I’m an ex Escort AMA

[Sugartitties]

Was an escort in my early twenties, anything you want to know just ask

@jessstan2 do you regret it? I had a normal job at the time so lack of money wasn’t a reason for me at all.

@dragonsegg honestly you can ask me anything!

No I never had any nasty men, the first one was a bit pushy but never any aggression or anything like that.

They were all just normal men. I was 22 when I started and I remember my second client was a 49 year old man

@dragonsegg oh yes it definitely did. I wasn’t in a good place when I started. It was more so the relationship that I had been involved in that impacted my mental health more. I got back together with that boyfriend, married him and he bet the shit out of me for many years!

In a great place now though

Do you think, if you were in another dark place in your life, that you would go back to being an escort?

Also, I don't know if you have children or if you intend to have them but if you do, are you likely to tell them about that period of your life when they're old enough to talk about those kinds of things?

Thanks for creating an AMA

@WhatCFeryIsThis no I would never go back to it. I think I had just let men treat me so badly for so long that I was sort of numb to what I was doing.

I have 3 children and no I would never tell them about that period of my life. It will go to the grave with me, no one in my life knows. I got spooked when one of my clients was a celebrity!

Have you ever seen any of your ex-clients after you packed it in?

Oh apologies but that's created another question! How do you feel about not telling your partner about that time of your life? Do you think he's 'entitled' to know? Or do you think that personal aspects of our lives are ours and ours alone to share as we see fit?

I'm sorry if my questions are coming across as judgemental couldn't be further from it.

@WorraLiberty nobody says prostitute any more, it's sex worker.
No questions or judgement from me but pleased you're no longer doing it as it sounds potentially dangerous.

@WhatCFeryIsThis I started doing it when I was single after he left me. I was sort of stopping doing it when we’re were starting back up though there was a crossover. No he didn’t deserve to know I don’t think. It was a messy time in my life and i feel very detached from that young woman now I’m older. Honestly, you can ask me anything I’m happy to answer

@IdblowJonSnow when I think back it was very dangerous but you could pay for a driver for the night and he would wait outside. He charged 25 for that

@pilates only on telly

Is he married and would we be shocked if we knew who it was?

I may wear you down if I ask you all of mine I'll try to restrain myself to a couple more.

In terms of body confidence when you started, where were you? You mentioned being in a bad place after abuse, did you consider yourself to be 'as good as any other escort so they can take it or leave it', or did you still at least value your good looks?

@pilates no not really, he was on a comedy show, haven’t seen him on telly in years. I can remember where he lived, that he paid me But we didn’t have sex.

@WhatCFeryIsThis in terms of body confidence I wasn’t confident at all! I was no different to any other woman in terms of insecurities about my body. I actually had an average body I suppose. I’m better looking these days if I’m honest although I was very attractive.

@WhatCFeryIsThis you ask great questions so don’t worry

Ah well I was going to ask about your body confidence now so I'm going to help myself to a free question

Are there any clients you still think about sometimes even to this day? And if so, why?

Have you ever enjoyed the sex or is it more like a going through the motions/faking it thing?

@Sugartitties Was your brother who abused you your biological brother?

@WhatCFeryIsThis I sometimes think about the one that I mentioned already who was 49 and I was 22. I never even considered he could have been married. I remember the things he said to me.

That was my second client and the first I had sex with. I remember everything about it.

My body confidence now, well I wouldn’t walk around in a bikini but I look very nice in my clothes so I’m happy with my body overall.

I think many people have a perception of escorts, that they have great bodies, must be good in bed etc but the reality is very different. I would have been a size 16 back then, 5’5” with big boobs. And I could be bought, horrible really when I think about it.

Would you have considered dating any of your clients if you'd met them socially or if you weren't an escort?
Do you feel it was worth it financially compared to doing a 'normal' job?
Would you have done any other kind of sex work, eg stripping, porn, cam work?
(Hope this isn't too many questions)

@quietlyspoken08 just going through the motions 100%. You just want to get it over and done with and get out of there.

@ftm, no he wasn’t

@feelingverylazytoday you can ask as many as you like, feels good to answer them.

No I wouldn’t have dated any of them. One of them was nice and he seemed so sad about something. We talked, he asked me to stay for longer then when that time ran out he asked me to stay longer. He treated me very well and didn’t put one finger on me. We lay down together and he didn’t touch me.

I didn’t do it for the money so it’s not like I can say I bought a car with it. I probably wasted it buying clothes I wouldn’t wear. Couldn’t tell you what I spent it on. I was working seven days a week then just to keep busy after my breakup.

Would never do any other kind of sex work.

@IdblowJonSnow as the OP says she’s fine with prostitute I think she can decide