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I'm in a women's refuge. AMA.

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Toomuchwine89 · 02/12/2022 08:04

Just that, really. Fire away :)

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WhereIsMumHiding3 · 07/03/2023 19:48

www.dashriskchecklist.co.uk/

Your current refuge staff can complete this form for you and submit to local police

(Source: social worker)

Username721 · 07/03/2023 19:49

What does your three year old think is going on?

Toomuchwine89 · 07/03/2023 19:52

WhereIsMumHiding3 · 07/03/2023 19:46

Good luck @Toomuchwine89

It's a very difficult decision to have made go leave and it will all stack up in your side that you had to leave because of how abusive behaviour to you and children

Please make sure you have a children services referral and.also that police have done a a DASH (domestic abuse risk form)

Thank you.

Yes I reported to police and children's services x

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Toomuchwine89 · 07/03/2023 19:53

Username721 · 07/03/2023 19:49

What does your three year old think is going on?

She knows we're in a place that's just for mummies and children because daddy shouts

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Toomuchwine89 · 07/03/2023 19:54

WhereIsMumHiding3 · 07/03/2023 19:48

www.dashriskchecklist.co.uk/

Your current refuge staff can complete this form for you and submit to local police

(Source: social worker)

Thank you... I don't think they're too concerned. He hasn't broken the non mol or anything. I probably watch too many murder documentaries but I am a little concerned. He seems obsessed. Apparently he's written a really long letter to me but the solicitor isn't allowed to send it. And he's said some seriously unhinged things in court paperwork! Oh well

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Hullothereitsme · 07/03/2023 19:57

That’s good though as the court can see him for what he is

Thatsnotmybee · 07/03/2023 20:10

How old is your teenage son and did you have any trouble getting him into the refuge? I've heard some refuges won't let teenage boys in and I've seen mums on here refuse to leave their abuser for this reason.

Toomuchwine89 · 07/03/2023 20:16

Hullothereitsme · 07/03/2023 19:57

That’s good though as the court can see him for what he is

I hope so but I won't hold my breath!

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Toomuchwine89 · 07/03/2023 20:17

Thatsnotmybee · 07/03/2023 20:10

How old is your teenage son and did you have any trouble getting him into the refuge? I've heard some refuges won't let teenage boys in and I've seen mums on here refuse to leave their abuser for this reason.

We're so lucky. He's 14.5 and it's not a problem at all. There's also an almost 17 year old boy here but he's lovely. My son is very small and quiet which made a difference I think

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PetiteArabian9 · 23/06/2023 08:11

I’m certainly not coping in mine. I really need support as I’m not getting it here.

Toomuchwine89 · 30/06/2023 21:07

PetiteArabian9 · 23/06/2023 08:11

I’m certainly not coping in mine. I really need support as I’m not getting it here.

Message me x

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