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bdsm stuff aside, which consensual heterosexual acts are considered misogynistic

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MitchyInge · 02/07/2010 17:11

. . . by mainstream or really any not so fundamentalist feminists?

obviously am thinking about bumsex (friday isn't it) but can think of a few other things that might be considered objectionable

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zookeeper · 02/07/2010 17:12

like what?

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MitchyInge · 02/07/2010 17:13

soapy tit wank or you know, jizz in the eye kind of thing

or dirty sancho type things

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EleanorHandbasket · 02/07/2010 17:17

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SandyBits · 02/07/2010 17:19

Surely the key word here is 'consensual'. I would struggle to find anything wrong if both partners are happy.

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MitchyInge · 02/07/2010 17:19

not saying they are, just wondering if people consider them so

read something at impressionable age about any sort of male penetrating female sex being inherently misogynistic - dworkin?

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zookeeper · 02/07/2010 17:19

what are sancho type things???????

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SandyBits · 02/07/2010 17:20

What rot. Lets all just hold hands to make things equal shall we. Or stick things up his arse, I suppose...

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MitchyInge · 02/07/2010 17:22

zookeeper - you know, finger in the bum unexpectedly then wiping it on the woman's top lip as sort of moustache, in a surprise way

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SandyBits · 02/07/2010 17:24

That's it, I'm namechanging to NeverGoogleDirtySancho

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MitchyInge · 02/07/2010 17:26

woah

there are worse things if you get stuck into urban dictionary for a while

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MitchyInge · 02/07/2010 17:29

and stuff like, scat, and doing a wee on someone

there seem to be a few things that could be seen as about humiliation or some sort of sufering or discomfort but not necessarily restricted to or considered bdsm

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msrisotto · 02/07/2010 17:35

I don't think I will ever understand the humiliation fetish some freaks people obviously have, let alone the feminist implications.

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zookeeper · 02/07/2010 17:36

I give up - just googled scat and came up with Somerset College of Arts and technology...

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HousewifeOfOrangeCounty · 02/07/2010 17:36

I guess brazilians would be frowned upon.

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MitchyInge · 02/07/2010 17:37

I came up with pervertedscatsex.com

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MitchyInge · 02/07/2010 17:37

(which is not wholly work safe)

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SandyBits · 02/07/2010 17:38

Shit, what does SCAT mean? My friend goes to that college and I refuse to google

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HonestyBox · 02/07/2010 17:38

I'm surprised how much porn involves cross-transfer of penis or fingers from arse to fanny. This is bad news health wise and would give me cystitis (sp?) every single time. I'm annoyed that they show this as normal. In fact I've had to tell my dp - no touching of my fronty at all, whatsoever after touchy my bum as I got sick of going to the doctors. TMI I know.

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msrisotto · 02/07/2010 17:40

scat is to do with feaces. I don't want to think precisely what though I have a nasty idea.

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MitchyInge · 02/07/2010 17:40

and also you can get various stds of the EYE

imagine having syphilis of the eye

whether that is feminist issue or not is unsure but seems to be constructed around male desires with women sort of accepting and adopting them

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msrisotto · 02/07/2010 17:41

Oh HonestyBox, the porn industry doesn't give a shit if it is unhealthy for the woman

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msrisotto · 02/07/2010 17:41

doesn't give a shit......lol

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CaptainKirksNipples · 02/07/2010 17:42

If it is consensual then surely it isn't misogynistic?

I think that is called a dirty sanchez not sancho. My brother told me about a 'monkey face', where the woman is performing oral sex, the man pulls away and ejaculates in her face and then immediately pulls out some pubes and throws them at her face, then shouts 'monkey face!'. I can imagine - if it ever happens - that an act like that could start out as consensual and then end up being about humiliation. But I doubt it happens often

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SandyBits · 02/07/2010 17:43

My lordy I have been living a sheltered life. Surely musogynistic and degrading should be seperate issues though? I imagine being shat on by anyone, wether you're a man or a woman, is not the most pleasant thing. But I suppose that's the point. Just think of the mess though. And I thought a damp patch was bad

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MitchyInge · 02/07/2010 17:44

nearly did auto erotic golden shower at 'doesn't give a shit'

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