Take alcohol in pregnancy. Some women avoid it. Some women have the odd glass of wine. Some women drink moderately.
And then there are women who abuse alcohol in pregnancy to the point it could be detrimental to the babies health so SS step in.

Sex in pregnancy is normal. Having sex with the father of your baby or someone youre in a relationship with during pregnancy, practicing safe sex. No one would bat an eye. Normal.
A woman being ridiculously promiscuous or engaging in sex work during pregnancy, having unprotected sex with multiple men in unsafe setting which may have a detrimental effect of her unborn babies health, SS may step in.

Nobody is saying women can't have sex during pregnancy.

But do you honestly think rounding up dozens upon dozens of random, unscreened men to have sex with, one after another, after another whilst engaging in things like mixing semen with food and being urinated on is in the realms of normality??

It is an extreme and therefore open to criticism and potential involvement from child protection agencies.

As much as you may not like it, people will consider how the way she treats her own body affects her unborn child.
The same way a drug addict may be forced into rehab during pregnancy.

I'm not necessarily disagreeing with your post but men are not being, "rounded up". They are voluntarily turning up.

ItsTheSmell · 30/05/2026 11:57

Whyohwhy321 · 30/05/2026 11:54

I'm not necessarily disagreeing with your post but men are not being, "rounded up". They are voluntarily turning up.

Pedantic sillyness. Obviously the men aren't being forced, i just meant she is partaking in the sex and inviting them there.

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