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How easy is it to send a message to the wrong person by accident on WhatsApp?

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Watermelon44 · 06/05/2022 16:22

Just that really? A message to an individual not a group.

Is it easily done?

tia

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IcedOatLatte · 06/05/2022 18:03

You must be the only person left in the world who doesnt use WhatsApp if you don't know the answer to your question 😂

Literally what everyone else has said.

MichonnesBBF · 06/05/2022 18:04

Told my hairdresser not only was I missing them but also how much I loved them ❤
Twas not suppose to go to my hairdresser.🤣

Watermelon44 · 06/05/2022 18:05

I was sent a message from one of my married (male) friends who is a dad of one of my daughter's friends.

It was a picture of a gun and a question mark.

I am getting some flirtatious vibes from him which in my perimenopausal state may be all in my head…..

Anyway the message came out of the blue and had no relevance at all to me.

When I asked, it was “sent to wrong person by accident”.

I just wondered how easy that was to do as I tend to have mainly groups on WhatsApp so would click onto the group before sending the message.

I wondered if I had missed the point of the message or if it was a genuine mistake.

not that it matters either way, just curious

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ClinkeyMonkey · 06/05/2022 18:05

I've done it a couple of times when I went straight on to WhatsApp and started typing on my most recent conversation because it was still open!

ImInStealthMode · 06/05/2022 18:06

Have you had a conversation on WhatsApp with him recently OP?

IcedOatLatte · 06/05/2022 18:06

ImInStealthMode · 06/05/2022 17:54

Very easy, assuming it's to someone you have recently had a WhatsApp conversation with (my boss and my brother have the same first name, I have to archive my boss between conversations so I don't slip up Blush)

It would be very difficult, pretty much impossible, however to accidentally send a WhatsApp to someone you don't already have an active conversation with, even if they're already in your phone contacts.

What's the story OP?

That might depend on your phone, on my android phone it's equally easy to accidentally pick the wrong person even if you've never WhatsApped them as all my contacts come up when I start typing a name

Watermelon44 · 06/05/2022 18:07

I have in the past send a text to a (different) school dad by accident, meaning to send it to my friend, who’s name was similar.

I put “missed you today, hope you’re ok? Xx”. Which was pretty embarrassing!!

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Redglitter · 06/05/2022 18:07

Sounds absolutely accidental. Not really what you'd send someone you were flirting with

DogWithMyOwnRoom · 06/05/2022 18:07

Glad to see I’m not the only one!
But it is possible to delete them afterwards - even if it has already been read

Zazdar · 06/05/2022 18:08

Too easy!

Kinneddar · 06/05/2022 18:10

Watermelon44 · 06/05/2022 18:07

I have in the past send a text to a (different) school dad by accident, meaning to send it to my friend, who’s name was similar.

I put “missed you today, hope you’re ok? Xx”. Which was pretty embarrassing!!

So you know its easily done then

ImInStealthMode · 06/05/2022 18:10

@IcedOatLatte Aah see I never thought of that, everyone I WhatsApp is already sat there with an active conversation so I just scroll to the right one.

If I was opening a brand new one I'd type their name, but then I probably wouldn't open a brand new conversation with a gun emoji either, so who knows Grin

Goldijobsandthe3bears · 06/05/2022 18:11

I’ve never done it, ever but that’s only because I have OCD and I check and re check to the point of ridiculousness

Pinkpigs · 06/05/2022 18:16

I also had a strange conversation with my adult son it went on for about 5-7 minutes Via WhatsApp before I realized it was my son's father in law 😱 my son was coming in my front door when realization hit me .Oh well

Watermelon44 · 06/05/2022 18:19

ImInStealthMode · 06/05/2022 18:06

Have you had a conversation on WhatsApp with him recently OP?

I had sent a message 2 weeks before about our dcs which he had replied to at the time.

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Watermelon44 · 06/05/2022 18:22

@Kinneddar

that was by text not WhatsApp.

i felt like it was harder to do it with WhatsApp as I just click on the active conversation I want to message, but obviously it’s easily done!!

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Rubyroseyposey · 06/05/2022 18:23

I sent a pic of me swigging from a wine bottle to my professor it's all too easy 😭

Butitsnotfunnyisititsserious · 06/05/2022 18:24

Rubyroseyposey · 06/05/2022 18:23

I sent a pic of me swigging from a wine bottle to my professor it's all too easy 😭

😂😂😂😂 did they reply?!

I've done it a few times OP, quickly try to do a delete if I can, the message you got sounds accidental and he didn't try to start a convo with the response so it doesn't sound like he's flirting.

PleasantFucker · 06/05/2022 18:28

I sent my Grandma a text once telling her how fit she was, obviously it wasn't meant for her. Good job I didn't say anything worse than that, I nearly died.

Goldijobsandthe3bears · 06/05/2022 18:32

PleasantFucker · 06/05/2022 18:28

I sent my Grandma a text once telling her how fit she was, obviously it wasn't meant for her. Good job I didn't say anything worse than that, I nearly died.

🤣🤣

Watermelon44 · 06/05/2022 18:33

I’m married too, so I don’t want/need him to be flirtatious!

It’s just a weird vibe I get which is obviously all in my head.

I will blame it on hormones!

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IcedOatLatte · 06/05/2022 18:49

ImInStealthMode · 06/05/2022 18:10

@IcedOatLatte Aah see I never thought of that, everyone I WhatsApp is already sat there with an active conversation so I just scroll to the right one.

If I was opening a brand new one I'd type their name, but then I probably wouldn't open a brand new conversation with a gun emoji either, so who knows Grin

I guess it depends on how many conversations you have, for me it's 100 times quicker to start typing the name than scroll down all the convos to find the right one

Floydthebarber · 06/05/2022 19:01

Very, especially as my whatapp has removed all the names so I just have a number and a little picture to go on

LadyEloise10 · 06/05/2022 20:04

Too easy Blush

TheFormidableMrsC · 06/05/2022 20:46

I've done it about 10 times this week