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I am getting married tomorrow

144 replies

bloodywhitecat · 21/05/2021 13:48

Coming up for a year ago now DP began to get sick, as the weeks went on he turned yellow and, after a mammoth battle with the NHS in covid times, he was diagnosed with a rare and aggressive cancer. A PET scan in August showed no spread but by the time they finally got round to operating on him in late October they found the cancer had spread to his liver, limiting his already limited chances of survival (the 5 year survival rate for his cancer without spread is 7%). In November we were told he had six months to live yet somehow he is doing OK, the tumours are spreading but he is well in himself for now.

Tomorrow we marry. We are blessed that he is well enough to enjoy it, the icing on the cake would be sunshine. When we were buying our outfits we went for shorts for our fosterling (and had to make an emergency dash to the shops yesterday for some trousers for him). Cross your fingers for some sun for us please?

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Coffeeandcake36 · 21/05/2021 16:24

Congratulations! Have a beautiful day Flowers

Rainbow321 · 21/05/2021 16:27

Have yourselves a lovely day. Flowers

WeakAsIAm · 21/05/2021 16:29

Congratulations, enjoy your day rain or shine it will be amazing

katy1213 · 21/05/2021 16:31

Best wishes for a lovely day - and if it rains, I hope there's a rainbow!

GodolphinHorne · 21/05/2021 16:32

Congratulations OP. Wishing you a perfect day and some spring sunshine.

Flowers
mygrandchildrenrock · 21/05/2021 16:33

Congratulations Flowers I hope you have a wonderful day and the sun will be shining in your hearts and eyes if not the sky!

aibutohavethisusername · 21/05/2021 16:34

Congratulations to you and your husband to be. Like others I’ve been following your threads. Hope you get sunshine.

Bathshebahardy · 21/05/2021 16:36

Have a lovely day.

changedusername2021 · 21/05/2021 16:39

Congratulations I hope you have an amazing sunny day.

Callywalls · 21/05/2021 16:42

Congratulations, wishing you a wonderful, sunny day xxxxx

DoingItMyself · 21/05/2021 16:43

Fingers crossed for you. Many blessings.

AnneShirleysNewDress · 21/05/2021 16:43

Wishing you both the loveliest of days xx

SaskiaRembrandt · 21/05/2021 16:47

Congratulations! I hope you have a wonderful day. Crossing my fingers you get some sunshine.

mummumumumumumumumumum · 21/05/2021 16:48

congratulations, I hope the sun shines for you but either way I'm sure you will have the best day ever. I hope your marriage is blessed and glorious for as long as possible xx

Flibbitygibbit · 21/05/2021 16:50

Have tears for you. Have the most special day.😘

Scoobygang7 · 21/05/2021 16:56

Am hoping for sunshine for you all. I hope you have a wonderful day.

FrappuccinoLight · 21/05/2021 17:10

Have the best day, take loads of photos, dance your feet off, eat to excess, laugh and have fun, hug and kiss, enjoy enjoy and enjoy. Basically make the best memories that you can cherish forever
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

LilacSloth · 21/05/2021 17:16

Congratulations! I'll keep my fingers crossed for sunshine but it sounds like you'll have a wonderful day regardless of the weather. WineCakeSmile

user1456923830 · 21/05/2021 17:18

Congratulations! Have a wonderful day. Like others have said, take moments to soak it all up. It is you and your husbands! Special day. Will think of you and pray for some sunshine but either way it will be perfect x

GlitterBicuits · 21/05/2021 17:37

I remember you posting about him right at the start of the illness.

I hope your day is a very special one. Lots of MNers are with you in spirit.WineWineWineThanksThanksThanksCakeCakeCake

SunshineCake · 21/05/2021 17:39

☀️ 🌞 👰 🤵‍♂️ 💍 💐 🎂 🥂 🍾 I hope you have a wonderful day.

AdaColeman · 21/05/2021 17:45

Have a joy filled day @bloodywhitecat, enjoy every moment!
Thanks Wine Cake Thanks

Purrsuation · 21/05/2021 17:48

That's lovely. I'll listen to the Christina Perri song.

TimeIhadaNameChange · 21/05/2021 19:19

Hope the three of you have the best day ever. Congratulations!

AddisonMontgomeryShepherd · 21/05/2021 19:33

Praying for sunshine for you. Have a lovely day making memories you can treasure for a lifetime. Congratulations ❤️