Your very first time sex that is

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Talking about ds going off to uni. OH is hoping he has a good time socially. Going off at a tangent. I asked OH if he remembered his first time sex wise, he said not. I said WOW how could you not it is so memorable. He got sulky then.

So am I weird to remember it or is he odd to have forgotten it?

My first time never happened .

35 now and never had the opportunity, doubt I ever will. Ironically was very eager to get it out the way from about 15 onwards but had no takers, literally lol.

@Bodear what do you think? I basically start sexually assaulting people. Needless to say I don’t get drunk ever after realising.

I remember who it was with and where

And also thinking is this is what it is all about

And can’t wait to tell my friend

@BogglesGoggles

Ford Anglia 😁😁

I remember far too clearly, every detail. I was 14 and he was 36. He is also dead.

I don’t really remember mine to be honest. It was a boyfriend at the time but I forget the specific time. What does it matter? It’s not a big deal.

@LuciferTheCat that was my reaction too. Don’t worry, I don’t get that drunk anymore.

I remember mine. I was 15 and he was 23. I thought I remembered loads about it but actually I can only remember where it was and that I was v.shy! It was the 80s so I had to take off my white stilettos! :)

@BogglesGoggles, I think that's wildly inappropriate, and it's just changed the tone of the whole thread. Please consider not using that term, even in jest, it's nothing to be proud of, it's sinister.

Mine was in his mum's front room on the floor, I was 15 - everyone was in bed.
The next day he took me out to buy an eternity ring.
He's dead now too.

So many of your first partners have died. That has made me a bit sad.

My first time was a rushed fumble in his bedroom as his parents were due back any moment. I made him wear two condoms just to be sure

I have no idea where he is now. It was a LONG time ago and I now don't want to google/stalk him in case he has died.

I was 15/16, drunk in the park (was at a party in a clubhouse type thing in the park)! I knew the guy vaguely from school. Don't remember most of it, just that it was crap! Met up with him a few times after, then ended up in a relationship with his best friend for 5 years!

I do. I was 16 and he was 21 I think. Holiday romance, saw him a couple of times after the holiday and stayed in touch for a few years afterwards (by occasional email mostly). It wasn't good or bad, just awkward. I always thought he might come out as gay at some point.

I remember. I was 14 and a much older family member sexually abused me and continued to do so for a year. I was so ashamed that I locked the experience away and pretended to everyone that I was a virgin. Not doing that any more.

@TripleSeptic to be fair I don’t think that any of the men I’ve got with while drunk minded (but being that drunk I’m not really in a stare of mind to care). not everyone is good drunk. See above, I don’t drink as a result. It’s not particularly different to the kinds of people who get into brawls or cause criminal damage while drunk. They shouldn’t drink that much either obviously. I’m sorry if its shocked you but I’m not entirely sure how you expect me to describe it in pleasant way, it’s fundamentally unpleasant.

I was 16, so was he. First time for us both. He was absolutely lovely, we were mad about each other and I was very lucky. Lasted 4 years and I was heartbroken.

we were both 15, and it was both of our first times, so my boyfriend went all out and lit candles all over his bedroom and put on some music. he even put fresh sheets on his bed 😂 it wasn’t as romantic as we thought it would be but it was definitely memorable! we’re still together 13 years and 3 kids later.

I was 16. First boyfriend. He was more nervous than me. I enjoyed it.

I was 16 and it was my boyfriend of 10 months.

It was dull and I ate cereal after

I remember mine I was 14 and hanging around with some older guys from school probably around 17. They had a mate who was 18 and had left school already and he offered to walk me home. We went through the forest which was a short cut. Pitch black and he just took me in to the bushes, put a condom on and laid me down and did it. All I really remember is that it wasn’t working no matter how hard he tried as I was clearly a virgin. I checked my knickers when I got home and there was blood. So yeah kind of hard to forget. I actually just read that back and I'm disgusted. God I feel a bit sick. I wish it had been more romantic etc for my first time..

I think my first time was after a night out all I really remember is waking up next morning in a strange bed naked next to someone I didn't know.

I remember mine. Not fondly.

My first snog/on/off boyfriend has died (never had sex). Found his obituary, recently.