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Sleeping with 101 men in a day

719 replies

dorabora · 03/11/2024 07:35

This 23 year old has recently done this, and uploaded the content to only fans. She has received alot of hate on TikTok but the men who took part have barely been mentioned.

apple.news/Aqkq-kLDpTIOog_cxaObeIg

What do you think ?

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kas24 · 03/11/2024 08:31

terrywynne · 03/11/2024 07:54

I think that's a different girl that this one used to partner with but doesn't any more - the article OP linked talks about them both

There's more then one of em. Fgs

Surgicalprecison · 03/11/2024 08:31

Laptoppie · 03/11/2024 08:28

I think theres a stark difference to be fair between women men would happily have no strings sex with and those they'd want to pursue a relationship with. Lots speak about not wanting an overly sexual or promiscuous woman, but there are plenty of men happily having sex with them.

That's true. There's "servicing a need" and settling down. I don't know what's worse either, the fact these girls feel the need to do this so young or the fact they record it and it follows them around for life. She's never going to be rid of this, is she likely to ever be able to lead a normal life like Annabel Chong (Google tells me she's an IT specialist now) or is the internet too pervasive now?

EalingLucy · 03/11/2024 08:32

I think she might regret this when she is older, but I respect her right to do what she wants with her body and don’t agree with all the slut shaming.

I worry she has mental health issues tho. And agree it dehumanises women.

TheaBrandt · 03/11/2024 08:32

She must be mentally ill or damaged. No normal happy girl would do that. Very sad.

The men taking advantage are disgusting pigs obviously and should have their names addresses publicised so women know to avoid them.

IDontHateRainbows · 03/11/2024 08:32

Changeyourfuckingcar · 03/11/2024 08:29

I know it’s ‘just’ a flippant comment and the point really is that somewhere along the line this woman has had some kind of trauma or abuse, but I hate these ‘fatherless behaviour’ comments so much. My dad was awful, abusive in nearly every way, and I’ve not seen him since I was a v young teenager… I’m not out there shagging 100 men in a day!! It puts so much emphasis on men being the one to save the day with their behaviour, or otherwise ruin your life, and it annoys me every time. I’m probably not making the point I want to overly clearly, annoyingly.

Edited

I don't think this is specific to men/ dads. A woman abused or neglected by their mother as a child may end up on this path also.

MsNeis · 03/11/2024 08:34

Sadness is what comes to me.

KTheGrey · 03/11/2024 08:35

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 03/11/2024 08:18

I think this is probably different to porn stars from porn films as these OnlyFan women are in control. No one is telling them what to do or directing them. If they were really smart and stayed away from drugs/alcohol they could earn a fortune in a couple of years and be set up for life. The problem will be if they let the lifestyle creep into everything and then in a few years time when there are younger girls doing similar they end up doing more extreme stuff to stay relevant.

That’s the porn trajectory, isn’t it? More extreme and more degrading over time.

Yes, if she gets out of the performance end she may be set up for life, but there seem a greater number of women who cannot make it work than those who can, and it looks like that’s because the women who do this are traumatised to begin with.

DysonSphere · 03/11/2024 08:36

I'm going to be contrary here.

From a moral and traditionally christian-informed world view, I find it morally outrageous.

But this is a secular and increasingly irreligious society where morals are increasingly defined by who is hurt.

From that perspective all people involved have consented. This is a woman from a two parent family. She's young, white, beautiful, intelligent enough to get to university, business minded and as such sits within and occupies an extremely privileged sphere of reality. With all that privilege and all those gifted life tokens, she has chosen this.

I mean she understands the psychology of sexual kink and if she wants to inspire and fulfill it, why not? In a post modern world, sex outside of marriage is more about pleasure than family. Is sex outside the confines of marriage more wrong if it involves more partners?

I would say not. If consent and pleasure is (joyfully) given, and (joyfully) taken, what other parameters are we judging it adversely by?

daisychain01 · 03/11/2024 08:36

Why do people get sucked in by such garbage.

rainydaysandrainbows · 03/11/2024 08:36

@Changeyourfuckingcar

"I know it’s ‘just’ a flippant comment and the point really is that somewhere along the line this woman has had some kind of trauma or abuse, but I hate these ‘fatherless behaviour’ comments so much. My dad was awful, abusive in nearly every way, and I’ve not seen him since I was a v young teenager… I’m not out there shagging 100 men in a day!! It puts so much emphasis on men being the one to save the day with their behaviour, or otherwise ruin your life, and it annoys me every time. I’m probably not making the point I want to overly clearly, annoyingly."

I know exactly what you mean and agree completely.

DaphneduMaureen · 03/11/2024 08:37

AquaPeer · 03/11/2024 08:23

I watched a TikTok about one of these women saying something like “why wouldn’t you sleep with 100 men in a day” and it cut to another clip of a young woman saying “because I had a dad who loves me” which I thought was likely spot on.

That’s not a good thing to say, that’s not the “gotcha!” you think it is. Women exist outside of the context of the men in their lives.

Piggled · 03/11/2024 08:37

EalingLucy · 03/11/2024 08:32

I think she might regret this when she is older, but I respect her right to do what she wants with her body and don’t agree with all the slut shaming.

I worry she has mental health issues tho. And agree it dehumanises women.

I don’t really agree with the ‘people should be able to do what they want with their bodies’ argument.

I really don’t think as a society we should be sending the message that this is in any way ok. Ultimately she isn’t just doing this ‘to herself’. The fact she is spreading it around all over the internet is damaging in so many ways for both young men and women.

we don’t exist in a silo. We don’t just have free rein to go around doing what we like. She is not doing this privately. Quite the opposite.

AquaPeer · 03/11/2024 08:37

Changeyourfuckingcar · 03/11/2024 08:29

I know it’s ‘just’ a flippant comment and the point really is that somewhere along the line this woman has had some kind of trauma or abuse, but I hate these ‘fatherless behaviour’ comments so much. My dad was awful, abusive in nearly every way, and I’ve not seen him since I was a v young teenager… I’m not out there shagging 100 men in a day!! It puts so much emphasis on men being the one to save the day with their behaviour, or otherwise ruin your life, and it annoys me every time. I’m probably not making the point I want to overly clearly, annoyingly.

Edited

No I really understand what you mean, and the vast majority of women who grew up with poor fathers will be like you, making their way in the world.
But lack of male role modelling can impact both girls and boys. I wouldn’t for a second say that a dad can save the day. But desperation for male attention does often have quite a simple reason behind it.

Zanatdy · 03/11/2024 08:37

My first thought is how sore she must be, UTI for sure!

Ifeellikeateenageragain · 03/11/2024 08:37

kas24 · 03/11/2024 07:46

It's people like her what are wrong with this generation.. is this the same girl who likes to sleep with married men & lads who are barely legal. Disgusting

This type of stunt has been done before in previous years/generations. You just might have been shielded from it.

KTSl1964 · 03/11/2024 08:38

101 say in 10 is 10 men a hour!!! - or did she stay awake for 24 hour so it was 4 an hour!!! WTF - where they queuing outside he home - NEXT - it’s horrible and she must have so little self respect or value on herself to do this. She will regret it at some stage. I’d agree she has had abuse in her life.

thegirlwithemousyhair · 03/11/2024 08:39

She's a prostitute - she monetises it by sticking it online and tries to pretend its empowering.

Just another example of the popularising/normalising of sociopathic/self-destructive/mentally disturbed behaviour using TikTok/OnlyFans. The fact that someone is posting it here is part probably of her marketing strategy....

Piggled · 03/11/2024 08:39

DysonSphere · 03/11/2024 08:36

I'm going to be contrary here.

From a moral and traditionally christian-informed world view, I find it morally outrageous.

But this is a secular and increasingly irreligious society where morals are increasingly defined by who is hurt.

From that perspective all people involved have consented. This is a woman from a two parent family. She's young, white, beautiful, intelligent enough to get to university, business minded and as such sits within and occupies an extremely privileged sphere of reality. With all that privilege and all those gifted life tokens, she has chosen this.

I mean she understands the psychology of sexual kink and if she wants to inspire and fulfill it, why not? In a post modern world, sex outside of marriage is more about pleasure than family. Is sex outside the confines of marriage more wrong if it involves more partners?

I would say not. If consent and pleasure is (joyfully) given, and (joyfully) taken, what other parameters are we judging it adversely by?

If we are judging morals by who is harmed then this is an extreme act of self harm in my opinion and her own parents are facilitating it and profiting from it.

I also think it’s damaging for society in general, that the message is this is ok.

User123456713 · 03/11/2024 08:41

Kitte321 · 03/11/2024 08:29

This is disgraceful. Dehumanising, degrading and just shameful.
But until people (men) atop paying to see it there will always be an exhibitionist ready to spread her legs for money and infamy. And a man ready to ‘help’ her. Disgusting really.

Yet society sees no problem at all with male celebs who sleep with 100s of women, look at Rod Stewart, among many others, fawned over.

No one says he has MH issues or is disgusting, even with 8 kids and 5 different mothers.

This woman may or may not have MH issues, she might also just like sex and the money it brings.

But we always blame the woman.

Blueeyedmale · 03/11/2024 08:41

Very sad she must have some serious mental issues to do this but even more concerning it looks like it was easy to find 100 men to take advantage of this lady who clearly has some issues she needs to resolve.

kas24 · 03/11/2024 08:41

PortiasBiscuit · 03/11/2024 07:58

What is wrong with you? Do you actually know any young women in “this generation”?
How dare you imply that my brave, hardworking DDs or their lovely friends, or my delightful workmates/ nieces would behave like this, need to behave like this!
This young woman is obviously desperate and unhappy, I feel sorry for her and raging at the people who put her up to this, but how can you say that this behaviour defines a whole generation.
Shame on you!

Excuse me, first off, i am a young woman . Secondly why you making it so personal I didn't say anything about your " brave hardworking dds " or their pals 🤣🤣 I'm simply giving my opinion on the situation if you don't like it that's a you problem.

User123456713 · 03/11/2024 08:42

Blueeyedmale · 03/11/2024 08:41

Very sad she must have some serious mental issues to do this but even more concerning it looks like it was easy to find 100 men to take advantage of this lady who clearly has some issues she needs to resolve.

Actually found 200 v easily, in case of drop outs/failure to get it up!

OonaStubbs · 03/11/2024 08:43

User123456713 · 03/11/2024 08:41

Yet society sees no problem at all with male celebs who sleep with 100s of women, look at Rod Stewart, among many others, fawned over.

No one says he has MH issues or is disgusting, even with 8 kids and 5 different mothers.

This woman may or may not have MH issues, she might also just like sex and the money it brings.

But we always blame the woman.

I don't know any man who has claimed to have slept with over 100 women in one day.

Some people would have a problem with a woman who has slept with 100s of men over her lifetime. I'm not saying I wouldn't but it's a lot different to having sex with 101 men in one day.

SallyWD · 03/11/2024 08:43

TheaBrandt · 03/11/2024 08:32

She must be mentally ill or damaged. No normal happy girl would do that. Very sad.

The men taking advantage are disgusting pigs obviously and should have their names addresses publicised so women know to avoid them.

She's apparently well known for targeting barely legal teenage boys. Let's not paint her as the only victim. If a man was filming himself having sex with barely legal girls, he would be rightly condemned.

ThePoshUns · 03/11/2024 08:43

Her vagina must be like a wizards sleeve after all that.
How grim.

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