So according to some posts on this thread…
ways to avoid being abused as a child:
be rich, white, western, educated to university standard and from a 2parent family or at least dad about
🙄
and ways in which impossible to have been abused or groomed or manipulated young woman is undesirable to men:
physically ‘too loose’, mentally ‘too loose’, smells, riddled with STI’s, dirty, morally corrupting, a ‘wank puppet/sex toy’ and mummy wouldn’t like her
and of course this one singular young woman is also simultaneously ‘what’s wrong with this generation/the world’ and a bad role model sending the wrong message to both younger girls and boys therefore perpetuating a cycle of depravity all by herself
except for the 101 men ofc, and the other men who wanted to participate but couldn’t due to erectile disfunction or distance or preference to keep their interest private so also then excepting the thousand’s of men paying to watch, and the men who set up the platforms to facilitate watching that creates demand
I am so relieved that at least some posters do understand how this abuse in plain sight could be arrived at - though I am greatly saddened that likely that understanding has come at a very high price through personal experience
abusers of women and children may have ‘preferences’ but can and do abuse whoever is in front of them because they do not see ‘whoever’ they see whatever
they will however prioritise abusing those women and children they think people will notice less or care less about - the ones easiest to pass off as liars, fantasists, or deserving of abuse
and if we as women collude with men in labelling some women and/or children as impossible or unlikely to have been abused due to xyz
or somewhere between ‘not worth protecting’ and deserving of abuse because of abc
then we are part of the proliferation of abuse
personally I have not, and will not, read about this ‘event’ or similar because to my mind it is only possible for the young women to participate in these acts of self harm if they themselves believe this is all they are worth
a child loved and protected, or one who was helped timely and appropriately if harm was done to them, would likely not grow up to be a young woman who would feel this was in any way empowering
but a child who was harmed and told to ‘get over it’ or ‘sure it’s only her’ or ‘thank god it wasn’t my daughter and only that one who has always been gobby, grubby, pretentious, attention-seeking, from that family with less morals, money, standing’ etc etc
she’ll grow up to think ‘her place’ in the world is to be ‘entertainment’ for males, to be the sex toy, wank puppet, blow-up dolly used and abused by all and sundry
so all the good women/men can look down on them and be like ‘urgh no wonder there is abuse when some women will debase themselves - always one out there who will spread her legs
and even if by some miracle an abused child or abused woman gets away from the actual real life males abusing them - you can bet your perfect untouched ass that the photos, videos and pure people condemnation will follow them all the rest of their lives
no wonder so many abused women and children end up in, or seemingly choose, further sexual exploitation
no-one in the ‘pure’ camp wants them really - they are too tainted, damaged, infectious and morally corrupted
so it may seem to be preferable to stay with the abusive males, porn or prostitution, because at least there is the illusion of being ‘wanted’
as opposed the illusion that main stream society wants them anywhere near them, their husbands/wives, daughters or sons