Urgent need of a hand hold / unMN hug

[MumofSpud]

I know there may be more specific sites to put this thread but I can't bring myself to go there
DH is in hospital with Leukaemia- and for the past few weeks has had a chest infection
Now he has 2 chest infections
I have been visiting x2 a day but not since Thursday as I got Covid (for the first time)
The Macmillan nurse has just rung asking me to do a test as the Dr wants to have an conversation' and it might be easier if I am there
Of course I am still testing positive
I tried to get details out of her but all she would say is that it is a serious conversation
Dr is due to ring me soon
I feel sick with nerves and so guilty that I am not there
He is 49
I really need a hand hold

So very sorry to hear this. Sending big hugs ❤

So very sorry to hear this OP

Sending hugs. I lost my husband at a similar age, I am so sorry for you and your family. x

So very sorry for you and your family. Be kind to yourself. Big hugs 💔

Sorry i have no advice or wise words just a lot of love and hugs to send you and yours 💝

So very sorry, OP. Sending lots of love your way x

This is such a sad post to read. I am sorry you are going to lose your guy so soon.

I don’t really have any words of comfort to say except that my Mum died from Leukaemia and it seemed to just make her desperately tired but no actual pain. When she did die, it was very peaceful and she was ready and so were we really as we had had 3 months to come to terms with it.

It was too soon, and I think it always is but you will get through this difficult time. Sending loving thoughts.

My DH was slightly older when we found out (a different cancer but still cancer), it's shit. I remember those thoughts and conversations well. Friends and family don't know what to say so often say "Stay positive" which was the last thing I wanted to hear because I needed to offload and that phrase shuts down any conversation but I was able to say things here that I couldn't say out loud. We are always here to listen. Sending you love and strength.

Sending love ❤️

I am so sorry to read this, thinking of you all 💐

So sorry that you are going through this. Love and best wishes to you and your family xxx

Sending love

I just can’t imagine how you are feeling. Sending lots of love and hugs to you and your DC xx

I’m so sorry @MumofSpud. I am sending you the biggest unMumsnetty hug xx

Hand hold here OP

I am so sorry - much love to you all xx

I'm really sorry @MumofSpud sending hugs

I’m so sorry. Words are all we have and I know it’s not enough but my heart genuinely goes out to you and your children

Sending a big hug too!

@MumofSpud I'm so sorry. I really can't imagine what you're all going through, plenty of time to be practical once the shock has worn off. So many more hugs for you and your DC x

Oh gosh @MumofSpud i am so sorry.

please accept a massive hug off me, I can’t imagine what you are going through 💐

So sorry to hear this diagnosis of your DH, wishing you the very best memories you can make in the time you have left together

I'm so sorry op 💐 there isn't anything that can be said that will take this hurt away from you and your family but you're not alone big hugs xx

Thinking of you x

So sorry @MumofSpud The stuff of nightmares 😥 Sending a hug and strength 😓