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Devastated our cat has died

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maybemove · 01/01/2021 16:38

First of all, I know in these unprecedented times people are losing family members, and a lot of people think ‘just a cat’ but I’m honestly heartbroken. A close friend of mine recently lost a parent and the guilt I feel being this grief stricken over my wee furry friend in unreal, is this remotely normal?

She became ill on Xmas day and had to be put to sleep just a few days later, it was so quick.
My youngest dc has autism and other disabilities and I honestly have never seen anyone closer to an animal as my dd was. She hasn’t stopped crying since and it’s so hard.
I keep stretching my feet out at night to feel the weight of her little body and she’s just not there anymore.

Over the last 12 years she has been through every hard moment in our lives, her sweet little purring calming us through the worst times.

Someone tell me this gets easier, and how can I help dd through this too?

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maybemove · 02/01/2021 16:31

Sheldon that poem has set me off again, beautiful thank you.

Missy, your cat was just beautiful! Flowers thank you for showing me the photo board (and for asking if it was ok to post first). It’s so lovely and definitely think it will help dd (her nickname is also Moo! Possibly outing, but a bit coincidental not to share)

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Whatwouldnanado · 02/01/2021 16:41

Sending love and condolences. Furry friends are every bit part of the family as humans. She clearly had a wonderful life with you. In time you'll maybe find another puss cat to share the love you have to give.

justgeton · 02/01/2021 16:45

You've lost a member of your family.. don't let anyone tell you differently.

I feel for you x

missymoomoomoomoomoo · 02/01/2021 16:53

Thanks @maybemove she was a beautiful (slightly rotund) princess. Your Moo was super beautiful too. Here's to our Moos Flowers

missymoomoomoomoomoo · 02/01/2021 16:56

Suddenly realised I might have read that wrong and your DD's nickname is Moo? Sorry! Heres to our Moos still

Evvyjb · 02/01/2021 16:59

I'm so sorry. Lost my 11 yo girl in August and I'm still totally heartbroken - I was absolutely distraught for the first week, and still cant talk about her without crying. It's totally normal. Come over to the litter tray if you want - we have a memorial thread that I've found has really helped. X

Fluffycloudland77 · 02/01/2021 17:17

My dh used to think there couldn’t possibly be so many tears over our cat either.

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