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Woolly Hugs: A blanket in memory of JanH.

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KnottyAndPistey · 17/08/2023 16:06

Just devastating. Like many we just couldn’t take it in that lovely JanH had died. Utterly shocking. We had no idea she was ill. Words really do fail, we are just so very sorry life has been so cruel to her and her family.

Jan was one of the original Mumsnetters when it was first started. The site owes much to those early posters, they really did act as cornerstones. She has been a busy poster ever since. Many of you will have been supported by JanH on the vast number of threads she supported, whether it was advice on child tax credits, CVs, pensions, buying tents, holidays in France, cars, washing machines etc. She was the undefeated Queen of the Google search, and so funny and kind, giving SO MUCH of herself to others in need of help and support. She had a real zest for helping others. A real inspiration.

We are so pleased to say that her family have accepted our offer of a Woolly Hug, and we hope that they will feel our love and support and that the blanket may give whatever comfort it can to them.

We want to make this blanket a real tribute and celebration, will you join us?

We shall need crocheters, knitters and donors. If you would like to donate wool or funds, we can match you up. If you would like to join in but need donated wool, we can help there too. Please PM with your offer of help.

We have spoken with her daughter and friends to create a list of colours/ideas, but fully recognise folks may have their own memories or ideas through MN.

Our palette for JanH. The main colours..

  • Blues, her favourite colour.

JanH was a passionate feminist and so we are looking at using suffragette colours too

  • Suffragette purple (Think Cadbury chocolate colour)
  • Suffragette green (Darker, more forest green)
  • Cream but please one of the following - Debbie Bliss Rialto DK 02 ecru, Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK WM4 cream, or Drops Merino 01 off white

Accents - so not whole squares, but use within a square

  • Oranges
  • Burgundy
  • Yellow
  • Silver
  • Pinks
  • Red
  • Other greens

The Yarns.. Just from the brands listed please because we know they combine for wash and wear. If you still have any of our wools that have been discontinued - Artesano Superwash Merino DK, Debbie Bliss Cashmerino DK, Sublime extra fine DK, or James C. Brett Pure Merino DK in your stash, please do use them.

The Yarn we will be Using….

  • Debbie Bliss Rialto DK currently on sale HERE
  • Drops Merino Extra Fine DK, currently on sale here…
  • Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK, currently ob sale here..
  • Katia Merino 100% DK, small discounts on their website here…
  • King Cole Luxury Merino DK. Try Wool Warehouse, can't find it on sale
  • Patons Merino Extrafine DK Currently on sale https://ladysewandsewknits.co.uk/product/patons-merino-extrafine-dk/ here]
  • Also Ebay is always a possible option. Please shout through if you need help.

Ideas for themed squares
Suffragettes
She loved her garden, her favourite flowers were tulips, lilies and alstroemerias.
She adored cats
She loved a good weather app, and was always one for a forecast, and her ‘lovely’ Lancashire weather, so rain clouds and possibly sun! She loved a sunset too.
She was passionate about recycling
She loved red wine!
She loved travel
She loved playing Wordle
She loved the music of Paul Simon
If anyone would like to make a set of initials (want to make sure we have them equally represented) they are J, B, S, J, J, F, A.
She had lived in the States and there are still family connections to New York. Can anyone create the American flag?
She adored BOOTHS in Cumbria, and would send the Christmas book to folk who lived too far away! This has a relatively straight forward logo, will post below, but it could be possible.

These really are just ideas, we also need simple squares too. Simple or complex, made by beginner or expert, we genuinely welcome them all. It really is the love and thought that counts.

Squares to be six inches, using 4mm needles or hook. Please knot off VERY carefully when finishing or changing colour and sew your ends in, thank you!

Posting will be to Teddington, just PM if you need the address. A provisional last posting date of the end of September, so around 6 weeks away.

JanH was such an absolute rock for so many here on Mumsnet, time to do something for her now. We were lucky to know her.

Sending so much love. It is poignant we start today as her funeral is taking place. Thanks

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KnottyAndPistey · 21/12/2023 12:15

So bittersweet, thank you @cittigirl

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KnottyAndPistey · 21/12/2023 12:18

Just to let you know, Jan’s Woolly Hug is on its way to her beautiful family. Truly made and sent with so much love. Sent guaranteed for tomorrow.

I know we would usually try to take lots of photos, but it was a toss up between delaying for that, or posting before Christmas. So went latter. Hope you’ll all agree that was the right choice. We do have a couple. Will share these once it’s with them.

Thank you so much again everyone. It’s truly glorious. Like Jan.

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MadisonAvenue · 21/12/2023 12:44

You’ve absolutely done the right thing, I’m so glad it’ll be there for them before Christmas. I hope it brings them some comfort at such a difficult time.

cittigirl · 21/12/2023 15:34

That's wonderful thank you so much. So much love, care and hard work has gone into the blanket. I'll let you all know if I hear anything back from Jan's family. She would be over the moon with it, I'm sure 😊

Thankyou KnottyAndPistey

BALD · 21/12/2023 17:15

😍

MirandaWest · 21/12/2023 17:17

Am glad it will be with them before Christmas. Still can’t believe she’s died

FluffandBuzz · 22/12/2023 10:30

Absolutely the right thing, thank you for organising it all and looking forward to seeing it when the time is right.
I hope it brings comfort to the family

SwedishEdith · 22/12/2023 22:51

Thanks for the update and completely agree that you've made the right decision 😊

Yiayoula · 25/12/2023 06:15

Thank you , so glad it will be there in time for Christmas .

KnottyAndPistey · 25/12/2023 11:37

love to all this Christmas time. Just checked the tracking and it was delivered to someone with the same surname as Jan on Friday 22nd. So so glad it’s with them.

@cittigirl

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cittigirl · 25/12/2023 11:41

That's wonderful, thank you. If I hear anything, I'll let you know. Perhaps they'll open it today 🥰

KnottyAndPistey

cittigirl · 29/12/2023 10:40

Just received this ❤️

Woolly Hugs: A blanket in memory of JanH.
cittigirl · 29/12/2023 10:41

KnottyAndPistey

Okki · 29/12/2023 12:22

That's a lovely message. So glad they had it in time for Christmas. Xx

SwedishEdith · 29/12/2023 13:39

cittigirl · 29/12/2023 10:40

Just received this ❤️

Thanks @cittigirl ❤️

BALD · 29/12/2023 14:02

Thank you for sharing the message.

Yiayoula · 31/12/2023 17:23

Thank you - so glad it reached the family in time for Christmas , hope it will be a great comfort to them . 💐

KnottyAndPistey · 01/01/2024 09:16

Thank you so much and all love to everyone this new year.

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cittigirl · 31/01/2024 21:39

Pride of place....and a picture of Jan's daughter and new granddaughter ❤️

KnottyAndPistey

Woolly Hugs: A blanket in memory of JanH.
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MirandaWest · 31/01/2024 21:46

Thank you 😊 Lovely to see the blanket (and Jan's daughter and new granddaughter too)

SwedishEdith · 31/01/2024 21:56

Thank you for sharing. Lovely photo ❤️

BALD · 31/01/2024 23:20

Oh gosh that is so beautiful, thank you all. What a dear little baby.

Peridot1 · 01/02/2024 08:53

Oh that’s lovely. Thanks for sharing.

TheIoWfairy · 01/02/2024 08:54

How absolutely lovely! Thank you for the photo

KnottyAndPistey · 02/02/2024 12:11

Oh how utterly beautiful. Thank you so so much xxx

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