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Woolly Hugs: A blanket in memory of JanH.

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KnottyAndPistey · 17/08/2023 16:06

Just devastating. Like many we just couldn’t take it in that lovely JanH had died. Utterly shocking. We had no idea she was ill. Words really do fail, we are just so very sorry life has been so cruel to her and her family.

Jan was one of the original Mumsnetters when it was first started. The site owes much to those early posters, they really did act as cornerstones. She has been a busy poster ever since. Many of you will have been supported by JanH on the vast number of threads she supported, whether it was advice on child tax credits, CVs, pensions, buying tents, holidays in France, cars, washing machines etc. She was the undefeated Queen of the Google search, and so funny and kind, giving SO MUCH of herself to others in need of help and support. She had a real zest for helping others. A real inspiration.

We are so pleased to say that her family have accepted our offer of a Woolly Hug, and we hope that they will feel our love and support and that the blanket may give whatever comfort it can to them.

We want to make this blanket a real tribute and celebration, will you join us?

We shall need crocheters, knitters and donors. If you would like to donate wool or funds, we can match you up. If you would like to join in but need donated wool, we can help there too. Please PM with your offer of help.

We have spoken with her daughter and friends to create a list of colours/ideas, but fully recognise folks may have their own memories or ideas through MN.

Our palette for JanH. The main colours..

  • Blues, her favourite colour.

JanH was a passionate feminist and so we are looking at using suffragette colours too

  • Suffragette purple (Think Cadbury chocolate colour)
  • Suffragette green (Darker, more forest green)
  • Cream but please one of the following - Debbie Bliss Rialto DK 02 ecru, Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK WM4 cream, or Drops Merino 01 off white

Accents - so not whole squares, but use within a square

  • Oranges
  • Burgundy
  • Yellow
  • Silver
  • Pinks
  • Red
  • Other greens

The Yarns.. Just from the brands listed please because we know they combine for wash and wear. If you still have any of our wools that have been discontinued - Artesano Superwash Merino DK, Debbie Bliss Cashmerino DK, Sublime extra fine DK, or James C. Brett Pure Merino DK in your stash, please do use them.

The Yarn we will be Using….

  • Debbie Bliss Rialto DK currently on sale HERE
  • Drops Merino Extra Fine DK, currently on sale here…
  • Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK, currently ob sale here..
  • Katia Merino 100% DK, small discounts on their website here…
  • King Cole Luxury Merino DK. Try Wool Warehouse, can't find it on sale
  • Patons Merino Extrafine DK Currently on sale https://ladysewandsewknits.co.uk/product/patons-merino-extrafine-dk/ here]
  • Also Ebay is always a possible option. Please shout through if you need help.

Ideas for themed squares
Suffragettes
She loved her garden, her favourite flowers were tulips, lilies and alstroemerias.
She adored cats
She loved a good weather app, and was always one for a forecast, and her ‘lovely’ Lancashire weather, so rain clouds and possibly sun! She loved a sunset too.
She was passionate about recycling
She loved red wine!
She loved travel
She loved playing Wordle
She loved the music of Paul Simon
If anyone would like to make a set of initials (want to make sure we have them equally represented) they are J, B, S, J, J, F, A.
She had lived in the States and there are still family connections to New York. Can anyone create the American flag?
She adored BOOTHS in Cumbria, and would send the Christmas book to folk who lived too far away! This has a relatively straight forward logo, will post below, but it could be possible.

These really are just ideas, we also need simple squares too. Simple or complex, made by beginner or expert, we genuinely welcome them all. It really is the love and thought that counts.

Squares to be six inches, using 4mm needles or hook. Please knot off VERY carefully when finishing or changing colour and sew your ends in, thank you!

Posting will be to Teddington, just PM if you need the address. A provisional last posting date of the end of September, so around 6 weeks away.

JanH was such an absolute rock for so many here on Mumsnet, time to do something for her now. We were lucky to know her.

Sending so much love. It is poignant we start today as her funeral is taking place. Thanks

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ChippingInLovesWoollyHugs · 23/08/2023 16:17

@Raiponceinatangle

fantastic squares!

how on Earth did you do so many in such a short time.

I need speed improvement classes🙇🏻‍♀️🙇🏻‍♀️🙇🏻‍♀️

@HunkermunkerYesReally

they're lovely squares, great pattern.

bookbook · 23/08/2023 22:55

such lovely squares everyone
With much love in the stitches , hopefully recognisable as Wordle !

Woolly Hugs: A blanket in memory of JanH.
KnottyAndPistey · 24/08/2023 08:44

Omg @bookbook !

brilliant.

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Peridot1 · 24/08/2023 08:46

Such gorgeous squares. You are a talented bunch for sure.

KnottyAndPistey · 24/08/2023 08:51

cittigirl · 23/08/2023 14:03

So sad that this is even having to be done though 😞

Wish none of this was ever happening. But so glad we can do it for her family.

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cittigirl · 24/08/2023 10:19

KnottyAndPistey of course 😞.

I'm sure the blanket will bring comfort to Jan's family x

MadisonAvenue · 24/08/2023 14:05

Lots of beautiful squares already!
My yarn has been delivered this morning, thank you ❤️

FluffandBuzz · 24/08/2023 18:12

Wonderful to see all these squares, a very talented bunch.

My yarn arrived this morning- thank you to the donor, I will get going and bring them to the London hugathon

WitchDancer · 24/08/2023 20:14

Woolly treasure has arrived here too, thank you.

Fabulous squares, well done!

GredandForge · 25/08/2023 01:55

We’re all so grateful for everything you’re doing and love the squares you’ve shared so far. Mum would be very touched (and probably embarrassed) - thank you all so so much.
—Janh’s DD1 (and all her family)

Iwantacampervan · 26/08/2023 20:39

I've come home from holiday to find a lovely package of yarn - thank you. I'll get knitting later.

TheIoWfairy · 27/08/2023 11:03

I have also just returned and found yarn. Thank you, donors.
I’m limbering up for a bit of crochet later.

KnottyAndPistey · 27/08/2023 17:57

GredandForge · 25/08/2023 01:55

We’re all so grateful for everything you’re doing and love the squares you’ve shared so far. Mum would be very touched (and probably embarrassed) - thank you all so so much.
—Janh’s DD1 (and all her family)

So glad we can my love. Honestly it’s our privilege xxx

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KnottyAndPistey · 27/08/2023 17:58

Tomorrow I’ll be here with a round up of our lovely donors of funds and wool. Astonishing generosity and kindness. Folk truly are amazing.

does everyone have all they need?

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Run4it2 · 27/08/2023 18:42

Yarn has arrived for me too, so I've made a start - thanks very much

BIWI · 27/08/2023 18:47

Like lots of us, I was shocked and very saddened to read the news about Jan. She was lovely, lovely, lovely.

But somehow I managed to miss this thread as well Sad

Is it too late to contribute? Please don't ask me to crochet anything

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KnottyAndPistey · 28/08/2023 08:48

Morning beautiful people Brew

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KnottyAndPistey · 28/08/2023 08:49

@BIWI Not too late at all, thank you so much!

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KnottyAndPistey · 28/08/2023 08:49

Such great news about all the yarn arriving

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KnottyAndPistey · 28/08/2023 09:00

We have thank yous, so either your yarn has arrived with your crafter or your funds with us and that yarn has been arriving with crafters. We are truly grateful to our lovely donors, we always want to be inclusive and for all to be able to join in, and some just wouldn't be able to because of costs. You make that happen lovely donors, thank you doesn't seem enough, but THANK YOU!

@Iamacatslave Thanks

@Peridot1 Thanks

@JustineMumsnet Thanks

@Rockschooldropout Thanks

ladytophmhatt Thanks

All absolutely wonderful, thank you. Hope I haven't missed anyone out, but am going to go and double check. And have another coffee!

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KnottyAndPistey · 28/08/2023 09:05

Part two of the thanks yous, honestly we are blown away by your kindness and generosity of money yes, but spirit too. Absolute stars

@MinervaRemus Thanks

@TheOriginalLTH Thanks <-- that's better, an actual link!

Thank you so much again everyone Star

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Raiponceinatangle · 28/08/2023 12:35

ChippingInLovesWoollyHugs · 23/08/2023 16:17

@Raiponceinatangle

fantastic squares!

how on Earth did you do so many in such a short time.

I need speed improvement classes🙇🏻‍♀️🙇🏻‍♀️🙇🏻‍♀️

@HunkermunkerYesReally

they're lovely squares, great pattern.

@ChippingInLovesWoollyHugs I had a couple of days leave and no plans, the seemingly constant rain made curling up with crochet no hardship at all!! I’m a terribly slow knitter though, don’t seem to get anywhere very quickly 😬.

ChippingInLovesWoollyHugs · 28/08/2023 19:07

Raiponceinatangle · 28/08/2023 12:35

@ChippingInLovesWoollyHugs I had a couple of days leave and no plans, the seemingly constant rain made curling up with crochet no hardship at all!! I’m a terribly slow knitter though, don’t seem to get anywhere very quickly 😬.

@Raiponceinatangle

I'm all for equal rights. My knitting & crochet are equally slow. 😂😂

my friend is supposed to be knitting teddy bear PJ minders for her granddaughters (6&8) they maybe 16&18 before she gets them done, so I thought I might go over there this week & encourage her to get her needles out and for me to have some focus! But then decided not to as Jan's family probably don't want half a German Shepard in the blanket !!
😂

BlueEyeshadow · 29/08/2023 13:51

I love your squares, @bookbook - I was going to have a go at the Wordle logo as 3x3 mini grannies, but I'm not very good at joining squares so I don't know how well it would work!

KnottyAndPistey · 29/08/2023 17:14

Afternoon beautiful people Brew

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