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Kenwood Ladies Pond Authoritarians

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KenwoodMagicWand · 19/09/2026 23:41

The handmaidens at The Ladies Pond just can’t help themselves. A woman wears a swimming costume which expresses an opinion which contravenes their ludicrous trans ideology and they actually want to know if she can be prevented from wearing it. They think they’re the good guys but they are authoritarians enforcing a men’s sexual rights movement.
No dearies, you can’t stop this woman from wearing her cool swimming costume just because you don’t like it.

Kenwood Ladies Pond Authoritarians
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alcovecupboards · 22/09/2026 23:08

GreyskySexRealistsky · 22/09/2026 23:06

Hmmm...yet more comments on other people's lives.

Looks like projection from here.

I bet it does. Anything to distract that you're trying to claim - with a presumably straight face - that Venice's screaming fit was perfectly calm and reasonable. To any normal-thinking person - she was screaming.

Rollingpinofdoom · 22/09/2026 23:09

alcovecupboards · 22/09/2026 23:04

Yes, she's clearly perfectly calm and doesn't scream at all. You must have awful lives if you think that's a normal way of speaking to others. I'd actually suggest that anyone who thinks that is normal behaviour should be investigated - especially if they have children.

After seeming the piss protests and the fascists outside Filia, maybe Venice was just copying the gender ideology tactics of making noise to disrupt. At least she wasn’t holding a horrible placard with rape or death threats on. Probably felt that was going a bit too far and she’d leave that for the misogynistic genderborg

alcovecupboards · 22/09/2026 23:10

KenwoodMagicWand · 22/09/2026 23:07

You can’t just say she’s screaming and want it to be true so much that it becomes true, that’s not how truth works. She isn’t screaming, and men aren’t women.

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The fact that you are incapable of admitting that she's screaming - despite the objective evidence - says so much about you. I genuinely feel sorry for you. Please try to get something more than hatred in your life.

murasaki · 22/09/2026 23:10

One could argue that anyone who thinks it's a good idea to let men however they identify into female single sex spaces should be investigated, especially if they have children.

I won't, but one could.

alcovecupboards · 22/09/2026 23:11

Rollingpinofdoom · 22/09/2026 23:09

After seeming the piss protests and the fascists outside Filia, maybe Venice was just copying the gender ideology tactics of making noise to disrupt. At least she wasn’t holding a horrible placard with rape or death threats on. Probably felt that was going a bit too far and she’d leave that for the misogynistic genderborg

Of course women's rights activists would never stoop so low. Just bombs and acts of terror. A bit or urine or paint doesn't quite seem so bad in comparison.

Rollingpinofdoom · 22/09/2026 23:12

alcovecupboards · 22/09/2026 23:05

She is literally screaming at people. I understand that you desperately need it not to be the case - but I'm afraid it is. Put it this way - if a 'TRA' behaved like that - what would you call it? We both know what you would actually say it is. Stop being a hypocrite.

to be fair,if all theTRA did was a bit of screaming instead of issuing rape threats, death threats, punching women, pouring soup on women and piss protests we’d all be a lot happier. Pass it on won’t you?

KenwoodMagicWand · 22/09/2026 23:12

@murasaki
Is there any reason you personally wouldn’t argue that? Is it against the rules to argue that? I would definitely argue that, unless it’s against the rules in which case I’d like all the other people to argue that.

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GreyskySexRealistsky · 22/09/2026 23:13

alcovecupboards · 22/09/2026 23:08

I bet it does. Anything to distract that you're trying to claim - with a presumably straight face - that Venice's screaming fit was perfectly calm and reasonable. To any normal-thinking person - she was screaming.

I don't recall trying to claim that

JanesLittleGirl · 22/09/2026 23:14

@alcovecupboards@Mouldemort. Once all the whataboutery, finger pointing, misrepresentation and being very loud have finished, this will come down to a point of Law. The Kenwood Ladies Pond is provided as a service to the public by the City of London Corporation. It is provided under various Acts of Parliament including the Equality Act 2010. This Act requires CoLC to provide the service to everyone equally unless there is an exception under the Act. The only exception is Schedule 3 Paragraph 28 which allows for discrimination by sex where it is a proportionate means to achieve a legitimate aim. CoLC can comply with the Act in one of two ways: they can restrict the service to biological women only or they can make the service available to both sexes. They have moved heaven and earth to avoid this coming to court but they are running out of tarmac.

The law will decide.

GreyskySexRealistsky · 22/09/2026 23:16

alcovecupboards · 22/09/2026 23:11

Of course women's rights activists would never stoop so low. Just bombs and acts of terror. A bit or urine or paint doesn't quite seem so bad in comparison.

Are you literally having a go at suffragettes now?

murasaki · 22/09/2026 23:16

KenwoodMagicWand · 22/09/2026 23:12

@murasaki
Is there any reason you personally wouldn’t argue that? Is it against the rules to argue that? I would definitely argue that, unless it’s against the rules in which case I’d like all the other people to argue that.

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Only because I'm going to bed, I think it's a valid point in response to Alcove's.

BackToLurk · 22/09/2026 23:16

alcovecupboards · 22/09/2026 23:11

Of course women's rights activists would never stoop so low. Just bombs and acts of terror. A bit or urine or paint doesn't quite seem so bad in comparison.

Are you doing the thing where someone compares a group without the right to vote and participate within the democratic process with a group that does? Do say you’re doing that one. That’s one of my favourite bollocks parallels.

ElenOfTheWays · 22/09/2026 23:18

alcovecupboards · 22/09/2026 23:08

I bet it does. Anything to distract that you're trying to claim - with a presumably straight face - that Venice's screaming fit was perfectly calm and reasonable. To any normal-thinking person - she was screaming.

I hadn't seen the footage for a while so I took another look. I hadn't recalled her screaming originally and wondered if I had misremembered.

No. She was angry and her voice was raised above the din in the room but she wasn't screaming or in any way "histrionic". She was remarkably articulate under the circumstances actually.

Mouldemort · 22/09/2026 23:23

@JanesLittleGirl no. They can also provide a service to people with two protected characteristics. This is not hard.

KenwoodMagicWand · 22/09/2026 23:24

They can’t provide a single sex space for women, and simultaneously let men in.

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FlirtsWithRhinos · 22/09/2026 23:27

So telling how sexist people react to women's anger with disgust or ridicule.

For sexist people, angry is the worst thing for a woman to be. How dare a woman speak loudly and immoderately? How dare she allow her face to frown and redden? How dare she put herself forward and demand others listen to what she wants to say to them as if she matters?

ElenOfTheWays · 22/09/2026 23:34

BackToLurk · 22/09/2026 23:16

Are you doing the thing where someone compares a group without the right to vote and participate within the democratic process with a group that does? Do say you’re doing that one. That’s one of my favourite bollocks parallels.

Oh yes, apparently according to @alcovecupboards because the suffragettes were right to break the law to achieve parity in law that makes it ok for city councils, businesses, public services etc to also break the law in service of privileging men who call themselves women to override women's rights.
Because trans rights are human rights or summat.

Slothtoes · 22/09/2026 23:40

RaininSummer · 21/09/2026 18:36

Well done to the woman who wore it. Very brave.

Very brave, and to that swimmer, thank you for using your swim to stand up for all women (regardless of how they think on this issue) over and above the entitled men and their petty enforcers. Keep going!

JaneEyreFryer · 22/09/2026 23:56

I was at the meeting. The way Venice behaved at the meeting was appalling. She was massively aggressive, didn’t listen to anyone and talked over people. A really crazy strategy if she actually wanted to change anyone’s mind…

ElenOfTheWays · 23/09/2026 00:19

JaneEyreFryer · 22/09/2026 23:56

I was at the meeting. The way Venice behaved at the meeting was appalling. She was massively aggressive, didn’t listen to anyone and talked over people. A really crazy strategy if she actually wanted to change anyone’s mind…

Oh I dunno. It's been working for TRAs quite well.
But of course, most of them are men.

Rollingpinofdoom · 23/09/2026 05:37

JaneEyreFryer · 22/09/2026 23:56

I was at the meeting. The way Venice behaved at the meeting was appalling. She was massively aggressive, didn’t listen to anyone and talked over people. A really crazy strategy if she actually wanted to change anyone’s mind…

Awww no! Was it her tone? Should she have smiled more? How dare she be angry and upset! Not very womanly of her is it? Maybe she should have used the TRA tactics and threatened people with rape and murder whilst pouring piss everywhere. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

SirChenjins · 23/09/2026 06:14

She needs to take a different approach - setting up a sound system to drown out the voices of this she disagrees with, perhaps, or releasing thousands of flying insects? We could come up with a list of hundreds of different methods she could use to express herself in a far more aggressive yet somehow acceptable (in the eyes of the TRAs and their supporters) way.

Xanhi · 23/09/2026 06:15

Mouldemort · 21/09/2026 13:52

It's entirely legal even under the current EHRC code to have a club or gathering which includes two protected characteristics, even if you think that trans and cis women together are "mixed sex." Leave them alone and form your own gender critical swimming club.

Wouldn't it be cool and kind of trans women to use the mixed sex bathing pond? That way no one has to feel uncomfortable.

ArabellaScott · 23/09/2026 07:12

Xanhi · 23/09/2026 06:15

Wouldn't it be cool and kind of trans women to use the mixed sex bathing pond? That way no one has to feel uncomfortable.

There's no reason for transwomen to avoid the mixed sex pond.

ArabellaScott · 23/09/2026 07:16

JanesLittleGirl · 22/09/2026 23:14

@alcovecupboards@Mouldemort. Once all the whataboutery, finger pointing, misrepresentation and being very loud have finished, this will come down to a point of Law. The Kenwood Ladies Pond is provided as a service to the public by the City of London Corporation. It is provided under various Acts of Parliament including the Equality Act 2010. This Act requires CoLC to provide the service to everyone equally unless there is an exception under the Act. The only exception is Schedule 3 Paragraph 28 which allows for discrimination by sex where it is a proportionate means to achieve a legitimate aim. CoLC can comply with the Act in one of two ways: they can restrict the service to biological women only or they can make the service available to both sexes. They have moved heaven and earth to avoid this coming to court but they are running out of tarmac.

The law will decide.

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It'd be interesting to see wh'd start attending once the pond has a dedicated womens section again.