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is this racist?

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wingsnthat · 26/05/2021 18:58

Last month 7 new people started in my office, most of them are not white and have names relevant to their cultures. We work in the office btw so all of this is face fo face.

My line manager makes zero effort to pronounce their names and it’s even annoying me - I can’t imagine how they feel. Over the past month, he makes a song and dance about it. He walks up to the same individuals daily then pulls a face and says “you know I’m bad with names”. He then cycles through say 10 different incorrect names and then laughs it off as “being bad with names” when he’s told he got it wrong again. This happens multiple times a day, for the past month.

When he’s told their name, he just says he won’t remember. He’s even resorted to referring to some of my colleagues by their first initial or giving them a random name like Mike, John or whatever instead of taking the time to remember their names.

My manager finds this funny/a cute personality quirk, but I’m thinking it has to be indirect discrimination, if not direct discrimination? It’s not even as if the names are super long or difficult to pronounce. I don’t work closely with the new starters but I remember their names.

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Emanresus · 30/05/2021 17:51

I saw this on Social Media and thought of this thread. It shows how to deal with this sort of thing. www.anpu.london/name
If you don't want to click on it you can search for Anpu London or 'How to respect my ethnic name' on Facebook etc as there are a few links.

Enroljas · 31/05/2021 19:28

AIMummy

Hmmm this story doesn't make sense. Why would a Turkish person call the females by a Hindu name

There you go AlMummy....

Ok so MN jury have confirmed it’s racist. I’ll let DN know.

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