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I’m a secret millennial TERF in academia. AMA

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RealityNotEssentialism · 28/10/2020 15:42

Well, I should preface by saying that I consider TERF to be a slur but I am gender-critical and believe that women are entitled to sex-based protections because it is sex that determines that women are treated differently to men. I of course support trans people having legal protections against discrimination but not at women’s expense.

I work in academia. Most of my colleagues are woker than woke. Many have pronouns in their email signature and bios. Because I’m fairly young, people tend to assume that I agree with the woke mob too when nothing could be further from the truth. I can’t come out though as my career would be over. It can be frustrating and lonely and I have to bite my lip when colleagues tell me that ‘TERFS should be fired’ and similar. I am tolerant of different views but it’s very clear that this doesn’t run both ways for those who disagree with me. It’s odd being told (albeit indirectly) constantly that I am hateful and a threat to people’s safety. I can’t abandon logic and truth though. I just can’t. To vent, I used to run a secret anon twitter account but I shut it down because I was worried about the lengths that TRA doxxers go to.

Feel free to AMA.

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Twiggywinkle13 · 16/03/2021 00:41

I don’t have a question but just want to offer support as a fellow gender critical millennial - I don’t understand the behaviour of lots of the people around me and that if I challenge any of it no one can explain anything they just call you transphobic in a louder and louder voice.

WarriorN · 09/04/2023 12:15

@RealityNotEssentialism I stumbled across your thread which I'd not seen before.

I wondered if any tides had changed? Or is it worse than ever?

Notanotherusernamenow · 09/04/2023 13:21

Worse than ever I’m afraid

WarriorN · 09/04/2023 15:15

Oh I'm sorry :(

DojaPhat · 10/04/2023 19:44

What does woke mean?

Motherswhohate · 02/08/2024 11:19

RealityNotEssentialism · 28/10/2020 15:42

Well, I should preface by saying that I consider TERF to be a slur but I am gender-critical and believe that women are entitled to sex-based protections because it is sex that determines that women are treated differently to men. I of course support trans people having legal protections against discrimination but not at women’s expense.

I work in academia. Most of my colleagues are woker than woke. Many have pronouns in their email signature and bios. Because I’m fairly young, people tend to assume that I agree with the woke mob too when nothing could be further from the truth. I can’t come out though as my career would be over. It can be frustrating and lonely and I have to bite my lip when colleagues tell me that ‘TERFS should be fired’ and similar. I am tolerant of different views but it’s very clear that this doesn’t run both ways for those who disagree with me. It’s odd being told (albeit indirectly) constantly that I am hateful and a threat to people’s safety. I can’t abandon logic and truth though. I just can’t. To vent, I used to run a secret anon twitter account but I shut it down because I was worried about the lengths that TRA doxxers go to.

Feel free to AMA.

so this site full of mothers is full of hate.

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