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Message to wrong chat group ….mortified

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MrsLighthouse · 26/06/2025 15:03

Re: I sent a cross message onto the family group instead of directly to my husband . Deleted now, but l feel so ashamed and mortified … reached out to a couple of members to apologise but no response.. it may or may not blow over but please tell me your experience of sending messages to the wrong group so l don’t feel so alone in my stupidity …

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Calliopespa · 26/06/2025 16:21

BedChem · 26/06/2025 15:14

Someone I know posted a video with a dildo shoved up her fanny. Was meant for someone she was messaging on Snapchat. Ended up on her story and she fell asleep.

she woke up and removed it at 11am the next day..

Oh please…
Also the way you phrased that, it sounded as though the dildo wasn’t removed till 11 am the next day.

CoralOP · 26/06/2025 16:21

My husband did the good old knocked his camera on while naked on a teams call 😆😆
He was lying in bed on his side, in a panic he couldn't work out how to turn it off and threw his laptop across to room. He didn't live it down for months.

fluffiphlox · 26/06/2025 16:22

BedChem · 26/06/2025 15:14

Someone I know posted a video with a dildo shoved up her fanny. Was meant for someone she was messaging on Snapchat. Ended up on her story and she fell asleep.

she woke up and removed it at 11am the next day..

The image or the dildo?

DrowningInSyrup · 26/06/2025 16:22

radiantsausage · 26/06/2025 15:05

My brother accidentally sexted the family group chat instead of his (now wife, then colleague) and the first person to realise was me as I was reading it out loud for my mother who didn't have her glasses on

He's just about lived it down 10 years on 😉

Yep, I've done that, but worse it was to the mum's FB group so I couldn't even delete it. Died of shame.

Comedycook · 26/06/2025 16:23

So you won't tell us what it said but you want stories.

Ok...I once sent a message to the wrong chat group.

DrowningInSyrup · 26/06/2025 16:23

fluffiphlox · 26/06/2025 16:22

The image or the dildo?

Hahahhahhaha

Matronic6 · 26/06/2025 16:23

DH is in a group chat for a kids sport and one of the mums accidentally sent a photo of her in a very compromising position. She then deleted it only for herself so every had to see it but no one could remove it!

CoralOP · 26/06/2025 16:24

One of my sons friends sent him a video of her pulling faces but when you turn the volume up her mum is in the background shouting how huge her poo was and how much its stinks after being constipated for days 😆😆😆
I would love to tell her but I can't do that to her.

jimmyeatworld · 26/06/2025 16:25

These stories 😆😆😆

DildoSaggins · 26/06/2025 16:25

I once received a whatsapp from my friend that said 'fire up the vibrator I am on the way round and I am horny as fuck' 😂

She meant to send it to her boyfriend and accidently sent it me. I was laughing so hard because I knew the mistake. I replied 'I am not sure I am ready to take our friendship to that level 😂'

Luckily we both found it funny.

BunnyLake · 26/06/2025 16:29

Mrsplants · 26/06/2025 15:21

Before the days when DH and I were married and lived together I sent a message that was supposed to go to my husband to my boss (who I wasn’t at all very close to) by mistake. I think my DH had asked what I was up to and so my text said

‘I’m sat in bed eating raisins and watching Emmerdale’.

I didn’t even realise my mistake until my boss replied ‘erm ok??’.

🤣

BunnyLake · 26/06/2025 16:32

This thread needs the laughing emoji back.

3luckystars · 26/06/2025 16:33

😂

IamChipmunk · 26/06/2025 16:35

Not as good as these but I have messaged my dd's performing arts club whatsapp group requesting that they please turn the oven on!

It was meant for dh 😆

Funnywonder · 26/06/2025 16:37

Comedycook · 26/06/2025 16:23

So you won't tell us what it said but you want stories.

Ok...I once sent a message to the wrong chat group.

Was thinking the same thing.

How about we hear your story @MrsLighthouse?

Overtheatlantic · 26/06/2025 16:37

BedChem · 26/06/2025 15:14

Someone I know posted a video with a dildo shoved up her fanny. Was meant for someone she was messaging on Snapchat. Ended up on her story and she fell asleep.

she woke up and removed it at 11am the next day..

Did she move to Australia or anywhere in the South Pacific, never to be seen again?

GertieLawrence · 26/06/2025 16:37

I worked with a guy who had been confirming interviews by text. His wife lived overseas. At bedtime he texted “love you, sleep tight xx” to one of the interviewees instead of his wife. She was a no show.

Ariela · 26/06/2025 16:41

Qwerty8474 · 26/06/2025 15:24

I messaged my manager saying "manager being difficult, can't get the day off" - it was meant to go to my bf. This was back in 2010, so couldn't delete it 😂 had to work the rest of the shift with her, so awkward.

I'd have styled it out with your manager and said 'Sorry, needed a good excuse to get out of going, hope you don't mind I blamed you'

cryptide · 26/06/2025 16:52

I had a message from someone I was in a meeting with asking me to bring down his tea which he'd left in the kitchen. As I was 80 miles away, unfortunately I was unable to help. As it took some time for me to notice, he must have been pretty thirsty!

MrsLighthouse · 26/06/2025 16:56

PerfectPennyKilledMyHusband · 26/06/2025 15:04

What did the message say?

Ok so l wasn’t avoiding saying my balls up as it’s quite boring but it was a group chat where some members of the family were complaining that an elderly unwell relative wasn’t answering the phone to them and my message ( l thought to my husband ) was “ why are they expecting her to pick up the phone to them . …she’s not out on shenanigans, she’s in a hospital bed probably sleeping .. maybe visit her ? ” I sort of stick by what l said but l need to learn that not everyone needs to hear my opinion … even though they did !

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Ibelievetheworldisburningtotheground · 26/06/2025 17:00

Sounds like a message they kind of needed to hear tbh
I'd stand by it if anyone moans.

momtoboys · 26/06/2025 17:00

BedChem · 26/06/2025 15:14

Someone I know posted a video with a dildo shoved up her fanny. Was meant for someone she was messaging on Snapchat. Ended up on her story and she fell asleep.

she woke up and removed it at 11am the next day..

I would have left town and changed my name.

EmeraldRoulette · 26/06/2025 17:02

Ibelievetheworldisburningtotheground · 26/06/2025 17:00

Sounds like a message they kind of needed to hear tbh
I'd stand by it if anyone moans.

This! I hope they did see it. Bunch of muppets.

ConcernedOfClapham · 26/06/2025 17:03

Mrsplants · 26/06/2025 15:21

Before the days when DH and I were married and lived together I sent a message that was supposed to go to my husband to my boss (who I wasn’t at all very close to) by mistake. I think my DH had asked what I was up to and so my text said

‘I’m sat in bed eating raisins and watching Emmerdale’.

I didn’t even realise my mistake until my boss replied ‘erm ok??’.

😆😆😆

MoominUnderWater · 26/06/2025 17:05

Not the wrong group chat but I left a rather sarcastic message to someone (that I didn’t know) on Instagram calling them a smelly skeffer (which they were in fairness) using the work/business Instagram account which I was social manager for rather than my personal one 🙈🤣