I’m an ex Escort AMA

[Sugartitties]

Was an escort in my early twenties, anything you want to know just ask

Yeah I’m fine with that, I had sex for money and it is what it is

Thanks for answering

How long did you do it for ?

OP can make that decision for herself of course but it's considered to be very unPC in general.
I've known an asian person refer to herself by a very derogatory name, still not something I'd do.
Anyway, no wish to derail the thread.

OP how long did you escorts for?

*escort

Were you able to set the rules on what you would and wouldn't do? Did clients try and overstep? Did you fear for your safety at all?

[quote Sugartitties]@EveleftEden yes, sadly I can relate absolutely.

I was sexually abused as a child by my brother.

At the time I started prostitution I had not long moved hundreds of miles to live with my boyfriend. He left me for someone else when I was pregnant m, I lost the baby and my home and ended up living with a girl I worked with.

Looking back I was in a terrible place though you wouldn’t have guessed had you known me at the time.

Like I said in a previous post I had no self respect at the time.[/quote]
Sugartitties I just want to say well done for coming out the other side of all your bad experiences

Of course you've clarified that you wouldn't do it again, but I'm very interested to know what your opinions are about sex work? Based on your responses I doubt that you believe it's immoral or 'wrong' (although if you do I'd be very interested to hear it!) I'm mostly wondering what you would say to or think about another sex worker?

Were there any clients that scared you?

It would have been so dangerous for you to go to their premises. I am glad you are no longer doing it

Were their desires surprisingly basic? Did you feel in control?

What's the best way to support women in this scenario? Would you even have wanted support?

I’ll be back to answer your questions shortly

@feelingverylazytoday you’re very welcome, thanks for your question

@BluebellForest836 I did it for less than a year

@frocksmock yes absolutely, it was up to me to set my own boundaries. My first client overstepped the mark so I left. I never feared for my safety but looking back it was very dangerous to do house calls but you could book a driver who would drop you off and wait for you.

@EveleftEden thank you so much, that means a lot

@WhatCFeryIsThis I do think it’s wrong but I don’t judge sex workers. I can’t imagine that any sex worker actually wants to do it. I honestly believe they must have no self respect and zero self esteem and my heart breaks for them knowing they must be really hurting in some way.

My brother abused me from a young age so I think I had a deep rooted belief that I was worth nothing. I would let men abuse me until I was 35.

My mother left my father, had an affair and he would tell me I would grow up to be a tramp just like her.

I wasn’t promiscuous as a teenager at all it was a terrible relationship in my twenties that kind of cemented for me the belief that I was nothing. I went on to marry that boyfriend, left him when I was 35 and I haven’t looked back.

@espressoontap no I absolutely would not do it again. I care about myself too much now!

@espressoontap sorry, answered wrong question. No, no one ever really scared me.

XR3i or RS turbo?

Oh..... wrong type of escort.... 😁

@TomNook they were basic to be honest, mostly just normal sex. One asked for anal and another asked for no condom.

@FrankiesKnuckle my parents had an escort xr3i

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