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Neighbour on Tinder WWYD

164 replies

usernametaken01 · 21/07/2019 17:42

Hello!
I moved house a couple of years ago, and met my neighbour shortly after. Thought he was gorgeous but i was in a relationship, so have never taken any conversation past small talk.
He is aware I had a boyfriend, although I lived alone.
However I've now split from my boyfriend and recently gone on Tinder, where I have seen my neighbours profile. I closed the app without swiping so I guess he's still hanging around on there?
He's same age as me and I find him attractive, however he lives in my building...has potential to be awkward AF.
Should I swipe left or right?! He may have already seen me and discarded me anyway 😂
What would you do?

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PompeyBez · 23/07/2019 16:02

Oh!! How exciting!! Do you want to date him or just be 'friends'Wink
You must go out on a date before you let him in!!!
Oh dear, I'm already over invested (my love life is non existent and none of my neighbours are eligible)Grin

cheesenpickles · 23/07/2019 16:04

Yes!!! Modern romance in action. Grin

Bentley111 · 23/07/2019 16:04

Shamelessly placemarking Grin love threads like this!

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Annonymiss123 · 23/07/2019 16:06

He's just replied saying 'good to hear, only been waiting 18 months

OMG!! 😍😍

If he turns up at your door a la Frank Butcher with the spinny sparkly bow tie we are going to need a picture.

Next best thing will be a diagram.

As you were.

PMSL! 😂😂

TokyoSushi · 23/07/2019 16:11

Oh this is a fab thread, how exciting OP!

Firefly111 · 23/07/2019 16:14

This is brilliant!! How exciting!!

Batshitcrazy82 · 23/07/2019 16:19

Loving this so much!!

MeltedEggMum2 · 23/07/2019 16:24

Ah, how adorable. Good luck op!

SubisYodrethwhenLarping · 23/07/2019 16:26

SmileSmileSmileSmile

Lovely

SmileSmileSmileSmile

legalseagull · 23/07/2019 16:46

Just found this thread! Amazing. I'm bedding in and dating vicariously through OP. Good luck!!

Goodnightjude1 · 23/07/2019 17:14

What a result!!!! Nice one OP!

Midgey91 · 23/07/2019 17:33

Watching this as I need to know what happens next!

shivermetimbers77 · 23/07/2019 18:37

That's a great message from him. How exciting!

RageAgainstTheVendingMachine · 23/07/2019 18:45

So the weather's a good excuse to go out and have last orders in your local tonight? Wine bottoms up! don't need the diagram thx Wink

RageAgainstTheVendingMachine · 23/07/2019 18:48

But yes, joking aside your next gambit should be: Fancy last orders? Or if that's not doable then Let me know when you're free for a drink up for shenanigans
Unless you go with the aforementioned Wanna come downstairs line. bring condoms

Tisahardlife · 23/07/2019 18:50

Any updates OP? I'm so excited for you Grin

spiderlight · 23/07/2019 18:55

Ohhhh, exciting!! Any updates??

Dollywilde · 23/07/2019 19:11

Ahhh I’m grinning too and I’m not even you! What a great reply!

ContactLight · 23/07/2019 19:15

I am so watching this thread!

TessTackle · 23/07/2019 19:16

Love his reply.. think we’ll keep him! Grin

doodlejump1980 · 23/07/2019 19:28

Do we think op is “busy”?

usernametaken01 · 23/07/2019 19:34

I just replied 'oh have you?!'
Followed coyly by 'ps. Same 😂'
Just to express interest and make it clear I liked him too!
He's really slow with the replies though and haven't had one since!! Which is frustrating as I'm a phone-in-hand-good-to-go kinda gal! But I also quite like the suspense 😉

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usernametaken01 · 23/07/2019 19:37

And also, I would be up for going on an actual date and getting to know him..,not just inviting him straight down one flight of stairs to the bedroom 😂

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SubisYodrethwhenLarping · 23/07/2019 20:05

Do you have any bars or coffee shops or restaurants walking distance from your homes?

Or places like a park that you can walk to, just to get to know him better?

Or you could ask him down for a %+{+

usernametaken01 · 24/07/2019 07:40

Still no reply from him?!
What does it meeeeeaaan?

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