Your very first time sex that is

[justasking111]

Talking about ds going off to uni. OH is hoping he has a good time socially. Going off at a tangent. I asked OH if he remembered his first time sex wise, he said not. I said WOW how could you not it is so memorable. He got sulky then.

So am I weird to remember it or is he odd to have forgotten it?

I thought everyone remembered their first time surely. Well vaguely at least. I do. It was crap.

Front passenger seat of an (old style) Mini in a disco carpark circa 1979. Classy.

i was going to post how I don’t really remember the ins and outs (pun intended ) but actually I do. I remember the little pinch feeling.

It was quite nice really. I never regretted it for a second.

I remember who it was with and where it was, but I don't actually remember any other details. It really wasn't all that memorable or remarkable.

He was drunk.

I remember who, when and where. I thought ‘is that it?’ But we were both very young. He’s dead now. Nothing to do with sex with me though.

I remember but not the exact date or age. I do know it was 94/95 and I was 14/15.
Shows had come to town. White lightening had been drunk in copious amounts. The boy I lusted over made his move.....

I remember it very clearly. Like Alexa he’s dead now

It was with you, he's embarrassed.

I remember. It was vaguely pleasant, more than anything I felt "Whew, great, not a virgin anymore".

I can remember it. I was 17 and it was with a guy that I fancied like mad. We were in my bedroom and my mum and dad were downstairs watching TV! It was a bit of a let down to be honest,but afterwards I had a feeling of 'Well,at least I've got that out of the way now!'.

@justasking111 are you sure you weren’t his first?

He's probably embarrassed and doesn't want to talk about it. My husband would have been the same.

A lot of first times are not very good. I'm like you, op, I don't forget but I certainly don't bring the memory to the forefront of my mind very often :-).

Don't ask yer old man again, it's really not important.

Omg @Alexa my first partner died too also nothing to do with me! I remember every detail including the fact that we went through 6 condoms in 2hrs. oh to be young again!

I remember mine (aged 19,with now DH). He remembers his (aged 16, with his first GF).

Was not his first time, he was engaged to someone else before me and I remember a couple of his other girlfriends. He started early with girls he said. I on the other hand was a late starter. I remember just wanting to get it out of the way I was so scared I threw up, then decided to just get on with it. It hurt quite a bit.

If he started early he may feel uncomfortable discussing it, especially as you’re making light of it - if he feels he was too young for example he may have conflicted feelings over the whole thing.

I don't remember the specific details but I remember where, who with (thankfully) and that it wasn't terrible for a first time.

I was younger than my then boyfriend (we were both 16) and I remember thinking I couldn't take his virginity until he was over 16 otherwise I'd be labelled something awful.

In true young love fashion we did it a lot but none of it was very memorable

I remember mine but not the guys name. I was only 13 and it was horrible, but I felt I couldn't say no.
All I remember was his friends called him "fluff".

Mine was a little awkward (we were both virgins) but nice!

I think it's a bit sad he doesn't remember. Maybe I'm over thinking but that implies to me that it wasn't a positive experience for him.

Yep....age 18...probably around oct/nov of first year at uni! Ended up the going out with the guy for 2years.

My first time was uneventful. He was tiny and I couldn’t feel it 😂 but I do remember it!

I do! I got pregnant.

I definitely remember. It hurt like fuck, but it got a lot better after that! I was 19 and in love.