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Facebook friend requeat glitch

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Jamhamlamb · 12/05/2023 13:45

Is anybody else experiencing this glitch? You go onto somebody's page and it automatically requests them as a friend.

Beware stalkers! 😆

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RubiesandRose · 12/05/2023 18:32

Got a friends request from an ex I haven't spoken to in 3 years and I've since married! He will be squirming when he realises!!

SisterSister23 · 12/05/2023 18:32

This just happened to me! Was stalking someone I previously deleted and then it requested them. Thought I pressed it by accident! Awkward

SisterSister23 · 12/05/2023 18:33

Now I'm wondering who else I've stalked today. Can't bare to think 😂

SisterSister23 · 12/05/2023 18:37

Omg just looked at my activity and it sent a request to a friend of a friend of someone from uni over 10 years ago. Noooooo. I've just cancelled it now and hope she hasn't seen it. 😂😭

YouNeverCanTellWithBees · 12/05/2023 18:44

I can't seem to find out if I've sent any more requests? In my sent friend requests bit it just shows one from 2009 and no others but two people have accepted requests from me (apparently) today.

DappledThings · 12/05/2023 18:50

I regularly look at the profiles of various conspiracy theorists because I find their crazed rantings hilarious and I like to know what's new in loonytown. I have sent friend requests to 3 of them and two of them accepted. Aaargh. Now deleted again.

Tacocatgoatcheesepizza · 12/05/2023 18:52

YouNeverCanTellWithBees · 12/05/2023 18:44

I can't seem to find out if I've sent any more requests? In my sent friend requests bit it just shows one from 2009 and no others but two people have accepted requests from me (apparently) today.

oh no! I hoped the fact there was nothing new on my activity log meant I was in the clear.

VisionsOfSplendour · 12/05/2023 18:53

RunThroughTheJungle · 12/05/2023 18:00

I've had a request from my exes new girlfriend. I'm going to text it over to him and tell him to sort it out. Hilarious.

Seems like she's all insecure, stalking the wife.

Get over yourself, its normal curiousity, its not Eastendets, sort it out FFS 😂😃

I looked at a contentious local issue group earlier and I'm sure I only clicked on a post and the author of the post has accepted me

I have no idea who she is but can tell from her posts she's a troublemaker, I may stay friends just for the craic😀

dayofmeh · 12/05/2023 18:59

I had a FB friend request today from the wife of a man I worked with 10 years ago! I barely knew him them, have had no contact with him since then or any social media interaction. He's got a lot of FB friends so not sure why she'd be looking at me. Good to know why she added me though! Very weird.

cheezy · 12/05/2023 19:02

It's so reassuring that I am not the only massive stalker!!!
I've not looked at FB on my phone thank god
I am cringing so hard for some of youBlush

cheezy · 12/05/2023 19:04

YouNeverCanTellWithBees · 12/05/2023 18:44

I can't seem to find out if I've sent any more requests? In my sent friend requests bit it just shows one from 2009 and no others but two people have accepted requests from me (apparently) today.

Oh shit maybe I'm not out of the woods yet
No requests sent today but maybe they're not showing up yet

HollyFern1110 · 12/05/2023 19:04

This makes sense of a weird request I had today - thank you!

An old school friend of DH's. I've never even met him.

Arewehumanorarewecupboards · 12/05/2023 19:05

Is it only people that you have recently stalked? Asking for a friend Grin

QueefQueen80s · 12/05/2023 19:11

I'm deactivated so missing all this, thank god as I love a good stalk!

RunThroughTheJungle · 12/05/2023 19:15

@VisionsOfSplendour he left me for her 2 weeks ago after a 25 year marriage. I will not "get over myself"

LividHouse · 12/05/2023 19:23

Anyone know for sure when this started because I’m too scared to check if I’ve friend requested my not yet divorced husband’s new girlfriend 🫣

Mentallyaware · 12/05/2023 19:24

How long has this glitch been active? You all surely haven't stalked this many people on one day have you?

cheezy · 12/05/2023 19:25

LividHouse · 12/05/2023 19:23

Anyone know for sure when this started because I’m too scared to check if I’ve friend requested my not yet divorced husband’s new girlfriend 🫣

If you go to friends at top left hand corner, you can see any requests (yours and others)

cheezy · 12/05/2023 19:26

On a related note (ahem) and seeing as I am amongst friends, if you look up someone you don't know and search for photos of them, nothing comes up! I've tried with a few random people and there are no results.

This is a big part of my stalking! maybe those days are over for good now

LividHouse · 12/05/2023 19:27

cheezy · 12/05/2023 19:25

If you go to friends at top left hand corner, you can see any requests (yours and others)

Thanks, but I’m now too scared to open the bloody app in case it does something stupid!

twixwrapper · 12/05/2023 19:31

I got a request from a Dad of DD's primary school classmates. She's 25 now! Yikes! I don't think I've ever met him! 😂

Tiddlypomtiddlypom · 12/05/2023 19:40

That would explain the four entirely random requests I received. I never use Facebook so I was quite perturbed.

QueefQueen80s · 12/05/2023 19:40

cheezy · 12/05/2023 19:26

On a related note (ahem) and seeing as I am amongst friends, if you look up someone you don't know and search for photos of them, nothing comes up! I've tried with a few random people and there are no results.

This is a big part of my stalking! maybe those days are over for good now

How do you mean? I've just tried searching some I'm not friends with and can see photos.

Tiddlypomtiddlypom · 12/05/2023 19:47

Omg, one is one of my husband’s ex girlfriends 😆

Mentallyaware · 12/05/2023 19:49

I've just scrolled Reddit and it seems people have had their entire "people you may know" list added simply by passively scrolling past the bar across their page.

I'm so glad I'm not on Facebook anymore! This is a massive invasion of privacy surely?