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HELP. I'm 31 years old, what trainers should I be wearing?

83 replies

CharChar91 · 25/01/2023 10:25

Just this really. I want some new trainers for the school run etc and I'm suddenly feeling quite old. I'm drawn to the more fashionable ones but I don't really dress to suit them. If I was 10 years younger than maybe, but I don't want to drop £120 on a pair I like but look like I'm trying too hard to cling on to my youth 😅
Am I overthinking this?
What age appropriate trainers/brands should I be looking for that are a happy medium between young and carefree and boomer??

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KillingLoneliness · 25/01/2023 11:03

Corsets! Not forests! 🤣

Hoppinggreen · 25/01/2023 11:03

31? Definitely something from Hotter

Iwantabloodypizza · 25/01/2023 11:06

Wear what you like.

You are not old. I am 43 and I don’t think I am old. I wear whatever trainers I like. I still wear adidas like I did at 15 when I was (and am still into), Britpop.

No one is looking at what you wear anywhere on your body, they are too wrapped up in themselves to notice.

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Knoblauch · 25/01/2023 11:07

You're 31, Not old. There isn't a set rule for what trainers are allowed for certain ages. I'm 35. I wear Converse, Vans, Gazelles, Nike, New Balance and Veja.

skippy67 · 25/01/2023 11:07

🙄

stopbeeping · 25/01/2023 11:08

I feel like this I wore check vans for the last 17 years most days
I just got these

www.asos.com/prd/201217108?acquisitionsource=pasteboard a few months ago. I also like the Nike dunks I think they are called? And another one similar to this puma one
THeh are soo comfy and versatile

queenMab99 · 25/01/2023 11:10

Trainers are just .......... trainers. Who cares as long as they fit? Are the trainer police looking at all our feet now? I am 72, am I only allowed to wear slippers?
Do people judge others on what they have on their feet?

CharlotteRose90 · 25/01/2023 11:14

I’m 32 and I still wear converse. In fact I live in them pretty much or my ugg boots or work heels. Don’t think I’ll ever swap,.

ManyNameChanges · 25/01/2023 11:15

You are overthinking it.
Just wear what you enjoy wearing. Don’t look at your age as a factor.

TheFairyCaravan · 25/01/2023 11:15

I’m 51 and just ordered some New Balance 373. They were the most uncomfortable things I’ve ever put on my feet though, so I sent them back.

Wear what you want, fgs.

Mybumlooksbig · 25/01/2023 11:15

I have white Converse and the rest are Adidas Superstars, Gazelles and Stan Smith's. All in white.

My friend who always looks good and very fash told me- branded and clean white trainers is the key?!

MaverickGooseGoose · 25/01/2023 11:16

I'm 40 not 30 I have a pair of Nike dunk lows and Nike blazers high tops at the moment. Couldn't give a fuck about what I should wear!

wagamamar · 25/01/2023 11:17

Erm ... you wear ones that are comfy and what you like?

minipie · 25/01/2023 11:21

I wear New Balance 574. Because they are comfy and because I can get them in Velcro (my laces always used to come undone)! Also I can buy kid sizes which makes them cheaper.

@TheFairyCaravan 373s are so uncomfy for me too. Try 574s!

CharChar91 · 25/01/2023 11:26

Thanks for the ideas/advice! I'll have a look this evening 🙌

I'm awfully awfully sorry to those I appear to have offended 🫠

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Shgytfgtf111 · 25/01/2023 11:29

Any you like, I'm 42 and wear trainers everyday, just anything I fancy

crabette · 25/01/2023 11:40

I'm 35, my go to is black jeans, tee, blazer, and lace up vans 😂

Not hugely fashion forward but if you're going to tell me I'm too old for vans I might cry!!

faffadoodledo · 25/01/2023 11:43

CharChar91 · 25/01/2023 11:26

Thanks for the ideas/advice! I'll have a look this evening 🙌

I'm awfully awfully sorry to those I appear to have offended 🫠

Honestly we're not offended. We just worry about younger women fretting about aging. Sometimes the world seems to have gone mad with the pressure women feel.
please wear what looks and feels good on you

TommyShelby · 25/01/2023 11:44

I’m 30 and my faves atm are a pair of white and green Stan smiths although I also wear cons, vans and adidas superstars in black and white.

in all honesty though, rock what you love. Who gives a shit what other people think

GordonShakespearedoesChristmas · 25/01/2023 11:46

I'm 60 and ... couldn't care less what I'm supposed or not supposed to be wearing.
Wear what you want to wear- life's too short to do anything else!!

xogossipgirlxo · 25/01/2023 11:50

CharChar91 · 25/01/2023 11:26

Thanks for the ideas/advice! I'll have a look this evening 🙌

I'm awfully awfully sorry to those I appear to have offended 🫠

I don't think anyone felt offended, it's just shocking that women feel too old at the age of 31 to do certain things. Wear and do whatever you want. Enjoy that you live in (relatively) judgmental-free country (I'm not from the UK, so I know what I'm saying 😂).

Gossipxox · 25/01/2023 11:52

Can’t go wrong with converse!

wonkylegs · 25/01/2023 12:05

I can honestly say that in 10years of school runs the only time I noticed another parents footwear was the parent who came to DS1s primary in stripper heels and they were spectacular so you couldn't miss them (or the rest of her inappropriate outfit)
Wear whatever you want.
I tend to wear black ASICS because they are comfortable with my dodgy feet (RA joint damage) and I wear them all day, they are black and tend to be a bit non so I don't think about them much.

Flossyhair · 25/01/2023 12:23

I'm 55 years old and wear HOKA trainers. I also still highlight my hair and keep it just below my shoulders.

Someone told me that I was too old for long hair and to be that bothered about my appearance/fashion.

I say bollocks to that. I wear what I want, have my hair how I want and will not allow anyone to tell me what I should be wearing according to my age.

If the trainers you want are comfy and you like them, fuck what anyone else thinks.❤️

Santasjingleballs · 25/01/2023 12:28

Chanel ones I recently bought a pair ….they are sooo comfortable and had great cushioning.