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Did I get this right?

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2021x · 08/11/2026 03:18

I was on a Reddit Thread called:

Which celebrity can you no longer look at the same way after learning about a controversy or something disturbing they did?

A person responded JK Rowling and my reply was as follows.

I can help you with that. JK Rowling has expressed her opinion that, in certain circumstances, such as places in public where women have to remove their clothes (restrooms, changing rooms, etc.), sex should be considered more relevant than gender ideology. For people who do not live on the internet- this is the majority and most common view.

She has publicly stood up to a powerful misogynistic and homophobic ideology against immense pressure and personal persecution. She has held system-makers, not individuals, accountable for the lies that they have been internalised in the British Education and human resources system. She has also supported women across the UK to stand up for their sex-based rights with her own finances, which she made herself.

You can disagree and say that males - who still retain a significant physical strength advantage and commit sexual offences against women at a higher rate than females- in your opinion do not pose any extra risk to women in private space. What you can't say is JK Rowling has wished, asked for or instigated any harm against transgender people as a group or individuals.

Did I get this right or have I missed off anything?

OP posts:
Lexibletheflexible · 08/11/2026 09:32

NotBadConsidering · 08/11/2026 09:30

But you’re not policing the falsehood. You’re policing the correcting of a perceived falsehood. You are arguing that no one can challenge anyone on Reddit because “that wasn’t what the thread was about”.

Bonkers.

I'm responding to a thread where the OP is asking if their response was correct. I'm saying it was not correct because the thread didn't ask for debate of that nature.

BettyBooper · 08/11/2026 09:33

I feel like a dementor has entered the thread....

🤔🤨🤣

Lexibletheflexible · 08/11/2026 09:34

BettyBooper · 08/11/2026 09:33

I feel like a dementor has entered the thread....

🤔🤨🤣

But who has enough happy thoughts to cast them away?

drspouse · 08/11/2026 09:34

Lexibletheflexible · 08/11/2026 08:43

I'm not confused. Yes you did miss something out, you shouldn't have posted any challenge at all.

Let me get this straight, you're complaining because the OP discussed something on a discussion board?
Just like you're doing?

Lacksie · 08/11/2026 09:35

NotBadConsidering · 08/11/2026 09:30

But you’re not policing the falsehood. You’re policing the correcting of a perceived falsehood. You are arguing that no one can challenge anyone on Reddit because “that wasn’t what the thread was about”.

Bonkers.

To be fair that's what everyone does on these boards when someone says something they don't like!
They accuse the pp of Derailing and trolling

Lexibletheflexible · 08/11/2026 09:36

drspouse · 08/11/2026 09:34

Let me get this straight, you're complaining because the OP discussed something on a discussion board?
Just like you're doing?

No, I'm answering the OP's query about whether her post was correct or right as she used in the thread title.

BettyBooper · 08/11/2026 09:36

StealthTroublemaker · 08/11/2026 09:29

Hold on, I thought we weren’t allowed to contradict the OP?

Also Lacksie doesn’t rinse the recycling before putting it out.

Or take the trolly back at Sainsbo's.

NotBadConsidering · 08/11/2026 09:36

Lexibletheflexible · 08/11/2026 09:32

I'm responding to a thread where the OP is asking if their response was correct. I'm saying it was not correct because the thread didn't ask for debate of that nature.

Does the thread in Reddit say:

“Opinions only, no replies or challenges”?

Lacksie · 08/11/2026 09:37

Lexibletheflexible · 08/11/2026 09:32

I'm responding to a thread where the OP is asking if their response was correct. I'm saying it was not correct because the thread didn't ask for debate of that nature.

It also wasn't correct because JKR is clearly propagating and funding transphobia on a mass scale.

NotBadConsidering · 08/11/2026 09:38

Lexibletheflexible · 08/11/2026 09:36

No, I'm answering the OP's query about whether her post was correct or right as she used in the thread title.

But you’re saying she is incorrect because she

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replied to a post on Reddit. Not what she replied, not why. Just the act of replying.

Like I said, bonkers.

Lexibletheflexible · 08/11/2026 09:39

NotBadConsidering · 08/11/2026 09:36

Does the thread in Reddit say:

“Opinions only, no replies or challenges”?

It says

"Which celebrity can you no longer look at the same way after learning about a controversy or something disturbing they did?"

That's the entire thing.

NotBadConsidering · 08/11/2026 09:41

Lexibletheflexible · 08/11/2026 09:39

It says

"Which celebrity can you no longer look at the same way after learning about a controversy or something disturbing they did?"

That's the entire thing.

So you are policing the act of replying by proxy? There’s nothing to say someone can’t reply?

Lexibletheflexible · 08/11/2026 09:41

NotBadConsidering · 08/11/2026 09:38

But you’re saying she is incorrect because she

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replied to a post on Reddit. Not what she replied, not why. Just the act of replying.

Like I said, bonkers.

Edited

Yes the content is entirely incorrect because it isn't what the thread asked for. You know you can just let me post my opinion and not challenge it and then this wouldn't go on for pages.

Lexibletheflexible · 08/11/2026 09:43

NotBadConsidering · 08/11/2026 09:41

So you are policing the act of replying by proxy? There’s nothing to say someone can’t reply?

Not until the OP asked for people's opinions on her response to that thread.

That's when I said I think it is incorrect to challenge the opinion at all and later pointed out that nobody else had done so on ither comments. I'll check that again now. But that proves that everyone else "read" the situation as I did.

ALovelyPinkUnicorn · 08/11/2026 09:45

Lacksie · 08/11/2026 09:27

JKR has described trans women as “men performing their idea of femaleness”, mocked inclusive language, repeatedly described trans women as men, and portrayed trans-inclusive policies as potentially providing cover for sexual predators. Her rhetoric characterises trans identities as performances, imply deception, and repeatedly associate trans inclusion with threats to women

There’s a meaningful distinction between saying that someone’s biological sex may be relevant in particular circumstances and suggesting that their entire identity is a pretence. The former is a position about sex and its practical implications. The latter is a judgement about the authenticity of another person’s experience of themselves.

Transphobia doesn’t require overt hatred it can manifest in persistent stereotyping, ridicule, suspicion, and the systematic delegitimisation of a group.

Most concerning, however, is that this has gone far beyond expressing personal opinions. Rowling has used her considerable wealth to fund legal challenges with potentially far-reaching consequences for trans people’s rights. She donated £70,000 to For Women Scotland’s Supreme Court appeal.
She has subsequently established the J.K. Rowling Women’s Fund, specifically to finance legal action concerning sex-based rights. Its own website explicitly identifies strategic cases that establish legal precedents and enforce its interpretation of equality law as objectives.

Of course, funding litigation is lawful, and the courts are responsible for their own decisions. But I think there are legitimate concerns about the extent to which an extraordinarily wealthy individual can help determine which legal questions are pursued, which arguments receive substantial resources, and ultimately how the rights of a much less powerful minority are defined and implemented.

Rowling has used her considerable wealth to fund legal challenges with potentially far-reaching consequences for trans people’s rights.. Oh lacksie, you’ll be shocked if you hewr
about the GLP and their funding of legal challenges re trans rights….

SwirlyGates · 08/11/2026 09:46

Lacksie · 08/11/2026 09:27

JKR has described trans women as “men performing their idea of femaleness”, mocked inclusive language, repeatedly described trans women as men, and portrayed trans-inclusive policies as potentially providing cover for sexual predators. Her rhetoric characterises trans identities as performances, imply deception, and repeatedly associate trans inclusion with threats to women

There’s a meaningful distinction between saying that someone’s biological sex may be relevant in particular circumstances and suggesting that their entire identity is a pretence. The former is a position about sex and its practical implications. The latter is a judgement about the authenticity of another person’s experience of themselves.

Transphobia doesn’t require overt hatred it can manifest in persistent stereotyping, ridicule, suspicion, and the systematic delegitimisation of a group.

Most concerning, however, is that this has gone far beyond expressing personal opinions. Rowling has used her considerable wealth to fund legal challenges with potentially far-reaching consequences for trans people’s rights. She donated £70,000 to For Women Scotland’s Supreme Court appeal.
She has subsequently established the J.K. Rowling Women’s Fund, specifically to finance legal action concerning sex-based rights. Its own website explicitly identifies strategic cases that establish legal precedents and enforce its interpretation of equality law as objectives.

Of course, funding litigation is lawful, and the courts are responsible for their own decisions. But I think there are legitimate concerns about the extent to which an extraordinarily wealthy individual can help determine which legal questions are pursued, which arguments receive substantial resources, and ultimately how the rights of a much less powerful minority are defined and implemented.

But these things are all true, and are good things!

Funding legal challenges to support women's rights? Well hell yes. I donated to FWS Supreme Court case, not 70k mind you - does that make me evil? I did it not because I am a transphobe but because I am a feminist and if you can't define women properly you can't advocate for them. Just look at the hell that women are going through in Australia right now.

Saying trans women are men? Well, duh, they are.

Myalternate · 08/11/2026 09:46

Lexibletheflexible · 08/11/2026 09:41

Yes the content is entirely incorrect because it isn't what the thread asked for. You know you can just let me post my opinion and not challenge it and then this wouldn't go on for pages.

Are you suggesting that if no one responds to your posts, you’d not make any further comments?

NotBadConsidering · 08/11/2026 09:47

Lexibletheflexible · 08/11/2026 09:41

Yes the content is entirely incorrect because it isn't what the thread asked for. You know you can just let me post my opinion and not challenge it and then this wouldn't go on for pages.

There’s nothing to stop you from leaving the thread either?

Imagine if someone on that Reddit thread said:

”I can’t look at Mr Rogers in the same way after learning he was a military sniper who killed people.”

And someone corrected that poster.

And then you came along and said “you shouldn’t have corrected the poster who said Mr Rogers was a sniper, because the thread didn’t ask for that.”

Then you spent ages arguing about how you are correct to hold that view.

That’s how bonkers your argument is.

Why don’t you just be honest? You think the OP is wrong because you hate JKR and think the OP’s opinion about her is wrong, not the fact she posted it at all.

Lexibletheflexible · 08/11/2026 09:47

Myalternate · 08/11/2026 09:46

Are you suggesting that if no one responds to your posts, you’d not make any further comments?

Yeah. I mostly respond to notifications after I post my opinions. Especially on threads like these.

Lacksie · 08/11/2026 09:50

SwirlyGates · 08/11/2026 09:46

But these things are all true, and are good things!

Funding legal challenges to support women's rights? Well hell yes. I donated to FWS Supreme Court case, not 70k mind you - does that make me evil? I did it not because I am a transphobe but because I am a feminist and if you can't define women properly you can't advocate for them. Just look at the hell that women are going through in Australia right now.

Saying trans women are men? Well, duh, they are.

The point is when one individual has that much personal wealth and is using it to shape the law of a democratic country it's a serious problem .

You are completely naive if you think otherwise.

SwirlyGates · 08/11/2026 09:52

Lacksie · 08/11/2026 09:50

The point is when one individual has that much personal wealth and is using it to shape the law of a democratic country it's a serious problem .

You are completely naive if you think otherwise.

Helping to fund a case doesn't mean the case will succeed, that is up to the courts. Just ask Jolyon Maugham.

Lexibletheflexible · 08/11/2026 09:52

NotBadConsidering · 08/11/2026 09:47

There’s nothing to stop you from leaving the thread either?

Imagine if someone on that Reddit thread said:

”I can’t look at Mr Rogers in the same way after learning he was a military sniper who killed people.”

And someone corrected that poster.

And then you came along and said “you shouldn’t have corrected the poster who said Mr Rogers was a sniper, because the thread didn’t ask for that.”

Then you spent ages arguing about how you are correct to hold that view.

That’s how bonkers your argument is.

Why don’t you just be honest? You think the OP is wrong because you hate JKR and think the OP’s opinion about her is wrong, not the fact she posted it at all.

Why would I leave a thread where people are still tagging me?

The difference in your example is that whether Mr Rogers is a sniper or not comes down to a fact. He either was or wasn't.

Whether JK's views on any issue are good or bad and how your personal assessment of her views makes you feel about her is an opinion. This wasn't the place to challenge opinions, it was the place to share them.

Lacksie · 08/11/2026 09:54

ALovelyPinkUnicorn · 08/11/2026 09:45

Rowling has used her considerable wealth to fund legal challenges with potentially far-reaching consequences for trans people’s rights.. Oh lacksie, you’ll be shocked if you hewr
about the GLP and their funding of legal challenges re trans rights….

My dear it's not remotely comparable,

Are you seriously suggesting its crowdfunding of legal challenges is financially comparable to an individual with an estimated personal fortune of £975 million?

GLP’s entire annual income is around £4.5 million, overwhelmingly raised through donations.

Rowling has almost a billion pounds of personal wealth at her disposal.

funding strategic litigation isnt inherently wrong. The problem is the extraordinary influence that concentrated private wealth can exercise over the development of laws in a democratic state,

StealthTroublemaker · 08/11/2026 09:54

SwirlyGates · 08/11/2026 09:52

Helping to fund a case doesn't mean the case will succeed, that is up to the courts. Just ask Jolyon Maugham.

Yeah. I mean I suppose at least JK is putting her money where her mouth is, unlike Fox Killer, who puts other people’s money where his mouth is.

Lexibletheflexible · 08/11/2026 09:55

Lacksie · 08/11/2026 09:37

It also wasn't correct because JKR is clearly propagating and funding transphobia on a mass scale.

That doesn't make it incorrect.

It's an opinion that JK using her wealth that way is a bad thing for her to do. It isn't a fact.

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