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"Darlington Nurses" vs County Durham and Darlington NHS Trust Tribunal Thread 9

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ThreeWordHarpy · 16/01/2026 12:36

Thread 1, 7-Oct to 23-Oct
Thread 2, 23-Oct to 28-Oct
Thread 3, 28-Oct to 29-Oct
Thread 4, 29-Oct to 31-Oct
Thread 5, 31-Oct to 04-Nov
Thread 6, 04-Nov to 05-Nov
Thread 7, 05-Nov to 11-Nov
Thread 8, 11-Nov to 16-Jan (last thread with the schedule and abbreviations)

Five nurses working at Darlington Memorial Hospital filed a legal case against their employer, an NHS trust, for sexual harassment and sex discrimination. The nurses objected to sharing the women’s changing facilities with a male colleague, Rose, who identifies as female. The hearing was held between 20th October and 11th November and was live tweeted by Tribunal Tweets who have comprehensive information regarding this case on their substack, including archives of the twitter threads, lists of people involved and press releases.

At the time this thread was started, the judgment had not yet been published on the Courts website but was widely reported in the media that the NHS was found to have discriminated against the nurses, but the claims against Rose were not upheld.

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MistyGreenAndBlue · 21/01/2026 03:36

FWSsupporter · 21/01/2026 00:31

That’s the new grade 7 Civil Service job holders first task.😂

Gods help us all

FWSsupporter · 21/01/2026 00:31

RedToothBrush · 20/01/2026 23:54

It's fine saying we need a legal definition of gender.

Now write one without referencing regressive sexed stereotypes which are at odds with the equality act.

Good luck with that.

And this is why no one has attempted it, because it lays it bare that gender identity is totally sexist and regressive.

That’s the new grade 7 Civil Service job holders first task.😂

SqueakyDinosaur · 21/01/2026 00:28

I genuinely think it would be impossible to establish a legal definition of non-binary. Lots of countries claim to have done it, but any competent HR/employment/human rights lawyer could drive a truck through those definitions.

FWSsupporter · 21/01/2026 00:19

MistyGreenAndBlue · 20/01/2026 23:12

I have always believed we need separate and clear legal definitions of sex and gender identity, including non-binary. Both should be PCs but legal clarity on the rights and responsibilities of each would help everyone.

Always? Or just in the last 5 years since we've been repeatedly told this utter cobblers is a real thing?

A fair point. I started to draft my post in one way and changed my mind and forgot to amend “I have always believed” to “I believe”.

RedToothBrush · 20/01/2026 23:54

Also do that without referencing sex.

Good luck with that too.

RedToothBrush · 20/01/2026 23:54

It's fine saying we need a legal definition of gender.

Now write one without referencing regressive sexed stereotypes which are at odds with the equality act.

Good luck with that.

And this is why no one has attempted it, because it lays it bare that gender identity is totally sexist and regressive.

MistyGreenAndBlue · 20/01/2026 23:12

FWSsupporter · 20/01/2026 11:44

I agree.

In addition if, as they should, the gmt and Civil Service apply the FWS SC judgment and make it clear SSS are just that. Then there is an issue to resolve and that is what is the solution for trans people.

Even the SC acknowledged a trans identifying female (transman) should use female SSS but in doing so their appearance may mean it causes distress e.g. rape crisis centres.

The debate to be had is how do we respect sex and SSS whilst treating people with the PC of gender reassignment. Trans and non-binary people need to be involved in discussions, as do women. No debate did not just harm women but also some trans people. I can see a need for this role as part of a much wider piece of work.

I have always believed we need separate and clear legal definitions of sex and gender identity, including non-binary. Both should be PCs but legal clarity on the rights and responsibilities of each would help everyone.

I have always believed we need separate and clear legal definitions of sex and gender identity, including non-binary. Both should be PCs but legal clarity on the rights and responsibilities of each would help everyone.

Always? Or just in the last 5 years since we've been repeatedly told this utter cobblers is a real thing?

tropicaltrance · 20/01/2026 18:55

BingeleyBingeleyBeep · 20/01/2026 13:14

Apologies for the delayed question.
In all these cases if the HR person is CIPD qualified aren't they supposed to be be following their code of conduct...?
https://www.cipd.org/uk/membership/professional-standards/code-of-conduct/
Including

  • Ensure that your professional judgement is not compromised nor could be perceived as being compromised because of bias, or the undue influence of others.
  • Take all reasonable steps to resolve disputes and complaints in a fair, timely and professional manner. Never allow a complaint to affect the standard of behaviour or professionalism shown to those who raise concerns, engage authentically and respectfully.
  • Take responsibility for your professional actions and decisions. Rectify issues and take all reasonable steps to mitigate loss or harm as soon as possible. Inform those affected of the potential impact

The CIPD is already known to be somewhat compromised by bias itself on this issue, but that is an interesting point.

BingeleyBingeleyBeep · 20/01/2026 13:14

Bold is by me not from website.

BingeleyBingeleyBeep · 20/01/2026 13:14

Conxis · 17/01/2026 10:23

by the views of senior HR that they needed to stay on the ‘right side of the law’

Would it be unkind to ask how that’s working out for them?

Apologies for the delayed question.
In all these cases if the HR person is CIPD qualified aren't they supposed to be be following their code of conduct...?
https://www.cipd.org/uk/membership/professional-standards/code-of-conduct/
Including

  • Ensure that your professional judgement is not compromised nor could be perceived as being compromised because of bias, or the undue influence of others.
  • Take all reasonable steps to resolve disputes and complaints in a fair, timely and professional manner. Never allow a complaint to affect the standard of behaviour or professionalism shown to those who raise concerns, engage authentically and respectfully.
  • Take responsibility for your professional actions and decisions. Rectify issues and take all reasonable steps to mitigate loss or harm as soon as possible. Inform those affected of the potential impact

CIPD | Code of Conduct and Ethics

Code of Conduct and Ethics - sets standards for all members of the CIPD.

https://www.cipd.org/uk/membership/professional-standards/code-of-conduct

ProfessorBinturong · 20/01/2026 13:03

I have always believed we need separate and clear legal definitions of sex and gender identity, including non-binary. Both should be PCs but legal clarity on the rights and responsibilities of each would help everyone.

Neither 'gender identity' nor 'non-binary' are recognised in law.

MyAmpleSheep · 20/01/2026 12:53

Comtesse · 20/01/2026 07:03

To be fair it’s just one Grade 7 role, which isn’t that senior. When govt is gearing up for new legislation, there would typically be a whole team (say 6-10 people).

But let’s wait and see. Once this person is in place, ze may find “things are worse than zir thought” and a more senior team is installed.

Londonmummy66 · 20/01/2026 12:32

lcakethereforeIam · 20/01/2026 09:28

Victoria Smith has written a good article in the Critic

Does women’s discomfort matter? | Victoria Smith | The Critic Magazine https://share.google/0kdOlvgGH9cB2lQ1x

It is an excellent article. It highlights how female discomfort is seen as subordinate to male satisfaction - exactly what played out in Darlington. However I do think that the judgement didn't entirely grasp how deep seated the discomfort was. The afternoon where the 2 male counsel and the male judge discussed "normal" behaviour in a female changing room was deeply uncomfortable as it was clear that they had no idea - women in a changing room generally spend as little time as possible in the underwear and pass that as discreetly as possible (facing away from the room etc) both to preserve their own privacy and that of others. Yet the 3 men didn't understand that Rose prancing around in his boxers was not normal behaviour in a female changing room and this was probably the basis for the finding in the judgement that his behaviour was basically normal and just that the women perceived it as abnormal as their senses were heightened to his presence anyway.

Needmoresleep · 20/01/2026 12:02

Presumably they will have cleared any statement with their LBGTQ++ people/groups who will have pointed out that the use of the word "woman" is problematic.

FWSsupporter · 20/01/2026 11:44

Comtesse · 20/01/2026 07:03

To be fair it’s just one Grade 7 role, which isn’t that senior. When govt is gearing up for new legislation, there would typically be a whole team (say 6-10 people).

I agree.

In addition if, as they should, the gmt and Civil Service apply the FWS SC judgment and make it clear SSS are just that. Then there is an issue to resolve and that is what is the solution for trans people.

Even the SC acknowledged a trans identifying female (transman) should use female SSS but in doing so their appearance may mean it causes distress e.g. rape crisis centres.

The debate to be had is how do we respect sex and SSS whilst treating people with the PC of gender reassignment. Trans and non-binary people need to be involved in discussions, as do women. No debate did not just harm women but also some trans people. I can see a need for this role as part of a much wider piece of work.

I have always believed we need separate and clear legal definitions of sex and gender identity, including non-binary. Both should be PCs but legal clarity on the rights and responsibilities of each would help everyone.

JustPlainStanfreyPock · 20/01/2026 10:54

Seems like they are trying to score some petty point by deliberately avoiding the w word, certainly no change of heart or lesson learnt whatsoever.

weegielass · 20/01/2026 10:01

wow how many times do the trust say 'colleagues'? Very clear they have an issue with the word 'women'.

lcakethereforeIam · 20/01/2026 09:28

Victoria Smith has written a good article in the Critic

Does women’s discomfort matter? | Victoria Smith | The Critic Magazine https://share.google/0kdOlvgGH9cB2lQ1x

borntobequiet · 20/01/2026 07:58

BBC website this morning (the newspapers).

Can they be bothered to report accurately? Of course, No.

(Complaint duly submitted.)

"Darlington Nurses" vs County Durham and Darlington NHS Trust Tribunal Thread 9
lifeturnsonadime · 20/01/2026 07:16

i wonder if the mealy mouthed wording 'all our colleagues' is an attempt to avoid an acknowledgement that they have failed a group of 'colleagues' who share the protected characteristic of being female?

In other words are they trying to avoid being accused of sex discrimination? I haven't fully followed this case but was that allegation actually made by the nurses?

Comtesse · 20/01/2026 07:03

nauticant · 19/01/2026 19:47

The Supreme Court judgment can be overruled by a change in the law, for example to the Equality Act 2010. I would expect that someone doing the advertised role in the Cabinet Office who, depending on how they view things, might take it upon themselves to lobby for trans rights, could have discussions with senior people in the government to this end.

To be fair it’s just one Grade 7 role, which isn’t that senior. When govt is gearing up for new legislation, there would typically be a whole team (say 6-10 people).

borntobequiet · 20/01/2026 05:39

Every time the nurses open their mouths their honesty and generosity shines through, especially towards RH, who, according to what we heard in court, really did behave very badly towards them, whatever the conclusion arrived at by the panel. The Trust, totally the opposite.

Brainworm · 19/01/2026 22:53

The term ‘colleagues’ is notably overused and their failure to acknowledge the issue at hand - single sex provision is ridiculous.

It comes across to me as them being brittle and resentful about the judgement

Raquelos · 19/01/2026 22:44

Theeyeballsinthesky · 19/01/2026 20:23

Wow, they really have worked incredibly hard to not mention women at all in that statement. Twats.

sillygoof · 19/01/2026 20:25

Theeyeballsinthesky · 19/01/2026 20:23

Not really an apology!