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Sleeping with 101 men in a day

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dorabora · 03/11/2024 07:35

This 23 year old has recently done this, and uploaded the content to only fans. She has received alot of hate on TikTok but the men who took part have barely been mentioned.

apple.news/Aqkq-kLDpTIOog_cxaObeIg

What do you think ?

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Areolaborealis · 03/11/2024 08:16

KrisKringle23 · 03/11/2024 08:12

I remember watching a documentary about a woman who "starred" in a film where she slept with 100 men (I guess was why this was 101).... she literally say there a couple of years later cutting her wrists in front of the camera and was incredibly disturbed by it. Men really do hate women and some women sadly don't see that until it's too late.

I wonder if this what I remember. Sad

OliviaRodrighost · 03/11/2024 08:17

I feel sick. This is horrible. I feel for this woman, she must have some issues that need dealing with. I think it’s borderline abuse. Makes me so uncomfortable.

dorabora · 03/11/2024 08:18

It is very worrying as a pp said that men think of women as a toy and a laugh. I think to myself what would my husband think if one of our daughters did this ? But what would he think if one of his best mates said they had joined a queue to have sex with a woman ? Would he think it's funny?
I think men can separate sex and women can't they

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MSLRT · 03/11/2024 08:18

Girls I knew who slept with everyone and anyone were often the insecure and unhappy ones who were desperate for affection and attention. She might get a sexual buzz out of the first one or two but after that she is being used like a blow up doll for men to relieve themselves. You have to pity her.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 03/11/2024 08:18

KrisKringle23 · 03/11/2024 08:12

I remember watching a documentary about a woman who "starred" in a film where she slept with 100 men (I guess was why this was 101).... she literally say there a couple of years later cutting her wrists in front of the camera and was incredibly disturbed by it. Men really do hate women and some women sadly don't see that until it's too late.

I think this is probably different to porn stars from porn films as these OnlyFan women are in control. No one is telling them what to do or directing them. If they were really smart and stayed away from drugs/alcohol they could earn a fortune in a couple of years and be set up for life. The problem will be if they let the lifestyle creep into everything and then in a few years time when there are younger girls doing similar they end up doing more extreme stuff to stay relevant.

BetterWithPockets · 03/11/2024 08:18

Years ago I remember watching a Louis Theroux documentary about sex parties. There was a young woman who was (I think) paid to host them. At the time, she seemed entirely clear it was her body, her choice. The only thing I really remember about it is that when LT went back a little while later to speak to her about it, she bitterly regretted it (I think she’d since found God…) and said she’d been in a bad place at the time. It made me feel very sad for her.
I haven’t read or seen anything about this particular woman, but I often think these people can’t be very happy in themselves to do these things. Or perhaps I’m projecting my feelings onto them and they are very in fact happy and well adjusted…

fishyrumour · 03/11/2024 08:19

dorabora · 03/11/2024 07:57

I worry for my ds10 growing up, I try my hardest to instil in him that women should be treated with respect etc etc but then you get young girls going round doing stuff like this sending the complete opposite message out.

How ridiculous. You can't extrapolate the behaviour of one young women to all of them. TBH I'm wondering if she's an extremely troubled young woman if this is the only way she can get the attention she clearly craves.

I know lots of hardworking, extremely impressive young women.

Piggled · 03/11/2024 08:20

Given how disgusting her parents are for essentially pimping her out, I would hazard a guess she was abused as a child. Most sex workers have been. She also seems completely sociopathic though.

I’m also disgusted that this is even allowed in today’s society. I despise OnlyFans. Online porn has been one of the most destructive forces in modern times in my opinion.

BackForABit · 03/11/2024 08:23

MoreCardassianThanKardashian · 03/11/2024 07:47

This wound me up the wrong way. She'll never be cheated on but she encourages men to cheat. At some point she's in for a rude awakening.

Hang on, wasn't it the other sex worker who said that? Sounds like the main woman this article focused on actually distanced herself from the other one because she disagreed with those views.

AquaPeer · 03/11/2024 08:23

MSLRT · 03/11/2024 08:18

Girls I knew who slept with everyone and anyone were often the insecure and unhappy ones who were desperate for affection and attention. She might get a sexual buzz out of the first one or two but after that she is being used like a blow up doll for men to relieve themselves. You have to pity her.

I watched a TikTok about one of these women saying something like “why wouldn’t you sleep with 100 men in a day” and it cut to another clip of a young woman saying “because I had a dad who loves me” which I thought was likely spot on.

mindutopia · 03/11/2024 08:23

God, I’d be so bored after 2. 😂

IDontHateRainbows · 03/11/2024 08:24

The clap clinic in that area is gonna get really busy over the coming months I'd imagine.

Grim.

fishyrumour · 03/11/2024 08:24

dorabora · 03/11/2024 08:18

It is very worrying as a pp said that men think of women as a toy and a laugh. I think to myself what would my husband think if one of our daughters did this ? But what would he think if one of his best mates said they had joined a queue to have sex with a woman ? Would he think it's funny?
I think men can separate sex and women can't they

Stop generalising. No way would my sons do this: they respect themselves and women too much for that. God knows what kind of families these men grow up in.

Theextraordinaryisintheordinary · 03/11/2024 08:25

They should interview her again when she’s mid 40s. Her faff will have dried up then and she’ll be doing cross stitch dicks for fun! Silly girl. So damaging. It’s like she’s fallen straight out out a 1940s porn cult. Be interesting to know what her role models were growing up.

ImNoSuperman · 03/11/2024 08:25

@Areolaborealis Sabrina Johnson 2000 men. There's a shocking amount of these and they aren't recent.

Surgicalprecison · 03/11/2024 08:26

Maybe I mix in different circles but the men I know, and lads when I grew up were the same, don't find women with a significant sexual history or at least the women who are overtly and loudly sexual attractive. They all seem to steer towards women who keep sex and their sex lives private. This kind of behaviour would turn them right off.

OonaStubbs · 03/11/2024 08:26

I've heard of 101 dalmatians but this is ridiculous.

Laptoppie · 03/11/2024 08:27

Rancid on all sides to be honest.

I'd suspect like others that she has experienced something in her life that has led her down this path, and I hope she gets the support she needs. The men however I think just saw it as a shag.

MooFroo · 03/11/2024 08:27

“Her parents are very very supportive of her” and het mum helps to manage her money 🥴

shame on all of them! You can’t do shit like this without a huge negative mental impact at some point

Laptoppie · 03/11/2024 08:28

Surgicalprecison · 03/11/2024 08:26

Maybe I mix in different circles but the men I know, and lads when I grew up were the same, don't find women with a significant sexual history or at least the women who are overtly and loudly sexual attractive. They all seem to steer towards women who keep sex and their sex lives private. This kind of behaviour would turn them right off.

I think theres a stark difference to be fair between women men would happily have no strings sex with and those they'd want to pursue a relationship with. Lots speak about not wanting an overly sexual or promiscuous woman, but there are plenty of men happily having sex with them.

KTheGrey · 03/11/2024 08:28

JadedVeryJaded · 03/11/2024 07:45

I’m appalled that condoms weren’t used every time, according to the article, and the men didn’t need to show proof of being clear of STIs. Just revolting.

Oh no. Not using condoms in that situation is awful. Every new detail I hear about this story makes it more depressing.

Surgicalprecison · 03/11/2024 08:29

There's a woman on tiktok who is famous for her antics with a traffic cone. She's got kids but has also set herself and them up for life, buying a huge portfolio of housing stock she rents out to low income households. That said, her personality is such that I find it a shame she went that direction when she could have made it in mainstream entertainment.

Changeyourfuckingcar · 03/11/2024 08:29

AquaPeer · 03/11/2024 08:23

I watched a TikTok about one of these women saying something like “why wouldn’t you sleep with 100 men in a day” and it cut to another clip of a young woman saying “because I had a dad who loves me” which I thought was likely spot on.

I know it’s ‘just’ a flippant comment and the point really is that somewhere along the line this woman has had some kind of trauma or abuse, but I hate these ‘fatherless behaviour’ comments so much. My dad was awful, abusive in nearly every way, and I’ve not seen him since I was a v young teenager… I’m not out there shagging 100 men in a day!! It puts so much emphasis on men being the one to save the day with their behaviour, or otherwise ruin your life, and it annoys me every time. I’m probably not making the point I want to overly clearly, annoyingly.

Kitte321 · 03/11/2024 08:29

This is disgraceful. Dehumanising, degrading and just shameful.
But until people (men) atop paying to see it there will always be an exhibitionist ready to spread her legs for money and infamy. And a man ready to ‘help’ her. Disgusting really.

BelgianBeers · 03/11/2024 08:30

Poor girl. Starting at 18 and having a mum involved says plenty about how she had already been damaged by life.