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Woolly Hugs: A blanket in memory of JanH.

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KnottyAndPistey · 17/08/2023 16:06

Just devastating. Like many we just couldn’t take it in that lovely JanH had died. Utterly shocking. We had no idea she was ill. Words really do fail, we are just so very sorry life has been so cruel to her and her family.

Jan was one of the original Mumsnetters when it was first started. The site owes much to those early posters, they really did act as cornerstones. She has been a busy poster ever since. Many of you will have been supported by JanH on the vast number of threads she supported, whether it was advice on child tax credits, CVs, pensions, buying tents, holidays in France, cars, washing machines etc. She was the undefeated Queen of the Google search, and so funny and kind, giving SO MUCH of herself to others in need of help and support. She had a real zest for helping others. A real inspiration.

We are so pleased to say that her family have accepted our offer of a Woolly Hug, and we hope that they will feel our love and support and that the blanket may give whatever comfort it can to them.

We want to make this blanket a real tribute and celebration, will you join us?

We shall need crocheters, knitters and donors. If you would like to donate wool or funds, we can match you up. If you would like to join in but need donated wool, we can help there too. Please PM with your offer of help.

We have spoken with her daughter and friends to create a list of colours/ideas, but fully recognise folks may have their own memories or ideas through MN.

Our palette for JanH. The main colours..

  • Blues, her favourite colour.

JanH was a passionate feminist and so we are looking at using suffragette colours too

  • Suffragette purple (Think Cadbury chocolate colour)
  • Suffragette green (Darker, more forest green)
  • Cream but please one of the following - Debbie Bliss Rialto DK 02 ecru, Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK WM4 cream, or Drops Merino 01 off white

Accents - so not whole squares, but use within a square

  • Oranges
  • Burgundy
  • Yellow
  • Silver
  • Pinks
  • Red
  • Other greens

The Yarns.. Just from the brands listed please because we know they combine for wash and wear. If you still have any of our wools that have been discontinued - Artesano Superwash Merino DK, Debbie Bliss Cashmerino DK, Sublime extra fine DK, or James C. Brett Pure Merino DK in your stash, please do use them.

The Yarn we will be Using….

  • Debbie Bliss Rialto DK currently on sale HERE
  • Drops Merino Extra Fine DK, currently on sale here…
  • Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK, currently ob sale here..
  • Katia Merino 100% DK, small discounts on their website here…
  • King Cole Luxury Merino DK. Try Wool Warehouse, can't find it on sale
  • Patons Merino Extrafine DK Currently on sale https://ladysewandsewknits.co.uk/product/patons-merino-extrafine-dk/ here]
  • Also Ebay is always a possible option. Please shout through if you need help.

Ideas for themed squares
Suffragettes
She loved her garden, her favourite flowers were tulips, lilies and alstroemerias.
She adored cats
She loved a good weather app, and was always one for a forecast, and her ‘lovely’ Lancashire weather, so rain clouds and possibly sun! She loved a sunset too.
She was passionate about recycling
She loved red wine!
She loved travel
She loved playing Wordle
She loved the music of Paul Simon
If anyone would like to make a set of initials (want to make sure we have them equally represented) they are J, B, S, J, J, F, A.
She had lived in the States and there are still family connections to New York. Can anyone create the American flag?
She adored BOOTHS in Cumbria, and would send the Christmas book to folk who lived too far away! This has a relatively straight forward logo, will post below, but it could be possible.

These really are just ideas, we also need simple squares too. Simple or complex, made by beginner or expert, we genuinely welcome them all. It really is the love and thought that counts.

Squares to be six inches, using 4mm needles or hook. Please knot off VERY carefully when finishing or changing colour and sew your ends in, thank you!

Posting will be to Teddington, just PM if you need the address. A provisional last posting date of the end of September, so around 6 weeks away.

JanH was such an absolute rock for so many here on Mumsnet, time to do something for her now. We were lucky to know her.

Sending so much love. It is poignant we start today as her funeral is taking place. Thanks

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HunkermunkerYesReally · 17/08/2023 16:15

Thank you so much for organising this, really appreciate it. I will join and make squares. Still can't believe Jan has gone ❤️

cittigirl · 17/08/2023 16:18

Thank you so much KnottyAndPistey.

Peridot1 · 17/08/2023 16:18

Will pm. I’m happy to donate cash or wool.

cittigirl · 17/08/2023 16:23

You can add Burger King to that list 😉

Wherethewildthymeblows · 17/08/2023 16:28

I am happy to make squares but would appreciate a donation of yarn if that is possible. At the moment, I could take any colour and make plain squares with them. It is years and years since I last helped with a Woolly Hug but didn't want to let this moment go by as I remember Jan very fondly on here in the early days. But I am a bit out of the loop with how it all works. Will someone pm me if there is a donor available?

Rockschooldropout · 17/08/2023 16:36

This came as such a shock to me , I joined 19 years ago as spacecadet and Jan was one of the first MNers I really knew .. she was a tremendous support through some tough times for me .. but also a joy to “know” she was funny , a real sharp wit you don’t see a lot … I enjoyed her Fb posts , her window weather views ,family .. funny political digs and no nonsense “what the heck is going on here “ posts ..
I think there definitely needs to be weather , gardening, countryside and cats to name a few .
despite being crafty , knitting, sewing and crochet I fail miserably at but Would be happy to donate towards yarn

Rockschooldropout · 17/08/2023 16:40

@Wherethewildthymeblows I’d be happy to donate some yarn

KnottyAndPistey · 17/08/2023 16:41

@Wherethewildthymeblows can you message us with your address and we'll get it to you?

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KnottyAndPistey · 17/08/2023 16:41

And Burger King then :)

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PiggyPlumPie · 17/08/2023 16:43

Happy to help with this one x

BlueEyeshadow · 17/08/2023 16:45

I'm in. Will go and check the stash for colours!

MadisonAvenue · 17/08/2023 16:51

I’d love to help, but could I have some yarn please? I’ll PM you

Wherethewildthymeblows · 17/08/2023 16:54

Have PM'd (badly! So long since I've PMed anyone, I messed it up!) Be assured, I can knit and crochet like a professional, just rubbish with tech.

SpiralArchitect · 17/08/2023 16:57

I will help - have already messaged you. Thinking of Jan's family Flowers

Zhx3 · 17/08/2023 17:00

I'll make some squares for Jan's blanket. Love and sympathy to her family x

Whatsthatbrightlight · 17/08/2023 17:16

Such sad news. Count me in. I have ordered some wool

KnottyAndPistey · 17/08/2023 17:23

Thank you lovely people

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KnottyAndPistey · 17/08/2023 17:24

@BlueEyeshadow yes. Perfect

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KnottyAndPistey · 17/08/2023 17:25

@Wherethewildthymeblows - we hear you! Made a total cocking mess of links earlier. There have been changes afoot!

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Raiponceinatangle · 17/08/2023 17:29

Hi, I didn’t know JanH but she sounds wonderful. I’m happy to help, I could tackle the 7 initials on plainish squares if that would be ok? If there’s any chance of donated wool in the suffragette colours that would be appreciated. I have some King Cole Leaf and King Cole Hyacinth left over from previous, but not enough for anywhere near 7 squares unfortunately. ❤

Iamacatslave · 17/08/2023 17:32

I’m happy to donate wool. Please PM me details of where to send.

SwedishEdith · 17/08/2023 17:50

Thanks, I'm in.

SilverSilverStreet · 17/08/2023 17:50

There are charts for the US flags over time here. The one with 50 stars (white stitches) is right at the end.

If anyone is inspired to do it and turn it into a 6” square I hope that’s helpful. Or, use this one and expand it to the right size. It would be a lot easier without 50 stars - does that matter?

I’m happy to do it if not, I just might need to research the right shades of red and blue, and presumably white rather than ecru is better?

ZingDramaQueenOfSheeba · 17/08/2023 17:52

very sorry to hear, sending my love to her family & friends

I'm in & got yarn