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Can I excuse myself from team building event?

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InAPickle12345 · 09/12/2023 11:57

Hi, looking for advice, legal or practical, on whether I can ask to be excused from a team building event?

Long story short, I work in a team of 8, there were incidents this year and 2 of the team, who work on the same area of the business together, really showed their true colours. They've shown themselves to be conniving, self serving, pushy, defensive when confronted, rude and to top it off they're both really shit at their jobs, not performing and damaging the brand reputation. These incidents have caused a split down the team, we've never received an apology for their behaviour and we avoid working with them on anything where possible. I also took the brunt of this behaviour numerous times.

The CEO is organising a team building event for early next year. A full day of emotional intelligence bullshit and learning how to 'speak each others language'. I really don't want to do this. It will make me incredibly uncomfortable and anxious and I just want to come in and do my job.

Can I ask to be excused from this? I will very likely be the only one.

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Whatelsecouldibecalled · 09/12/2023 21:50

What a shame you ate some dodgy chicken. The night before....

Justfinking · 09/12/2023 21:52

Think you've missed the point of team building OP and won't be doing yourself any favours if you don't go

InAPickle12345 · 09/12/2023 21:57

@Justfinking @Whatelsecouldibecalled Definitely understand the point of team building, but given the issues that have happened I don't think this will have any positive outcome. I have decided earlier in the thread anyway that I will just have to suck it up and go. Grey rocking and bullshit bingo, as suggested by PPs, will be the order of the day and I'll ensure I feign some enthusiasm for the day beforehand so that I'm not seen to be adding to the issues.

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