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I am getting married tomorrow

144 replies

bloodywhitecat · 21/05/2021 13:48

Coming up for a year ago now DP began to get sick, as the weeks went on he turned yellow and, after a mammoth battle with the NHS in covid times, he was diagnosed with a rare and aggressive cancer. A PET scan in August showed no spread but by the time they finally got round to operating on him in late October they found the cancer had spread to his liver, limiting his already limited chances of survival (the 5 year survival rate for his cancer without spread is 7%). In November we were told he had six months to live yet somehow he is doing OK, the tumours are spreading but he is well in himself for now.

Tomorrow we marry. We are blessed that he is well enough to enjoy it, the icing on the cake would be sunshine. When we were buying our outfits we went for shorts for our fosterling (and had to make an emergency dash to the shops yesterday for some trousers for him). Cross your fingers for some sun for us please?

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SunIsComing · 21/05/2021 20:48

Have a great day!

notapizzaeater · 21/05/2021 21:56

Aww congratulations, hope the sun shines for you all xx

onedaysoonish · 21/05/2021 22:00

I remember your threads. I really hope you have a wonderful day xxx

Daisychainsandglitter · 21/05/2021 22:03

I hope you have a wonderful day tomorrow and that the sun shines for you. Congratulations to you both.

Dementedswan · 21/05/2021 22:05

Wishing you all a magical day! Xxxx

DareIask · 21/05/2021 22:10

Have a happy day x

RedFrogsRule · 21/05/2021 22:12

Enjoy every single minute x

LadyPenelope68 · 21/05/2021 22:21

I’ve been following your threads as well. I hope you both have the most amazing and VERY special day ❤️💛🌷

bloodywhitecat · 21/05/2021 22:32

Thank you everyone. It feels strange not being next to him tonight, it is the first time since his surgery that we have been apart at night. Up until we started fostering we had regular nights apart as at first we were in a long distance relationship then, when we moved in together I worked a 24/7 shift pattern. The last time we were apart at night I was willing him not to die too soon from the bastard disease and I was keeping everything crossed that I could grab a precious visiting hour without covid closing down the hospital.

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doitwithlove · 21/05/2021 22:38

To both of you Congratulations on your wedding.

Have a wonderful day full of love and happy memories ❤️X❤️

mimofboy2 · 21/05/2021 22:40

Hope you have an amazing day and I really hope the sun shines for you.

notagainohno · 21/05/2021 22:41

Hope that you have an amazing day and that the sun shines.

DramaAlpaca · 21/05/2021 22:42

Have a wonderful day tomorrow, both of you. Many congratulations Star

MintMatchmaker · 21/05/2021 22:44

I was thinking about you earlier, I look out for your posts from time to time as I remember your post last year.

I hope you both have a wonderful day tomorrow.

Impatientwino · 21/05/2021 22:46

I've been lurking on your threads, not brave enough to post. My mum was diagnosed with a very rare cancer and died very quickly just before your partner was diagnosed and I have always admired your strength and bravery (I know you have no choice but still)

I'm so delighted to see you are getting married tomorrow, I shall do my very best sun dance for you. Enjoy making your memories ( and a very unMumsnet x)

abouquetofsharpenedpencils · 21/05/2021 22:47

Have a wonderful day tomorrow!
Fingers crossed for some sunshine for you
Congratulations Flowers

justaweeone · 21/05/2021 22:49

Thanksx

RoisinL · 21/05/2021 23:04

I hope you have a wonderful day in the sunshine x

TreadLightly3 · 21/05/2021 23:09

Good luck! I hope you have a brilliant day Flowers

toocold54 · 21/05/2021 23:11

Congratulations to you both Flowers

CatWithARabbit · 21/05/2021 23:14

I hope you have a fantastic day tomorrow. Congratulations!

Tiramumsu · 21/05/2021 23:15

Congratulations! Hope you have fabulous day, rain or shine.

Thisisjaaam · 21/05/2021 23:18

Congratulations 🥳 what a special day for you both. Hoping for some sunshine for you

JustGotToKeepOnKeepingOn · 21/05/2021 23:19

Have a magical day. It won't matter if you get sun, snow, hail or torrential rain you're getting married!

NotanotherboxofFrogs · 21/05/2021 23:25

Hope you have a wonderful day. Il happily take the rain or whatever weather for you tomorrow so that you can have sunshine beaming on you. Sending 🌹 for your bouquet, 🍰 and 🍹.