Your very first time sex that is

[justasking111]

Talking about ds going off to uni. OH is hoping he has a good time socially. Going off at a tangent. I asked OH if he remembered his first time sex wise, he said not. I said WOW how could you not it is so memorable. He got sulky then.

So am I weird to remember it or is he odd to have forgotten it?

To pp.

I'm glad, in a way, that pp have said how much it hurt because Christ did it hurt! I was genuinely horrified at the time, and felt a bit betrayed by all the teen magazines and their "sharp pinch" fallacy . And the blood .
I'd ridden for several years at that point so I'd expected it to be more straightforwards.

It did a u-turn and became pretty amazing within a few minutes though, but didn't feel so amazing the next day .
All of my close friends then and now claim it didn't hurt at all, I was wondering if it was a bit like the childbirth was an orgasmic experience conspiracy.

It was with someone who knew what they were doing, and was focussed on making it good for me, so that probably helped.
I was of the age of consent (in the country we were in at the time ) but the fact that it was with one of my father's friends makes me feel pretty disgusted now. It hasn't been easy to process as I have very confused feelings on it all.
Doesn't change the fact he was a dirty fucking paedophile though

OP my DH said something similar when I asked him the same questions.

Turned out that I was his first and he had been too embarrassed to tell me. He only admitted it years later at which point I was really upset with him as I think I would have tried to make it more special iykwim?

I remember it. It was nothing special and I wish I had waited. I was 14.

I think a lot of the time "I don't remember" is man-speak for "I don't want to tell you" ;)

I was 25 and very very nervous. I kept apologising and he kept telling me not to!

It was uncomfortable rather than painful I would say, but he was very gentle with me. We'd also spent quite a while playing around, but not actually having full sex, so he knew my body reasonably well and I trusted him. I'm glad it was with him (although looking back, he probably found the nine months before I felt ready to sleep with him a bit frustrating!).

We were both 19. We had seen each other in various local places for a few months and eventually got together.
We were in his flat. Although we were the same age he was always more mature and worldly-wise than me. It was my first time but not his first time by a long way as far as I ever knew.
As a PP said I thought "is that it?"

We got married
He is another one who has died! What are we doing to these guys?

I was 15 and it was on the sofa in his dads front room while hot fuzz was on in the background, and if I remember rightly the condom was strawberry flavoured
we're married now

I think everyone remembers. I don't think he wants to talk about it with you

We were both about 15, and we did it on the grass at a well-known beauty spot near where I lived. When I go to visit my mother's place I always drive past that spot, and think " Well at least I picked a nice spot for it ".