I'm a cam girl - AMA

[cammydodger]

Just that, it is my only source of income.

Opening it up to any questions people might have!

@LaurieFairyCake

How do you get gifts

Surely they don't know where you live

Amazon wishlist! Your address stays anon.

@LaurieFairyCake you can do wish lists like with Amazon and the address stays anonymous

I do a very responsible job and have come across several women who do adult work in this field.

They earn 3 x what I do . One lass on babe station earned 5k a month for a few nights work a week ! Each to their own !

How would you feel if it held you back in the future? So say you wanted to go into a career where you had to have “good character” eg nursing. You’d probably find that would exclude you from this line of work. Similar for teaching as you’d have been in “sex work”...
and how do you feel about it being out there forever- people could be recording etc. So your children (future or real) could watch your work in the future.
It’s very here and now- short term gain... IMO.

What kind of things do you do on camera? Is there anything you wouldn't do?

@RaininSummer

Good for you. Not sure I would be thrilled by my daughter doing that but I would be in awe of their money making ability so long as they were perfectly safe. Another question... Have any of your viewers ever tracked you down in a creepy way? Hopefully that isn't at all possible.

Thank you. I figured the same.

No creeps so far, although someone did message me on twitter once to say they'd seen me on xxx road, I just ignored it, as it happens it was definitely not me.

@fuckedandbombed

I do a very responsible job and have come across several women who do adult work in this field.

They earn 3 x what I do . One lass on babe station earned 5k a month for a few nights work a week ! Each to their own !

You can definitely earn a lot of money if you put in the hours / have a lot of fans. I would call myself a mid card player in that I don't go on there all hours of every day, I take it easy on myself.

Thanks for the positivity!

What's the best and worst parts of being a cam girl?
Would you recommend it to young ( / younger) women?
How long do you plan on doing this for?

Do those bloody video duplication sites still exist and do they bother you? I forget the name of it but when DP and I gave it a whirl we discovered that there are sites that automatically record and upload your live feed and you can't get it taken down. Freaked me out a bit knowing it was out there perminantly so we stopped doing it.

Which site do you use?

Is there any correlation between doing more explicit performances and increased income?

Do you have children?

@Isadora2007

How would you feel if it held you back in the future? So say you wanted to go into a career where you had to have “good character” eg nursing. You’d probably find that would exclude you from this line of work. Similar for teaching as you’d have been in “sex work”... and how do you feel about it being out there forever- people could be recording etc. So your children (future or real) could watch your work in the future. It’s very here and now- short term gain... IMO.

Yes its something I do think about often, but I figure I have made my decision (and I did think a lot before getting into it) and I am comfortable with what I put out there. I also have a very good friend who takes care of all the copyright and legal issues so there aren't any unlicensed copies of my videos or images - or if there are they are taken down very quickly. If any family/future children did come across images I think I'd just have to say it was something I was involved in and that I remember fondly. Its only skin, only images. My body is all mine to keep.

Good question!

@Hangingover

Do those bloody video duplication sites still exist and do they bother you? I forget the name of it but when DP and I gave it a whirl we discovered that there are sites that automatically record and upload your live feed and you can't get it taken down. Freaked me out a bit knowing it was out there perminantly so we stopped doing it.

Yes and they are the bane of my life!

Is there an age limit would you say ?

As a middle aged woman with a very popular online dating profile it interests me!

Oh - and what do you actually have to do ? Is it rolling around in sexy undies ? Or more than that ?

Asking for a friend

Do you feel under pressure to look a particular way? Big boobs, fillers, etc etc?

Do you work alone?

Can you see the person who’s watching you? Do you talk to each other?

Yes and they are the bane of my life!

I really wanted to carry on with it but I just couldn't get over the fact that the videos could end up on streaming sites outside your geo settings.

Do you do a self assessment tax return? Do you pay a NI contribution?

I used to get asked this a lot, and see sex workers getting asked this all the time, but I've rarely seen other self employed people asked it. It's almost like the person asking has made a judgement on someone because of what work they do

@fuckedandbombed

Is there an age limit would you say ?

As a middle aged woman with a very popular online dating profile it interests me!

Absolutely no age limit, but I must be honest the younger cam girls do make more and get more views it seems. I'm not young young, I'm 30.

@Hangingover

Yes and they are the bane of my life!

I really wanted to carry on with it but I just couldn't get over the fact that the videos could end up on streaming sites outside your geo settings.

This would have put me off too if I had known about it beforehand but luckily one of my regular guys is amazing and techy and send all the cease and desist emails and the DMCA emails for me. He gets free content 😂