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Does this work for a wedding guest?

99 replies

PawsAndReflection · 31/08/2023 01:26

I absolutely love this dress and it's. A gorgeous fit, but I'm worried I might come across as too formal- please let me know if I'm overthinking!

Context: wedding is in Istanbul, in the evening and the bride has told me she loves it, but I just want to sensecheck. I've only recently lost enough weight to wear anything like this and I'm still trying to get used to adapting my style from constantly covering up all my bumpy bits.

www.thereformation.com/products/frankie-silk-dress/1304134CAF.html

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staycaysandvacays · 31/08/2023 12:19

Stunning dress and I would definitely wear it to a wedding. It says sold out though?

Sickscared · 31/08/2023 12:21

I'm laughing out loud that you think this is in any way comparable to the stunning dresss OP has posted. Come on, this is super old fashioned and frumpy.

JLC24 · 31/08/2023 12:27

PawsAndReflection · 31/08/2023 01:26

I absolutely love this dress and it's. A gorgeous fit, but I'm worried I might come across as too formal- please let me know if I'm overthinking!

Context: wedding is in Istanbul, in the evening and the bride has told me she loves it, but I just want to sensecheck. I've only recently lost enough weight to wear anything like this and I'm still trying to get used to adapting my style from constantly covering up all my bumpy bits.

www.thereformation.com/products/frankie-silk-dress/1304134CAF.html

Stunning 😍

Definitely not TOO formal. Weddings are one of the most formal occasions you can go to, imo you cannot be overdressed as a wedding.

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Flyinggeesei234 · 31/08/2023 14:06

Nooooooo! Step away from Phase Eight.

Mushroo · 31/08/2023 14:10

It’s lovely! The phase eight one suggested is awful - something an older lady would wear on a cruise ship.

Enjoy, the accessories sound perfect as well.

DisforDarkChocolate · 31/08/2023 14:30

With all the love Phase Eight gets on here I don't know why there isn't a shop in every town.

I'll admit it , I'd do know why, it's because it's bloody awful, frumpy and overpriced.

IClaudine · 31/08/2023 15:06

Mushroo · 31/08/2023 14:10

It’s lovely! The phase eight one suggested is awful - something an older lady would wear on a cruise ship.

Enjoy, the accessories sound perfect as well.

Yes, only older "ladies" wear awful dresses. Nice bit of casual ageism.💥

'Tis a lovely dress OP. Very glamorous.

VerbenaGirl · 31/08/2023 15:11

GarlicGrace · 31/08/2023 02:18

This. The bride says she likes it - surely that's the highest seal of approval? AFAIK, Istanbul loves to dress up. Have you got some nice dangly earrings?

Congrats on getting into the kind of shape this dress demands - and have a great time!

Yes, absolutely this and this. You'll look fabulous!

Spink86 · 31/08/2023 19:43

My husband is Turkish and having been to a few weddings myself they definitely go for it! So you definitely won't be out of place!
One thing is check that they are not doing a party outside because that is fairly common and if so you may want to take a coat/jacket to keep off the chill

Rjh76 · 01/09/2023 07:56

PawsAndReflection · 31/08/2023 01:26

I absolutely love this dress and it's. A gorgeous fit, but I'm worried I might come across as too formal- please let me know if I'm overthinking!

Context: wedding is in Istanbul, in the evening and the bride has told me she loves it, but I just want to sensecheck. I've only recently lost enough weight to wear anything like this and I'm still trying to get used to adapting my style from constantly covering up all my bumpy bits.

www.thereformation.com/products/frankie-silk-dress/1304134CAF.html

It’s beautiful!

stargazer2012 · 01/09/2023 08:12

Go for it, show off that new bod! You'll look fabulous!

Prescottdanni123 · 01/09/2023 08:20

It is a lovely dress. I don't know enough about Turkish weddings to know if it is suitable. But if you are worried, you could always dress it down with a blazer or a wrap.

Londontown12 · 01/09/2023 08:25

Beautiful deffo wear it !! X

crew2022 · 01/09/2023 08:36

If I had to the figure for it I would absolutely wear that

MenopauseSucks · 01/09/2023 09:11

The dress looks amazing so I'd say go for it!

Just one silly question - how do you pee in a body suit if it's full length?

k1233 · 01/09/2023 09:37

Beautiful dress OP. My only question is what time of year is the wedding? If it's likely to be really warm, if you sweat in that colour, it'll be visible. The body suit will work in your favour there, but might not help eg under arms.

May be a non issue but is something I'm a little conscious of in a subtropical zone.

As I said, beautiful dress 🙂

Wannabegreenfingers · 01/09/2023 10:52

I think it's lovely to wear to a formal evening wedding. I see so many posts on here and the dresses aren't at all suitable for a wedding. They look more like something you'd wear everyday to the office or for a pub lunch.

TooOldForASugarDaddy · 01/09/2023 11:03

If the wedding is on the other side of the Atlantic, it is perfect.

Aworldofwonder · 01/09/2023 11:23

Oh wow something that is actually stylish and beautiful at last.

Mamabear48 · 01/09/2023 11:43

That’s absolutely lovely! I would even wear it to a UK wedding in the summer. I have a wedding tomorrow and my dress is a similar style

OnlyFoolsnMothers · 01/09/2023 11:44

I think it’s fabulous- just get a shawl to wear too

my82my · 01/09/2023 11:50

I got married last year and one of my guests wore a dress just like this, I thought she looked stunning. You've shown the bride and she's happy so go for it.

SingingSands · 01/09/2023 11:50

OP that dress is absolutely stunning! I have serious envy - if I was 20 years younger I'd buy it immediately!

Beautiful colour and fit.

I'm going to investigate your bodysuit recommendation 😃

Goingdeaf · 01/09/2023 12:19

It's perfect for the wedding you described.

MinnieMouse0 · 01/09/2023 12:42

I love it!

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