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Hilaria Baldwin

152 replies

Lipsandlashes · 01/11/2021 14:08

My God is this woman bloody tone deaf, stupid or such a narcissist that she really doesn’t care? Posting pics on Instagram of her and Alec dressed up for Halloween with their kids, with a little sob story about how “parenting through this has been intense.”
By all means let your kids celebrate Halloween but have some bloody sensitivity and awareness! Posting on social media, for the world to see, just days after your husband shot and killed a woman; a wife and mother.
Halyna’s son won’t be celebrating Halloween.

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ZingDramaQueenOfSheeba · 01/11/2021 17:43

[quote Tagcurious]@wallowmill And you are their self-appointed spokesperson? Do you think they would read this thread and be happy? I doubt it.[/quote]
@Tagcurious

🤣
and are you an appointed spokes person?
hypocritical much?

IDontThinkSoNo · 01/11/2021 17:43

[quote Tagcurious]@Cocolapew people who are in the public eye, even those who choose to be so through Instagram or whatever, are not fair game. Your attitude is very dangerous.[/quote]
You simply can’t put yourself out there to that level though and not expect comments, good and bad.

namechangerino · 01/11/2021 17:43

ManifestingWisdom no, it is more that Americans, and that includes Hilaria/Hillary link Spanish speaking people with those who are 'non-white' and therefore marginalised - they are all classed as 'Latino'. Therefore she knew what she was doing, particularly with her 'being mistaken for the nanny' shtick. I believe that Antonio Banderas was surprised when he was classed as Latino by US immigration and therefore a 'person of colour' as he didn't consider himself as such. This is a very sensitive issue and I don't think we can dismiss the uncomfortable ramifications of her 'harmless' persona, just as we cannot dismiss the uncomfortable ramifications of men identifying as women on women's rights (don't worry MN, this will be my only comment on this subject on this thread!)

Tagcurious · 01/11/2021 17:44

@ZingDramaQueenOfSheeba a thread where there is post after post all saying you are ‘bonkers’, ‘vile’ and making derogatory comments about the state of someone’s marriage is not ok to my mind. You clearly take a different view.

Cocolapew · 01/11/2021 17:44

I think there's only one person trolling on here Hmm

Lipsandlashes · 01/11/2021 17:45

@Tagcurious I think you need to look up what trolling is because this thread definitely isn’t it. I set it up to express my disgust at a person (could easily have been Alec but he didn’t post it to his social media account!) who could be so tone deaf and self absorbed

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Tagcurious · 01/11/2021 17:45

@IDontThinkSoNo sadly perhaps you are right. But I wouldn’t choose to be part of that negativity.

Mrsjayy · 01/11/2021 17:45

She doesn't seem to be bothered by any type of criticism though, image being found out you're putting an acccent on and not crawling under a rock with embarrassment.

It's just bonkers I pretended to be Spanish but yeah let's just brazen it out ! It must be ego that keeps her from embarrassment 😳

Tagcurious · 01/11/2021 17:45

@Cocolapew possibly the most ridiculous post on this thread.

wallowmall · 01/11/2021 17:46

Theirs a DM article with 3.6k comments criticising their behaviour so I'm not sure she will be so bothered by this thread.

Plus the fake Spanish thing made headlines all over the place. But that's trolling either.

VladmirsPoutine · 01/11/2021 17:46

How did the thread descend into this. Everyone pretty much agrees they'd have been better off not bringing more undue attention to themselves by way of ad hoc press talks and instagram posts Hmm

wallowmall · 01/11/2021 17:47

except Baldwin fan girl @Tagcurious

ZingDramaQueenOfSheeba · 01/11/2021 17:48

@Cocolapew

I think there's only one person trolling on here Hmm
@Cocolapew

yup

Tagcurious · 01/11/2021 17:48

So it’s ok to be vile because 3.6k other people are too?
OK.

Tagcurious · 01/11/2021 17:49

@wallowmall I’m not on Instagram. I don’t follow her. I wasn’t aware of her until the Spanish thing and then this awful incident. So not a fan, as such. Just not a fan of this shit.

wallowmall · 01/11/2021 17:49

But I wouldn’t choose to be part of that negativity.

It's not negativity to criticise someone for acting like this. I don't understand the logic that its ok to be self obsessed or tone deaf but not to label someone as such 🤔

Interrobanger · 01/11/2021 17:50

@namechangerino

ManifestingWisdom no, it is more that Americans, and that includes Hilaria/Hillary link Spanish speaking people with those who are 'non-white' and therefore marginalised - they are all classed as 'Latino'. Therefore she knew what she was doing, particularly with her 'being mistaken for the nanny' shtick. I believe that Antonio Banderas was surprised when he was classed as Latino by US immigration and therefore a 'person of colour' as he didn't consider himself as such. This is a very sensitive issue and I don't think we can dismiss the uncomfortable ramifications of her 'harmless' persona, just as we cannot dismiss the uncomfortable ramifications of men identifying as women on women's rights (don't worry MN, this will be my only comment on this subject on this thread!)
Exactly. And she took other Spanish and Latino people’s places in awards shortlists, etc. When she knew she wasn’t eligible because she’s about as Latina or Spanish as the socks I’m wearing.

That goes beyond ‘harmless eccentric just trying to live her life on the ‘gram, why can’t you ‘Be Kind’?’ She’s stolen accolades from women and Spanish/Latino people who legitimately deserved them. It’s fraud.

Tagcurious · 01/11/2021 17:50

Why not just leave them be @wallowmall?

wallowmall · 01/11/2021 17:51

@Tagcurious pls show me where I have said anything vile?

My point (which went over your head) is that they will get so much bad press from this that a MN thread isn't even relevant.

IDontThinkSoNo · 01/11/2021 17:51

@wallowmall

But I wouldn’t choose to be part of that negativity.

It's not negativity to criticise someone for acting like this. I don't understand the logic that its ok to be self obsessed or tone deaf but not to label someone as such 🤔

I think it’s important to point out how self absorbed the social media thing really is, or how will our children know as they’ve grown up with it. We need to point out how ridiculous the narcissism really is in some cases
wallowmall · 01/11/2021 17:52

@Tagcurious leave who be? I'm not in contact with the Baldwins.

If this thread is too much for you why don't you leave rather than trying to tell us what's right or wrong?

ZingDramaQueenOfSheeba · 01/11/2021 17:53

[quote Tagcurious]@ZingDramaQueenOfSheeba a thread where there is post after post all saying you are ‘bonkers’, ‘vile’ and making derogatory comments about the state of someone’s marriage is not ok to my mind. You clearly take a different view.[/quote]
best if you avoid celeb threads, steer clear of anything about the Royal family, especially the Harry & Meghan based ones.

you clearly take a different view
you know me so well

Firesidefox · 01/11/2021 17:53

@Cocolapew

I think there's only one person trolling on here Hmm
Grin
wallowmall · 01/11/2021 17:54

We need to point out how ridiculous the narcissism really is in some cases

Absolutely, Im just surprised how the person calling the narcissist narcissistic is the one in the wrong 🙄

Tagcurious · 01/11/2021 18:01

I wondered how long it would take for the pile on to head in my direction. That’s fine. Attack away. I just think you are wrong to say these things.