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Saddest breaking up song?

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Clawdy · 02/04/2021 09:15

Listened to Roy Orbison's "Crying" this morning, such a sad breakup song. What's your favourite breakup song, one that really gets to your heart?

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UneAstuce · 02/04/2021 22:00

You're Still My Man by Whitney

ActualAl · 02/04/2021 22:01

I agree with lots of the ones mentioned and would like to add Garth Brooks, The Dance.
m.youtube.com/watch?v=lhyijN4ftko

BettyOBarley · 02/04/2021 22:04

Rise by Gabrielle always makes me feel a bit emotional, especially the bit:

Much time has passed between us
Do you still think of me at all?

KarensChoppyBob · 02/04/2021 22:05

Yy to Joy Division, the film just added to it 😢.

RoSEbuds6 · 02/04/2021 22:07

@HouseOfTheRisingMum

So many good songs mentioned on here. I’m going to have to make myself a playlist...

The song that gives me shivers is I Want You by Elvis Costello. (Although it might be about an affair rather than a break up)

Crikey me too! I love Elvis Costello.

Also Will You by Hazel OConnor
Nothing compares 2u Sinead O'Connor version
Down to the Ground Joan Armatrading

You can tell I did most of my breaking up in the 80s and 90s.

SergeiL · 02/04/2021 22:07

Also The Weakness in Me by Joan Armatrading

RoSEbuds6 · 02/04/2021 22:14

Joan Armatrading is a legit ledge.

ZednotZee · 02/04/2021 22:21

Lisa Loeb - stay (I miss you)

baroqueandblue · 02/04/2021 22:21

Save Me by Joan Armatrading!! omg I HEART Joan, she's pure talent

baroqueandblue · 02/04/2021 22:23

Sinking
Caught up in a whirling motion
Such a strange sensation
The currents uncertain
Like sails of a mill
I spin
Like wheels I move in a circle
While you stand on the bank
Immune or evasive
Throw me a lifeline
Save me...

Intimacy and affection
Frozen
In this game of chance
I forfeit
Full hand of love
With no counters
Like a moth
With no flame
To persuade me
Like blood in the rain
Running thin
While you stand on the inside
Looking in
Save me...

Inside looking in
Complete in yourself
Throw me a lifeline
Save me...

Stand on the bank
Immune or evasive
Throw me a lifeline
Save me...

SanFrancisco49er · 02/04/2021 22:28

Al Green, How Can you Mend a Broken Heart.

I'm happily married but this makes me feel raw and 18 again!

LunaNorth · 02/04/2021 22:32

I’m Going To Stop Pretending That I Didn’t Break Your Heart - Eels
Stop - Sam Brown
If Love Is A Red Dress - Maria McKee
The Love I Lost - Harold Melvin and the Bluenotes
If You See Her, Say Hello - Bob Dylan
I Am A Rock - Simon and Garfunkel
You Don’t Bring Me Flowers - Neil Diamond and Barbra Streisand
Love On The Rocks - Neil Diamond
One For My Baby (And One For The Road) - Frank Sinatra
In The Wee Small Hours Of The Morning - Frank Sinatra
What’ll I Do? - Frank Sinatra
The Man That Got Away - Judy Garland

Joeblack066 · 02/04/2021 22:38

@tellmewhentheLangshiplandscoz

There is literally no sadder song than Sinead O'Connors Nothing Compares 2 U.

Slight tangent but also Skunk Anansie Hedonism for a sad "seeing your ex unexpectedly" song is gorgeous.

I heartily agree.
SparklingLime · 02/04/2021 22:40

Surely the brilliant Will You by Hazel O'Connor is about the hesitant beginning of a relationship, @RoSEbuds6?

Feelinglikearubbishmum · 02/04/2021 22:41

@SugarbabyMilly I remember when he broke up with Jennifer Aniston, he made some bitchy comments, she was very classy in return.

Feelinglikearubbishmum · 02/04/2021 22:42

Shift by Grizzly bear-short but just such a haunting sound

TwoBlondes · 02/04/2021 22:42

@BigSandyBalls2015 nearly forty years after the breakup, I still can't listen to Odyssey!

Feelinglikearubbishmum · 02/04/2021 22:44

Say hello, wave goodbye-I prefer the David gray version to Soft cell

Love will tear us apart-Joy division

JamesGetIn · 02/04/2021 22:45

Missing You, John Waite for retro sad vibes.

Dancing On My Own, Robyn - heartbreaking 😭

Agree with loads above too and was pleasantly surprised to see Westlife mentioned a few times. I find Bop Bop Baby very emotional even though it's an upbeat and seemingly feel-good song.

Especially this part (won't seem like much without the music):

When I call you at home and he answers the phone
Or I get your machine and I don't hear me

😢😢😢

Nannyamc · 02/04/2021 22:46

Christopher cross
Never be the same
Still brings me to tears

Milomonster · 02/04/2021 22:47

Ben Howard Evergreen and End of the Affair

RoSEbuds6 · 02/04/2021 22:51

@SparklingLime

Surely the brilliant Will You by Hazel O'Connor is about the hesitant beginning of a relationship, *@RoSEbuds6*?
I hadn’t remembered it that way, I thought of it as an ‘are we breaking up or not’ sort of song. It was 40 years ago Shock
GrumpyTerrier · 02/04/2021 22:51

Lilac Wine-- Jeff Buckley. It's about drinking away the pain of a breakup and thinking you see the person coming back to you.

Warning do not listen unless you want to cry!

Possibility by Lykke Li is the most heartbreaking song ever, when you think you will never love again. If you watch the live video you can see the pain in the singer's face.

Lullaby by Kate Rusby-- not written for her friend who died but completely encapsulates the heartbreak of losing someone you love.

Skinny Love by Birdy-- captures that mood of despartion when you know it's going to end and you are clinging on.

JaneJeffer · 02/04/2021 22:53

Can't shake you - Gloriana
I wish it would rain down - Phil Collins

Fabvegetablegrower · 02/04/2021 22:54

For me it's Dionne Warwick Heartbreaker. Fab song.