bdsm stuff aside, which consensual heterosexual acts are considered misogynistic

[MitchyInge]

. . . by mainstream or really any not so fundamentalist feminists?

obviously am thinking about bumsex (friday isn't it) but can think of a few other things that might be considered objectionable

(actually without any eroticism)

I had an ex who used to push my head down when I was performing oral sex on him. That was pretty much an instant turn-off.

The monkey face thing sounds like something that a couple of twelve year olds made up when they first found out about oral sex.

Bukake DEFINITELY
And Roasting.

Brother is 19 so not far off bertie!

Mitchy - Dworkin did not say quite that. She's talking about the way in the context of our culture, which eroticises/romanticises the male power aspect of the sexual act, ie, we are so wedded to seeing it as a man doing something to a woman rather than, say, the woman engulfing the man, that no act of intercourse can quite escape from that. I think.

I am impressed that Zookeeper googled a sexual term and got something completely innocent. That says a lot for the effectiveness of her porn filter.

now I am wanting Zookeeper to type 'bukake' and 'golden shower' into google to see what innocent things it manages to suggest to her.

...or maybe it's all happening at the Somerset College of Arts and Technology...

Mysogynistic? Personally I think many of the things mentioned in this thread are just very nasty indeed

I guess the mysogynistic angle comes from anything that renders the female partner physically powerless. But of course some women relish that .... so who knows.

I suspect dirty sanchez and monkey face are not really particularly common acts - more things that stupid frat boys think are funny in theory.

CaptainKirksNipples - I think if it is consensual it could still be misogynistic, because of the context within which the woman is consenting. Eg if she thinks everyone else is into something painful and her not being means she is frigid so she agrees to do it, she is still consenting.

"the man pulls away and ejaculates in her face and then immediately pulls out some pubes and throws them at her face, then shouts 'monkey face"

No! Really? Why? That has to be a joke.

Fish eye surely has to be one of the worst
Teabagging perhaps?

The Angry Pirate just seems more like a joke than something anyone's actually done.

lol. googled Bukake but misspelt it - now I am know what bucaked means. And I'm not sure it's pleasant ...

QED are you going to make me google that??? This could be dangerous for my health.......

Eugh, that stuff is so degrading. Horrible.

For some reason when bukake was mentioned, I thought of one of those things that you put in your garden and bury and put all your household waste in and it biodegrades it all.

But I know that's not a bukake, it's something else beginning with B.

Do I really want to know what bukake is? One of the depressing things aout MN, is discovering all these perversions which pre-internet, were the occupation of just a few random nutters with pscyhologocial problems, but which the porn industry seems determined to introduce to the rest of us as legitimitate parts of the sexual repertoire. I'm in my 40's so I know they're not, but how many kids growing up with porn as their first introduction to sex, think that they should be doing all this stuff?

bokashi.
and abso-bloody-lutely.