I'm a cam girl - AMA

[cammydodger]

Just that, it is my only source of income.

Opening it up to any questions people might have!

Do you support the 'Sex Work is Work' movement?

Other than your cam site(s) do you have a social media presence?

Do you have other friends who are sex workers?

Sometimes I log in and I don't end up doing anything sexual, I just chat to my viewers and regulars.

This is what my husband told me he was mostly doing, just chatting, when I caught him using web cam girls. However Mumsnet convinced me that it was a form of cheating and now we’re discussing the possibility of a divorce. Would you see it like that?

Do you ever worry that by being part of the sex industry you're complicit in the notion that women's bodies are commodities to be bought? And the implications that has for women and girls generally?

Oh and another one if that's ok?

Do you secretly think your customers (like the pop's husband) are sad old pathetic bastards?

OP what's your favourite meal?

Bill....Clinton?

that you, Monica?

This would have put me off too if I had known about it beforehand but luckily one of my regular guys is amazing and techy and send all the cease and desist emails and the DMCA emails for me. He gets free content

op You trust one of your clients to take care of the techy stuff to stop you being exploited (recorded, live streamed) by other clients? Doesn't that ring alarm bells?

@TheSpottedZebra

The gifts you get - is it always sexy stuff, or can it be boring stuff like a new laundry airer? Ie do you have to keep up the sexy pretence the whole time?

Is there an element of findom to this?

No element of findom in my experience. I am definitely more of a sub anyway.

Gifts can be literally anything, one fan bought me a mattress.

@TheSpottedZebra

Tipping is giving extra money, right? How does the money work, do people pay a fee to watch, then tip to see more?

The site I work on is free to sign up and view cams. You top up your account with money and then you can tip "tokens"

I'll make money by setting "goals" like ... If I get to 3k tokens I'll strip etc.

I aim to take around 50k tokens a month, usually I make just over.

@DumplingsAndStew

Do you support the 'Sex Work is Work' movement?

Other than your cam site(s) do you have a social media presence?

Do you have other friends who are sex workers?

I absolutely do.

I have a Twitter and a vanilla insta. I also have a website that my top fans can enter for free and watch videos.

Yes I have made a lot of friends who are also in sex work. It's actually a lovely and supportive network from my experience.

@WhoseThatGirl

That doesn’t sound like a lot of money. Why do you do it?

Its more than I earn for a lot less hours.

@MsAdoraBelleDearheartVonLipwig

Sometimes I log in and I don't end up doing anything sexual, I just chat to my viewers and regulars.

This is what my husband told me he was mostly doing, just chatting, when I caught him using web cam girls. However Mumsnet convinced me that it was a form of cheating and now we’re discussing the possibility of a divorce. Would you see it like that?

I think if I found my husband doing viewing cams it would concern me, but more because he was seeking something that I couldn't provide for him. If he wanted to simply get off, he could look at porn. Cams are a different experience - it's more personal, so I do understand why people would compare it to cheating. Was it the same cam he viewed every time?

@JudyGemstone

Do you ever worry that by being part of the sex industry you're complicit in the notion that women's bodies are commodities to be bought? And the implications that has for women and girls generally?

No. My body is not for sale here, my images are.

@JudyGemstone

Oh and another one if that's ok?

Do you secretly think your customers (like the pop's husband) are sad old pathetic bastards?

No. Like I said, most seem lonely in some aspect or another but they all live fairly "normal" lives. Some are very rich, some are very successful, some are just curious.

@Ifonlyus

This would have put me off too if I had known about it beforehand but luckily one of my regular guys is amazing and techy and send all the cease and desist emails and the DMCA emails for me. He gets free content

op You trust one of your clients to take care of the techy stuff to stop you being exploited (recorded, live streamed) by other clients? Doesn't that ring alarm bells?

Not to me. We have a contract, I trust him. He hasn't let me down yet.

Have you ever had somebody come up to you and say that they recognise you?

@NotanotherboxofFrogs

OP what's your favourite meal?

Paella 😘

@Burnthurst187

Have you ever had somebody come up to you and say that they recognise you?

It's not happened yet! I am a bit of a hermit though and I don't live in a big city.

Hi @cammydodger do you masturbate for your viewers until you orgasm?

@TheRealHousewife

Hi *@cammydodger* do you masturbate for your viewers until you orgasm?

That's the idea.

I'll let you into a little secret tho, I've discovered I can't actually orgasm on cam, for some reason I just can't - I think it's stage fright.

TY for answering @cammydodger. I’m so naive! As long as you keep safe!

PS where do you fix Bill’s sucker? Table? Wall? Headboard? Man doll?

Does your mum and dad know? If yes, how do they feel about it

@TheRealHousewife

TY for answering *@cammydodger*. I’m so naive! As long as you keep safe!

PS where do you fix Bill’s sucker? Table? Wall? Headboard? Man doll?

Wherever you like really! My personal preference is a chair. I've tried wall but it's really hard to reverse yourself accurately onto him 😂

@hotpotlover

Does your mum and dad know? If yes, how do they feel about it

They don't speak, so my mum knows but my dad doesn't. At first mum was a bit horrified but we spoke about it, I reassured her a bit. She can see how happy I am. It's all good.

That's good that your mum is okay with it. Mine wouldn't, but it's fantastic that you've got such a supportive mother who has your back no matter what.

If a stranger asks you what you do for a living , do you tell them what you do or do you lie?

Btw, I find your income pretty amazing, considering that you don't have to pay any petrol etc