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Partner wants abortion

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Nancepie · 01/10/2021 21:44

Hi so me and my partner have been together 4 years we have children from previous relationships and one daughter together we don’t live together my daughter is 14months old. I found out I was pregnant and he said he would leave and never come back if I keep my baby. He means it but I really don’t want to go ahead with it he now thinks im in because I agreed but I’m scared to tell him I want this baby.

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HouseOfFire · 02/10/2021 15:57

how was he when you had the first child?

Nancepie · 02/10/2021 16:14

He was okay supportive and a good dad

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dogmandu · 02/10/2021 16:26

OP just to get a clearer idea of what happened, are you saying that he didn't use contraception knowing that you weren't using it either or did he think you were using it.?

How many children do you have and how many does he have?

Nancepie · 02/10/2021 16:34

No we both wasn’t on anything we have one daughter and I have a son and he has a son

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HouseOfFire · 02/10/2021 16:35

so why is it your fault you are pregnant?

i mean, he obviously knows how babies are made

dogmandu · 02/10/2021 16:48

yes it's strange isn't it. I could have a bit of understanding for him if he'd thought OP was using contraception and if he had several children to support, but this wasn't the case.

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