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I am getting married tomorrow

144 replies

bloodywhitecat · 21/05/2021 13:48

Coming up for a year ago now DP began to get sick, as the weeks went on he turned yellow and, after a mammoth battle with the NHS in covid times, he was diagnosed with a rare and aggressive cancer. A PET scan in August showed no spread but by the time they finally got round to operating on him in late October they found the cancer had spread to his liver, limiting his already limited chances of survival (the 5 year survival rate for his cancer without spread is 7%). In November we were told he had six months to live yet somehow he is doing OK, the tumours are spreading but he is well in himself for now.

Tomorrow we marry. We are blessed that he is well enough to enjoy it, the icing on the cake would be sunshine. When we were buying our outfits we went for shorts for our fosterling (and had to make an emergency dash to the shops yesterday for some trousers for him). Cross your fingers for some sun for us please?

OP posts:
Lupinspotato · 21/05/2021 23:38

Congratulations, I hope you have a fantastic day - which I’m sure it will be!

Wineat5isfine · 21/05/2021 23:39

Wishing you both the most wonderful day and I truly hope the sun shines for you! 💐 💜

user1471560845 · 21/05/2021 23:53

God bless you and your nearly husband, fingers crossed for sunshine 🤞🏼🧡

Ivalueloyaltyaboveallelse · 21/05/2021 23:58

Have a wonderful day praying you get sun.

kindlekeeper · 22/05/2021 00:00

Regardless of the weather it will be an amazing day. All the best to you both x

Weenurse · 22/05/2021 00:01

Congratulations 💐

BeautifulandWilfulandDead · 22/05/2021 00:02

Congratulations! ThanksStar

Mydogmylife · 22/05/2021 00:04

Have the best day ever ❤️

TableSetting · 22/05/2021 00:40

Wishing you all the best - enjoy your special day xx

AlwaysLatte · 22/05/2021 00:54

Wishing you a wonderful day. You'll feel the sunshine even if you don't see it, it's the magic of weddings. 🥂

queenofthenorthwest · 22/05/2021 00:55

Congratulations op I hope you both have a wonderful day xxxxx

user1471462634 · 22/05/2021 08:05

Rain or shine, it will be a day you'll never forget. All the very best to you both Cat.Flowers

Iwantcauliflowercheese · 22/05/2021 08:17

Huge congratulations! Have a fabulous day. I have been following you since your first post about your DP being yellow. I admire how you were fostering with all that going on. You deserve the best day.

SmiledWithTheRisingSun · 22/05/2021 08:24

Oh wow Congratulations!
May your day be filled with love 💛💖💙💚❤️💗🧡💝🤍🤎💐💐💐

firstimemamma · 22/05/2021 08:39

Happy wedding day op Thanks

wizzler · 22/05/2021 08:48

Have a wonderful day OP

notthemum · 22/05/2021 08:54

Have a wonderful day OP. I shall be thinking of you. 💐🍀🥂

BraveGoldie · 22/05/2021 09:13

I am wishing you a wonderful day to celebrate your love OP...... DaffodilDaffodilStarStarThanksGinCake

Leonardsgirl · 22/05/2021 09:16

Have a wonderful day. I hope the sun shines for you.

Oblomov21 · 22/05/2021 09:31

Hope you have a lovely day.

Makes me sad to read how covid has meant that people have been failed by the NHS, things being done too late.

Daisychainsandglitter · 22/05/2021 10:11

Thinking of you OP have a wonderful day x

1988Username · 22/05/2021 14:22

Have a wonderful wedding day today.

3Britnee · 22/05/2021 14:33

I hope the weather was lovely for you today 💐

Rainbow321 · 22/05/2021 15:31

It's a sunny day where I love so I'm hoping the sun is shining for you also.

Rainbow321 · 22/05/2021 15:31

Live !

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