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Helping DP downsize

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TDCtomorrow · 16/02/2022 22:45

I need some suggestions on how to start helping DP downsize. Every room is full as DF is a hoarder. I don't know where to start or how to go about it.

Only DM will be able to help due to DF being unwell.

It's so overwhelming and I've only got 3 weeks

OP posts:
ChippyTea16 · 26/03/2022 15:10

Well done OP you’ve done amazingly well to get to this point! I hope your DPs are suitably grateful and hope you can get a nice break/rest/treat from it all now.

Do you have to do the unpacking at the other end? Sorry if I missed it but are your parents physically incapable? If not I’d leave them to it, you’ve done more than enough getting them to this point! I wouldn’t be doing any more sorting either - from now on stuff would just be getting chucked but presumably they won’t be moving out of their new place? I appreciate that’s easier said than done tho!

Flowers and Wine for you OP I hope you enjoy the rest of your weekend!

TDCtomorrow · 27/03/2022 18:26

@ChippyTea16

Well done OP you’ve done amazingly well to get to this point! I hope your DPs are suitably grateful and hope you can get a nice break/rest/treat from it all now.

Do you have to do the unpacking at the other end? Sorry if I missed it but are your parents physically incapable? If not I’d leave them to it, you’ve done more than enough getting them to this point! I wouldn’t be doing any more sorting either - from now on stuff would just be getting chucked but presumably they won’t be moving out of their new place? I appreciate that’s easier said than done tho!

Flowers and Wine for you OP I hope you enjoy the rest of your weekend!

My dad is pretty much incapable and I don't want to leave it to my mum. It's too much and she's stressed and tearful so I'm trying to take some of that away from her. Had a whole day off today and I'm at a music festival. Just put having a break because my feet are killing. Rock n roll Grin
OP posts:
Weenurse · 31/03/2022 10:49

I hope you enjoyed the festival

TDCtomorrow · 31/03/2022 13:45

@Weenurse

I hope you enjoyed the festival
Thank you. Feeling a bit more human now. Slept normally for the first time in ages. Going to start helping to unpack tomorrow
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RandomMess · 01/04/2022 11:09

I hope the unpacking and further chucking goes well Thanks

Weenurse · 02/04/2022 01:41

How is the unpacking going?

TDCtomorrow · 03/04/2022 22:06

@Weenurse

How is the unpacking going?
The inside is definitely getting there. Looking for storage ideas. I've bought under the bed bags for one room and the main room has a divan. I've got nice boxes for the top of the wardrobes for bedding etc. I'd welcome any suggestions. The outside is a different matter though. Man shed stuff everywhere 😩
OP posts:
Weenurse · 06/04/2022 10:06

I’m not a great one for storage ideas.
We did get built in wardrobes and got professional advice with that.
Maybe you could Marie Condo (Kondo?) some ideas.?

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