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Who could the father be?

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l1nzi1 · 06/01/2011 19:13

I really need help. I'm going too be 26weeks pregnant this saturday.I slept with a guy on the 19th june approx and a different guy in July time, i can't discuss this with anyone Im wondering is their a possiable i could be pregnant to the guy in june? please help

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l1nzi1 · 06/01/2011 20:20

AF Im on the pill love .. i came for advice not for u too be like that ok

Thank you every1 else

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LIZS · 06/01/2011 20:21

Noone here can give you a defintitiev answer. This is your conscience speaking (if somewhat belatedly) Would suggest you prepare your current p for a possible shock Hmm and locate no.2 as a back up, presumably he took a risk as much as you, and not only with pg. Maybe you should all 3 visit the STD clinic

IAmReallyFabNow · 06/01/2011 20:22

You are being totally unfair here and you had better pray the baby is your current boyfriend's or he is going to be really pissed off when the baby is born.

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AnyFucker · 06/01/2011 20:22

come on, linzi, kick off, it's what you have come to do isn't it ? Hmm

Hullygully · 06/01/2011 20:23

My baby has five dads and its like totally cool!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hullygully · 06/01/2011 20:23

All the pressies it gets and think of the maintenance!!!!!!!!!! Fabazolaroonie!!!!!!!!

rosieposey · 06/01/2011 20:24

Are you actually together with 'July gent' at the moment? If so would he be understanding to the June dalliance? This happened to someone i knew a few years ago and she worked out the correct father with her dates - the baby would almost certainly be a whole lot bigger (by a month) if it was your June man (and if you had a 12 week scan they would have said you were'nt 12 weeks but 16 and thats quite a difference).

I think the real descrepancy would have been if there had been sexual intercourse within a week or so of each encounter but if you are sure there is indeed a month i think it would be fairly (although not 100%) that July's your man Grin Unfortunately given that you aren't sure about when your last period was its not written in stone you will just have to wait till your lo is born - I still think unless a really weird anomaly in conception or ovulation times has occurred that its going to be your July man though - good luck!

AnyFucker · 06/01/2011 20:24

hully...what colour are all the dads ?

is your baby a kind of muddy green colour ?

TheSleepFairy · 06/01/2011 20:24

Jerry Jerry Jerry

nickschick · 06/01/2011 20:25

Stick somefin on the end of it ......

Hullygully · 06/01/2011 20:27

I can't quite remember all the dads colours cos I was a bit pissed up, but my baby is a beautiful kind of dark pink with yellowish palms and feet and big black eyes, just like mine!!!!!!!!!!

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l1nzi1 · 06/01/2011 20:28

No AF thats not why im here.

Rosie thanks very much i really appreciate that :) Yeah the June guy was about the 19th june, but i went for my scan on the 30th nov and they said i was 20weeks and 3days.. so this week i would be 26weeks, counting back that it seems i fell pregnant in july time

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Hullygully · 06/01/2011 20:29
BooBooGlass · 06/01/2011 20:30

Oh come on Hmm
Are you starting an STD collection or what?

NewYearNewKnickersOnMyHead · 06/01/2011 20:30

You are on the pill and pregnant?? Fuck me Shock

On second thoughts.........

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l1nzi1 · 06/01/2011 20:30

Ok Hully

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whomovedmychocolate · 06/01/2011 20:31
Grin
AnyFucker · 06/01/2011 20:32

hully...you missed off a few !il/[1! there !

Hullygully · 06/01/2011 20:32

I have to say, I have walked in her moccasins. Easy, it ain't.

HalfTermHero · 06/01/2011 20:34

Thank God I have found the thread at last!!!!!! Smile

natknickersinatwist · 06/01/2011 20:34

well i am sure when the baby is born depending on the colour it comes out as you will know who the dad is?

i would probably spill the beans to ur DP though otherwise he will get a big shock if its not his!

your only other option would be jeremy kyle..

Consuela39 · 06/01/2011 20:36

Good luck OP. AF and the other hooligans, leave her alone!

Why do people always have to mention that awful programme as well, it's so offensive to compare people's stories to what happens on that.

Really offensive.

TheSecondComing · 06/01/2011 20:36

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HaveAHappyNewJung · 06/01/2011 20:36

Oooh stop it you lot.

So L1nzi1 other than this issue are you excited about the baby?

whomovedmychocolate · 06/01/2011 20:39

Gosh Consuela39 - it's so nice to have all these new people tonight. :) Welcome.

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