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"Darlington Nurses" vs County Durham and Darlington NHS Trust Tribunal Thread 9

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ThreeWordHarpy · 16/01/2026 12:36

Thread 1, 7-Oct to 23-Oct
Thread 2, 23-Oct to 28-Oct
Thread 3, 28-Oct to 29-Oct
Thread 4, 29-Oct to 31-Oct
Thread 5, 31-Oct to 04-Nov
Thread 6, 04-Nov to 05-Nov
Thread 7, 05-Nov to 11-Nov
Thread 8, 11-Nov to 16-Jan (last thread with the schedule and abbreviations)

Five nurses working at Darlington Memorial Hospital filed a legal case against their employer, an NHS trust, for sexual harassment and sex discrimination. The nurses objected to sharing the women’s changing facilities with a male colleague, Rose, who identifies as female. The hearing was held between 20th October and 11th November and was live tweeted by Tribunal Tweets who have comprehensive information regarding this case on their substack, including archives of the twitter threads, lists of people involved and press releases.

At the time this thread was started, the judgment had not yet been published on the Courts website but was widely reported in the media that the NHS was found to have discriminated against the nurses, but the claims against Rose were not upheld.

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fcktonoclingfilm · 17/01/2026 12:32

AreYouSureAskedNaomi · 17/01/2026 11:59

This is one of the saddest and most anger-inducing aspects of this case - Unions abandoning women at their time of need

Remember that at Darlington dozens of nurses were unhappy with sharing facilities with a man. Not all of them were able to go to court for a variety of reasons, one of which must have been lack of union support. Especially vulnerable were the international nurses that withdrew from the complaint early on, afraid that it would affect their visa status.

So many women cowered by ONE MAN, and the might of management and unions ready to do anything to grant him his wishes.

Given how the NHS has behaved towards women as a class, I feel very concerned that many nurses reliant on their employer for visa status are essentially now in a coercive relationship and being abused by their employer and forced to routinely and repeatedly get undressed in front a man (which may breach cultural and religious requirements as well as privacy, dignity and safety) as part of their employment.

And as we know the unions have sided with managers wanting to force women to undress in front of males.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/01/2026 12:25

SidewaysOtter · 17/01/2026 12:12

That’s just what I was going to post Grin

I’ve got a packet of beef mince in the freezer that has significantly better critical thinking skills than your average TG Redditor.

They’re just so confidently wrong it’s funny.

Conxis · 17/01/2026 12:24

AreYouSureAskedNaomi · 17/01/2026 11:59

This is one of the saddest and most anger-inducing aspects of this case - Unions abandoning women at their time of need

Remember that at Darlington dozens of nurses were unhappy with sharing facilities with a man. Not all of them were able to go to court for a variety of reasons, one of which must have been lack of union support. Especially vulnerable were the international nurses that withdrew from the complaint early on, afraid that it would affect their visa status.

So many women cowered by ONE MAN, and the might of management and unions ready to do anything to grant him his wishes.

I hope these nurses all now get together and put in a claim against the Trust

SidewaysOtter · 17/01/2026 12:13

nauticant · 17/01/2026 12:06

Costs are only awarded in Employment Tribunal cases in exceptional circumstances. The general rule is no costs awards.

Also, they haven’t decided damages/compensation yet.

SidewaysOtter · 17/01/2026 12:12

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 17/01/2026 11:00

To the mince?

That’s just what I was going to post Grin

I’ve got a packet of beef mince in the freezer that has significantly better critical thinking skills than your average TG Redditor.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/01/2026 12:06

Absolutely agree @needmoresleep. The details of that case are jaw dropping.

nauticant · 17/01/2026 12:06

SwirlyGates · 17/01/2026 11:41

Have they been awarded any costs? Is a decision on costs still pending? Or are they definitely not getting anything?

Costs are only awarded in Employment Tribunal cases in exceptional circumstances. The general rule is no costs awards.

Needmoresleep · 17/01/2026 12:05

In case people are interested Claire Coutinho MP has a petition to persuade Epson NHS Trust not to sack nurse Jennifer Melle. She has sort of slipped under the radar as most of her backing has been from the church, but to me her treatment is just as shocking.

If you are interested Google. They promise you can then unsubscribe to emails from the Conservative Party. I don't know if anyone else, non-party-affiliated is running anything.

AreYouSureAskedNaomi · 17/01/2026 12:00

ProfessorBinturong · 17/01/2026 11:57

Bumba was Fife, not Darlington.

It was a general reference to those who put policies together without understanding their impact

OdeToTheNorthWestWind · 17/01/2026 11:59

ProfessorBinturong · 17/01/2026 11:57

Bumba was Fife, not Darlington.

Of course! Thank you.🙄

AreYouSureAskedNaomi · 17/01/2026 11:59

moto748e · 17/01/2026 11:38

What a good piece! Couldn't agree more. If only people like that were in charge of the Labour Party.

In any just world, this is the moment where the trade unions would have stepped in. The protection of female workers from harassment and the defence of safe working conditions are, quite literally, the reason unions exist.
So, where were they? Where was the mighty machinery of Unison, the UK’s largest union with a predominantly female membership? Where were the GMB and Unite?
They were not standing on the picket line with these nurses. In a grotesque inversion of their founding principles, elements of the trade union movement were actively lining up against them.

This is one of the saddest and most anger-inducing aspects of this case - Unions abandoning women at their time of need

Remember that at Darlington dozens of nurses were unhappy with sharing facilities with a man. Not all of them were able to go to court for a variety of reasons, one of which must have been lack of union support. Especially vulnerable were the international nurses that withdrew from the complaint early on, afraid that it would affect their visa status.

So many women cowered by ONE MAN, and the might of management and unions ready to do anything to grant him his wishes.

ProfessorBinturong · 17/01/2026 11:57

Bumba was Fife, not Darlington.

OdeToTheNorthWestWind · 17/01/2026 11:56

AreYouSureAskedNaomi · 17/01/2026 11:03

This
And this explicitly means those managers setting policy
could be a game changer

The possibility that the Isla Bumbas out there (copying and pasting other organisations' Stonewall-sanctioned policies) could be held liable should be giving the cold sweats to many managers.

I don't know whether I missed it, but I don't recall seeing any reference to Isla Bumba at all in the judgement. It would appear that the tribunal placed all the responsibility for the policies and actions of the Trust firmly on the shoulders of her senior managers?

SwirlyGates · 17/01/2026 11:41

Chariothorses · 17/01/2026 11:21

Just a reminder that the nurses are apparently still £25k (!) short of the funds they need for their legal costs if anyone can do any gardening. We are all in their debt...

Have they been awarded any costs? Is a decision on costs still pending? Or are they definitely not getting anything?

moto748e · 17/01/2026 11:38

ItsCoolForCats · 17/01/2026 11:03

What a good piece! Couldn't agree more. If only people like that were in charge of the Labour Party.

In any just world, this is the moment where the trade unions would have stepped in. The protection of female workers from harassment and the defence of safe working conditions are, quite literally, the reason unions exist.
So, where were they? Where was the mighty machinery of Unison, the UK’s largest union with a predominantly female membership? Where were the GMB and Unite?
They were not standing on the picket line with these nurses. In a grotesque inversion of their founding principles, elements of the trade union movement were actively lining up against them.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/01/2026 11:27

RedToothBrush · 17/01/2026 10:49

That sounds like you are trying to suggest they are thick as mince. That would be unkind.

It would 🤷‍♀️

ProtectedlyInsufferable · 17/01/2026 11:23

Michael Foran has just posted giving Seamus good marks for his homework

Chariothorses · 17/01/2026 11:21

Just a reminder that the nurses are apparently still £25k (!) short of the funds they need for their legal costs if anyone can do any gardening. We are all in their debt...

ProtectedlyInsufferable · 17/01/2026 11:20

RedToothBrush · 17/01/2026 11:10

Still a corporate risk that NHS trusts have to take on board whilst policy making. Individuals will still get nervous about the potential...

...this will still force change.

That should have read CIVIL action of course, sorry!

RedToothBrush · 17/01/2026 11:10

ProtectedlyInsufferable · 17/01/2026 11:07

I suspect a prosecution would be difficult, because it’s usually hard to find a single responsible person. Corporations etc mostly get fined fairly modestly. But this rape victim has a circular action in negligence where the damages will be colossal.

Still a corporate risk that NHS trusts have to take on board whilst policy making. Individuals will still get nervous about the potential...

...this will still force change.

ProtectedlyInsufferable · 17/01/2026 11:07

RedToothBrush · 17/01/2026 10:16

Anyone who has been following the case of the transman raped in the mental health ward should be reading this ruling very carefully.

From what I can see, the placement of all the liability on the Trust for acting unlawfully and unreasonably potentially has significant ramifications for that case.

I think it probably opens them up for Wilful Neglect under various acts - with both individuals (including policy managers) and the institute in the firing line, whilst potentially removing responsibility for the rape from the men in question.

When you read through the ruling it effectively throws out the possibility of harassment by Rose because the Trust are liable for the policy.

I do think this issue over liability resting on the Trust really should be getting senior management to sit up and take notice. The more I think about it, the more significant it seems.

It effectively means that if there is a policy which put a woman in a position where she should be safe and has a reasonable expectation of safety - eg a single sex setting or single sex care giver - but the trust acts unlawfully to override this and allows someone to self identify out of their sex they are wilfully negligent and therefore also liable. And this explicitly means those managers setting policy.

Conversely there are ramifications of women put into single sex male facilities because they identify as male. They shouldn't be allowed to for their own safety and for the privacy and dignity of the men concerned and failure to do this is wilful neglect because it's unlawful due to the SC ruling.

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I suspect a prosecution would be difficult, because it’s usually hard to find a single responsible person. Corporations etc mostly get fined fairly modestly. But this rape victim has a circular action in negligence where the damages will be colossal.

RedToothBrush · 17/01/2026 11:06

27pilates · 17/01/2026 10:59

Hopefully this ruling will ensure that the NMC closes the investigation into the nurses.

From our perspective do we want them to close it?

Or do we want them to pursue it and make themselves look ridiculous and at risk of legal challenges?

It's at a point now, where anyone continuing to be a dickhead simply speeds up the inevitable crashing down of this nonsense.

The law is fixed and there's not enough political will nor public support to change the law.

Even if the greens got into power tomorrow, they'd have to actively get the act through parliament and change the law which would result in an inevitable backlash in various forms. Any changes wouldn't last long.

It's not a question of this collapsing. It's a question of when and the degree of fallout from it.

I personally think these professional bodies and institutions need a very firm rocket up the arse sooner rather than later.

AreYouSureAskedNaomi · 17/01/2026 11:03

RedToothBrush · 17/01/2026 10:16

Anyone who has been following the case of the transman raped in the mental health ward should be reading this ruling very carefully.

From what I can see, the placement of all the liability on the Trust for acting unlawfully and unreasonably potentially has significant ramifications for that case.

I think it probably opens them up for Wilful Neglect under various acts - with both individuals (including policy managers) and the institute in the firing line, whilst potentially removing responsibility for the rape from the men in question.

When you read through the ruling it effectively throws out the possibility of harassment by Rose because the Trust are liable for the policy.

I do think this issue over liability resting on the Trust really should be getting senior management to sit up and take notice. The more I think about it, the more significant it seems.

It effectively means that if there is a policy which put a woman in a position where she should be safe and has a reasonable expectation of safety - eg a single sex setting or single sex care giver - but the trust acts unlawfully to override this and allows someone to self identify out of their sex they are wilfully negligent and therefore also liable. And this explicitly means those managers setting policy.

Conversely there are ramifications of women put into single sex male facilities because they identify as male. They shouldn't be allowed to for their own safety and for the privacy and dignity of the men concerned and failure to do this is wilful neglect because it's unlawful due to the SC ruling.

Edited

This
And this explicitly means those managers setting policy
could be a game changer

The possibility that the Isla Bumbas out there (copying and pasting other organisations' Stonewall-sanctioned policies) could be held liable should be giving the cold sweats to many managers.

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 17/01/2026 11:00

RedToothBrush · 17/01/2026 10:49

That sounds like you are trying to suggest they are thick as mince. That would be unkind.

To the mince?