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It wasn’t wind... it was a baby!

999 replies

Ohshitx · 01/06/2020 08:10

So here’s part 2 (which is crazy to me)

There isn’t really an update as such I should hear today or tomorrow regarding a scan. I’ve got the MW again on Thursday and I suppose this week will be the week of grand reveals.

I’m sorry if I disappear for a day at a time I’m still trying to wrap my own head around this.

OP posts:
Jakc · 01/06/2020 08:35

It is definitely meant to be. How is the dad? Is he a good man? How do you think he will react? X

Billyjoearmstrong · 01/06/2020 08:35

Oh god, I wish I was like you! I get every shite symptom going! Grin

Soubriquet · 01/06/2020 08:36

Hopefully your scan goes well and the FWB takes it well too

ChasingRainbows19 · 01/06/2020 08:37

Good luck for scans and telling family/dad. Don't worry about being absent from here, you have a lot going on! Just update when you are ready.

aibutohavethisusername · 01/06/2020 08:39

Hope all goes well this week.

Binterested · 01/06/2020 08:39

Any hint of excitement OP or are you still in WTF mode ? I guess you want to frame it right for your family so they take your lead on how to feel but that’s harder if you are not yet sure how you feel.

macaroniandpizza · 01/06/2020 08:40

I hope that your keeping well op and that things go well telling babys dad

Amstelbier · 01/06/2020 08:40

My colleague didn’t realise she was pregnant until 26 weeks. She was still breastfeeding her first child and assumed that she was slow to lose her baby weight. There’s 11 months between her children.
Not the same as you of course but goes to show it is possible that it can easily happen.
Good luck OP

TokyoSushi · 01/06/2020 08:40

Good luck this week, you're doing amazingly!

YurtleTheTurtle · 01/06/2020 08:41

Good luck lovely!

Mammaaof · 01/06/2020 08:41

Hope your ok OP was following your other thread X

IAmReportingYouForBBQing · 01/06/2020 08:41

Good luck op ❤️

TiddyTid · 01/06/2020 08:42

Good luck Thanks

IAmLarge · 01/06/2020 08:42

I've been following your other thread and just wanted to say congratulations! Can't wait to hear about your scan. Something innocent and bright in these dark times is just what we need. I hope everything goes well! Flowers

BuffaloCauliflower · 01/06/2020 08:42

Ah I was on your first thread. Sounds good to tell your mum, I hope she’s a positive influence. I can imagine FWB might find it hard to believe you haven’t known all this time so really hope he’s a reasonable guy and that all goes well.

IDontDrinkTea · 01/06/2020 08:43

I hope it goes well for you OP

worstwitch18 · 01/06/2020 08:43

Wow. I saw your first thread when there were only a few posts and thought, meh, it'll be wind. Then I saw this thread. Shock

Good luck, OP!

Alpacamabags · 01/06/2020 08:44

Just wanted to say, please don't feel that you can't be confused/scared/worried/sad. That doesn't mean this new wee one will be a bad thing but it's a massive onslaught of emotions. I'm sure when they are hear you'll be overjoyed but right now take time to process for you. It's okay to be excited but you don't have to be right away.

CormoranStrike · 01/06/2020 08:45

Thank you for starting a new thread - hope you hVe a good week.

GreenTeaMug · 01/06/2020 08:45

Good luck!"

Gallacia · 01/06/2020 08:45

Yay that's exciting

Flippinfurloughed · 01/06/2020 08:45

Ah I was on your first thread - really wishing you all the best OP, good luck for this week Flowers

HoneysuckIejasmine · 01/06/2020 08:47

I hope you've enjoyed your last quiet weekend 😊

Movinghouse2015 · 01/06/2020 08:47

Good luck op, been following the first thread. Hope the news is well received xxx

CanIHaveAPenguinPlease · 01/06/2020 08:50

I hope it goes well telling your mum. She will be shocked but I hope supportive.