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Would you enjoy this wedding?

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toastand · 07/01/2026 01:22

DP & I have decided to get married and we’ve spent the past week pricing up different days. DP is keen on a larger wedding, ceremony & reception all weekend type do. Manor House/Barn type thing. I was happy to marry just us and the kids in a nice registry office. I’d rather not get into debt and marry sooner.

3:30pm - Ceremony in London town hall
4:00pm - Photos & confetti throw
4:30pm - Chilled Prosecco & Beers on hired out bus.
5:00pm - Arrive at reception, welcome drinks and canapés. Singer or saxophonist.
6:00pm - 3 course sit down meal, plenty of wine & beer.
8:00pm - DJ
9:00ish: Evening Food
12:00am: Home

The reception is a lovely restaurant, exclusive hire, meal upstairs then into basement for party. We’d be spending at least 6 thousand on catering & venue, I’m wincing at this but it’s one of the cheaper options I’ve found.

All rough timings for now but would you attend this? My parents, siblings and nieces/nephews alone is 22. Both mine and DP’s family and friends are in London, he has a few family members who’d be travelling from Wales & up North.

Weve managed to compromise on about 60 guests for the entire day. I’m of course doing most the leg work in researching and enquiring, and to be honest I’m not sure he understood what weddings cost until I sat him down today and ran through the quotes.

Does this sound okay or do I need to go back to the drawing board?

OP posts:
whiteroseredrose · 08/01/2026 14:24

Yes please. That sounds lovely!

Nevereatcardboard · 08/01/2026 14:28

Could you make all or some of the soft drinks free at the bar? If it’s a warm day, I think it’s a good idea to have cold water or squash available throughout the afternoon and evening. (Most venues don’t seem to do this unless they are asked)

I agree you don’t need much evening buffet food, but a cup of tea with a small pastry or similar at around 9pm has gone down very well at various weddings I’ve been to.

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