Who could the father be?

[l1nzi1]

I really need help. I'm going too be 26weeks pregnant this saturday.I slept with a guy on the 19th june approx and a different guy in July time, i can't discuss this with anyone Im wondering is their a possiable i could be pregnant to the guy in june? please help

DNA test is your only option, test the one you think most likely and then if it's not that one, try the other one. You ought to warn both really.

By my calendar, it's more likely to be your July gentleman.

Ive been going with the guy since Feb and we broke up the whole of june and thats when i had slept with someone else, but then i got back with my partner and slept with him in july! I hope it is the July gentleman .. is there anyway i can find out now?

Well, if you count back 40 weeks from your EDD then subtract two weeks (or in fact just count back 24 weeks from now) then you'll get a pretty clear idea of the date of conception.

Counting back 24weeks it takes me too 22nd July and they said im due 17th april 2011

did you sleep with both after your lmp then ? do your dates agree with scan ?

If your scan is accurate and your EDD is the 17th of April i would say that your July encounter has the most likelihood of being the father as scan dates are not usually a month out IYSWIM?

I can't even really remember my lmp i THINK i slept with the guy in june then had a period, but i really can't remember! Well the hospital said i roughly fell pregnant around 10-17th july .. i just hope it is too the guy in july!!

I love you rosieposey!

Umm don't you think you've got yourself into enough trouble with expressions of love OP

Haha .. Yes :( I just need too put my mind at rest and need to be more certain its the guys in july

So we are saying its more than likely the guy in July is the father??? :D

Sorry but you need a DNA test, you can't guess the father of your child & just hope it's the one you want it to be.
That's not fair

Well the thing is i will know when the baby is born, because one guy was white and the other isn't thats why im not THAT concered about the DNA test, its just for now too give me a bit of peace of mind

To give you a peace of mind?
Does your current partner know you slept with someone else when on a break?

No

have I wandered into the Jeremy Kyle show ?

Yeah! And i need you guys too help me, big time lol

af No just the audition stage at the moment.

Think you might need to broach this subject before the birth - it could be a bit of a shock for the poor chap if he has no idea

Yes your probably right, im just hoping its from July..evertyhing seems too add up till the guy in July, just needed advice and help from others

advice ?

use a condom, love

It certainly sounds as if it's your July guy - hope you can enjoy the rest of your pregnancy, I can imagine it's quite stressful for you.

Oh and welcome to mumsnet OP. Looks like you are a newbie.