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Kenwood Ladies Pond Authoritarians

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KenwoodMagicWand · 19/09/2026 23:41

The handmaidens at The Ladies Pond just can’t help themselves. A woman wears a swimming costume which expresses an opinion which contravenes their ludicrous trans ideology and they actually want to know if she can be prevented from wearing it. They think they’re the good guys but they are authoritarians enforcing a men’s sexual rights movement.
No dearies, you can’t stop this woman from wearing her cool swimming costume just because you don’t like it.

Kenwood Ladies Pond Authoritarians
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alcovecupboards · 22/09/2026 22:30

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Nutterly · 22/09/2026 22:30

KenwoodMagicWand · 20/09/2026 07:53

This is the offending item.

Well done that woman.

alcovecupboards · 22/09/2026 22:32

FlirtsWithRhinos · 22/09/2026 22:29

Yes it really was clear. Which is why I can clearly see it was not what you are trying to get away with claimimg.

Of course you can. The majority of readers will see through you and this bizarre cult-like behaviour.

CassOle · 22/09/2026 22:32

alcovecupboards · 22/09/2026 22:29

Clearly not. But nice try at deflection.

Well, it wasn't clear to me, which is why I asked.

Nutterly · 22/09/2026 22:36

Mouldemort · 21/09/2026 12:59

What a deeply shitty thing to do in a trans-inclusive environment.

Thing is it's not a "trans-inclusive" environment. Men pretending to be women have gate crashed. It'll be all sorted soon once the court cases happen.

GreyskySexRealistsky · 22/09/2026 22:38

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"the rollingpinnutter"

Another addition to the Be Kind insults list

ElenOfTheWays · 22/09/2026 22:38

alcovecupboards · 22/09/2026 21:38

The users of the pond vote and decide. Oh look, they did. It didn't go your way. The ponds remain trans inclusive and Venice Allen's histrionic screaming fit about it changed nothing. Perhaps she could lend her voice to dealing with real issues facing women rather than banning trans people from using the ladies' pond.

The "users of the pond" voted did they?
In my experience, the only people who are this naive and stupid are doing it deliberately. You know good and well that the majority of people who responded to that "referendum" were not users of the damn ponds.

And it wouldn't actually matter if they were. You can't take a vote on whether it's ok to break the fucking law and decide that if enough people want to that somehow makes it ok.
No it doesn't.

murasaki · 22/09/2026 22:39

GreyskySexRealistsky · 22/09/2026 22:38

"the rollingpinnutter"

Another addition to the Be Kind insults list

I reported it.

GreyskySexRealistsky · 22/09/2026 22:40

murasaki · 22/09/2026 22:39

I reported it.

I see why you did, but I'd let it stand.

When people show you who they are etc...

alcovecupboards · 22/09/2026 22:41

ElenOfTheWays · 22/09/2026 22:38

The "users of the pond" voted did they?
In my experience, the only people who are this naive and stupid are doing it deliberately. You know good and well that the majority of people who responded to that "referendum" were not users of the damn ponds.

And it wouldn't actually matter if they were. You can't take a vote on whether it's ok to break the fucking law and decide that if enough people want to that somehow makes it ok.
No it doesn't.

So breaking the law is bad? I'm so glad the Suffragettes didn't take your advice.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 22/09/2026 22:42

alcovecupboards · 22/09/2026 22:20

Ah yes, it's all about trans women, rather than trans people. Sure. Trans men don't exist. You don't have to make hating trans people your entire personality like the rollingpinofdoom one.

Boring. Trans men of course have the right to be in female spaces. Although they are also buying into the basic sexism necessary to adopt any transgender identity.

Feminism is an important part of my identity, yes. As are logic, fairness and honesty, even when it's to my own disadvantage.

I'm sorry you have got yourself stuck in this self-limiting pattern of projecting hate onto other people. It really will do you no good over time. Try to open your mind and consider other perspectives instead of assuming everyone is motivated by the same type of hatred and suspicion that you clearly feel.

murasaki · 22/09/2026 22:42

GreyskySexRealistsky · 22/09/2026 22:40

I see why you did, but I'd let it stand.

When people show you who they are etc...

True. It will probably get left anyway, but I found it hateful given what Rollingpin has said given their experiences.

alcovecupboards · 22/09/2026 22:42

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ElenOfTheWays · 22/09/2026 22:43

alcovecupboards · 22/09/2026 21:53

'Belittling and offensive'? Just not to the overwhelming majority of users of this particular service who have been happy to include trans people for decades.

There's no way to know how many women have self excluded from the pond over the years leaving only the ones who don't mind sharing with men. I think if we could put a number on that it might look very different.

alcovecupboards · 22/09/2026 22:43

FlirtsWithRhinos · 22/09/2026 22:42

Boring. Trans men of course have the right to be in female spaces. Although they are also buying into the basic sexism necessary to adopt any transgender identity.

Feminism is an important part of my identity, yes. As are logic, fairness and honesty, even when it's to my own disadvantage.

I'm sorry you have got yourself stuck in this self-limiting pattern of projecting hate onto other people. It really will do you no good over time. Try to open your mind and consider other perspectives instead of assuming everyone is motivated by the same type of hatred and suspicion that you clearly feel.

Trans men have the right to be in female spaces? Someone didn't read the Supreme Court's clarification.

murasaki · 22/09/2026 22:44

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Oh dear. Are you ok?

FlirtsWithRhinos · 22/09/2026 22:44

alcovecupboards · 22/09/2026 22:32

Of course you can. The majority of readers will see through you and this bizarre cult-like behaviour.

I have no doubt both your posts and mine show each of us very very clearly.

Fundamentally, what it boils down to is that I think female people matter in our own right, and you don't.

alcovecupboards · 22/09/2026 22:45

ElenOfTheWays · 22/09/2026 22:43

There's no way to know how many women have self excluded from the pond over the years leaving only the ones who don't mind sharing with men. I think if we could put a number on that it might look very different.

To be fair if it comes down to choosing to share a pond with a screaming weirdo like Venice Allen (do watch the video of her histrionics) or an army of trans women - I suspect the vast majority of female humanity would choose the latter.

BackToLurk · 22/09/2026 22:46

alcovecupboards · 22/09/2026 22:45

To be fair if it comes down to choosing to share a pond with a screaming weirdo like Venice Allen (do watch the video of her histrionics) or an army of trans women - I suspect the vast majority of female humanity would choose the latter.

I think you are right that there will always be some women who will privilege men over difficult women, sadly.

ElenOfTheWays · 22/09/2026 22:47

Apollo441 · 22/09/2026 22:20

For the terminally stupid, assault by a man can result in pregnancy. That is worse.

A man is also far more likely to be able to easily kill you than a woman is.

Rollingpinofdoom · 22/09/2026 22:47

alcovecupboards · 22/09/2026 22:20

Ah yes, it's all about trans women, rather than trans people. Sure. Trans men don't exist. You don't have to make hating trans people your entire personality like the rollingpinofdoom one.

Oooh name check!! I like it! Actually, if you’d read my previous posts on other threads, I’m acyally a great supporter of TIF. The thing is, if you put TIM in female facilities, you’d have to put TIF in male facilities. A TIF got raped twice within hours of being put in a male psych ward. Tell me again how gender ideology benefits females? Until the SC ruling, TIF could not access RCC as they were women only. There are very very few RCC for men.
if TIM are in danger in male facilities such as prisons, surely TIF would be in even more danger?

Rollingpinofdoom · 22/09/2026 22:49

murasaki · 22/09/2026 22:39

I reported it.

Ah no, I think it’s cute. I’ve got a fan! How thrilling.

KenwoodMagicWand · 22/09/2026 22:50

ElenOfTheWays · 22/09/2026 22:38

The "users of the pond" voted did they?
In my experience, the only people who are this naive and stupid are doing it deliberately. You know good and well that the majority of people who responded to that "referendum" were not users of the damn ponds.

And it wouldn't actually matter if they were. You can't take a vote on whether it's ok to break the fucking law and decide that if enough people want to that somehow makes it ok.
No it doesn't.

Yep, exactly this. The survey was a sham, as they always always when City of London is involved.
What’s astonishing is that the trans rights activists seem to think they can get away with pretending that trans-women-are-women is the reasonable, established default societal position, and that those objecting to it are in some way radical and terrible. Of course the opposite is true. The spectacularly ludicrous idea that men can magically become women is novel and deranged and in the grand scale of things, brand spanking new. Literally no one thought this ten years ago. Anyone who goes along with this lunacy has a screw loose, and those of us prepared to say it won’t be cowed or gaslit by them. Games up lads; we’re done.

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murasaki · 22/09/2026 22:50

Rollingpinofdoom · 22/09/2026 22:49

Ah no, I think it’s cute. I’ve got a fan! How thrilling.

Stan, possibly!

I think they need a care package of a dictionary , the 88 page supreme court ruling and a tunnocks teacake or two.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 22/09/2026 22:51

alcovecupboards · 22/09/2026 22:43

Trans men have the right to be in female spaces? Someone didn't read the Supreme Court's clarification.

I read it. I know exactly what it said about trans men, and why the very specific scenario where it was suggested trans men might be excluded to meet the proportionate aim of a woman-only service isn't relevant here.

But you are so funny in the way you will focus on the tiniest detail that might be twisted to back you up when everyone can see there's a mountain of facts, or in this case pages of carefully written judgements, which you are ignoring because they don't 😂