Yes, I'd say yes! I've always wanted it but DP hasn't. When redoing our wills the lawyer said we should ...financially.... so DP suggested it but then went deep down incommunicado whilst I was happily organising a small 16 folk gathering but then realised DP did not really want it so after an argument I pulled out. Several months of difficult times. We are still together and love each other but I am still hurt (and furious) with DP who has now said we can do "it" but only if we do so without telling anyone.
I dont want to get hitched by force.