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Parkrun comments giving me the rage

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ChapmanFarm · 02/09/2026 22:49

If I have to read one more time 'but parkrun is just meant to be fun' or 'you are only racing against yourself and your best time' I'm going to scream.

Why does that only apply to women?

If it's just a bit of fun there is absolutely no need for trans identified men to get a time or position either. They have the option to register as another gender or to just run and not register at all.

If it's all just fun and we moaning women should shut up, why do these arguments only apply one way?

No one is saying they can't run in whatever clothing/identity they like. Just that they shouldn't be recorded as women.

But somehow this is still wrong.

I thought I'd peaked long ago but this one is giving me the absolute rage.

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Datun · 03/09/2026 15:13

ThisFunSheep · 03/09/2026 14:14

Apologies @Datun ! I am not new but I drop in and out under a couple of usernames.

No worries, it probably looked a bit ambiguous, to be honest.

AimsAndObjectives · 03/09/2026 15:45

ChamonixMountainBum · 03/09/2026 14:35

Someone has pulled together a bingo card for parkrun

complete irradiation of a minority😂

ChamonixMountainBum · 03/09/2026 16:39

singthing · 03/09/2026 15:06

I find it amusing to see how absolutely incandescent with rage he is, and barely keeping a lid on it with comments like these, which you KNOW were typed in overt fury.

I really want someone to point out how much the 199 must be bugging him.

Graham Holland 小光頭 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 🇬🇧 🇹🇼 @itsafrogslife
377 parkruns at 199 venues in 11 countries, plus 338 volunteer credits at 60 locations. Then there's my 7 years as an RD. What's your definition of a newbie?

Graham Holland is a particularly unpleasant cunt.

AstonCanKissMyArse · 03/09/2026 16:57

Brilliant how the usual suspects have arrived and just proved the point of the thread.

This issue is AT THE SAME TIME so significant to trsns folk they will be harmed if they're not allowed into the wrong sex category, AND just a bit of fun, you silly bigoted wims.

AND

Women can't be permitted to have anything if it upsets male people.

Keep it up lads, you're doing our work for us.

puffyisgood · 03/09/2026 18:39

TIM's are being asked, if they want to do Parkrun, not to tick the first of these four boxes when they enter. It's practically genocide 😪.

Parkrun comments giving me the rage
BabyGrooverBug · 03/09/2026 19:06

ChapmanFarm · 02/09/2026 22:49

If I have to read one more time 'but parkrun is just meant to be fun' or 'you are only racing against yourself and your best time' I'm going to scream.

Why does that only apply to women?

If it's just a bit of fun there is absolutely no need for trans identified men to get a time or position either. They have the option to register as another gender or to just run and not register at all.

If it's all just fun and we moaning women should shut up, why do these arguments only apply one way?

No one is saying they can't run in whatever clothing/identity they like. Just that they shouldn't be recorded as women.

But somehow this is still wrong.

I thought I'd peaked long ago but this one is giving me the absolute rage.

I'm as GC as they come but park run really isn't a race, and you/we really are racing against ourselves.

Plus there is no sane way for volunteers to check and police participant's sex. There.is no way I'm volunteering to get into that argumenton a Saturday morning. (Indeed how would I even know what they selected in a drop down list on a web site?)

People get dragged round with dogs on waist bands, do we need to start disqualifying them?

The runs are mixed so there's no additional safety issue if men want to record themselves as women.

If anything Parkrun highlights the ludicrousness of choosing sex based on "feels". If I'm feeling young one morning can I run as a 15yo? Yes I can. I can be anything. Which says it all. Of course, if people self identify then under 11s can identify as 20 year olds and run without a parent.

So, I'm GC and I'm totally happy with people 100% self identifying for parkruns, if anything it helps the GC case.

Mouldemort · 03/09/2026 19:09

Rollingpinofdoom · 03/09/2026 13:27

Why are the TRA obsessed with genital inspections? Is it some weird fantasy scenario or just living in hope? You do know cheek swabs exist right? Have you never seen CSI?

It’s only GCs who are genital obsessed - in your case so much so that you glossed over me saying cheek swabs.

WearyAuldWumman · 03/09/2026 19:33

Mouldemort · 03/09/2026 19:09

It’s only GCs who are genital obsessed - in your case so much so that you glossed over me saying cheek swabs.

And yet you felt the need to suggest 'genital inspections'. How strange.

ChamonixMountainBum · 03/09/2026 19:44

Mouldemort · 03/09/2026 19:09

It’s only GCs who are genital obsessed - in your case so much so that you glossed over me saying cheek swabs.

Not really. So many TIMs, cheered on by their gender borg acolytes, are convinced they have achieved the holy grail status of 'passing' that they believe the only way they can be clocked is via a genital inspection. As others have suggested I would not be surprised if that is what they actually dream of.

FrippEnos · 03/09/2026 20:03

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 03/09/2026 12:53

Do you know how few trans people actually do Parkrun? Or are any good?

Jfc, they can't even amble round a park without attracting hyperbolic nonsense like this.

The average decent sportswoman will easily outpace anyone at a parkrun, male or female. Do some research on female sporting excellence (especially at endurance events), how very few trans women could begin to compete with them, what transitioning does to the trans female body - and get some perspective.

Maybe do something useful to help women rather than obsess over a tiny minority for once.

Do you know how few trans people actually do Parkrun? Or are any good?

Do you?
Are you aware that if its only one TiM then every woman is knocked down a place?

Jfc, they can't even amble round a park without attracting hyperbolic nonsense like this.

If it was just people that "amble round a park" it wouldn't be a problem, but there are recorded positions and records.

The average decent sportswoman will easily outpace anyone at a parkrun, male or female. Do some research on female sporting excellence (especially at endurance events), how very few trans women could begin to compete with them, what transitioning does to the trans female body - and get some perspective.

So its women's fault that a mediocre male won't run in a park run for his own sex?
what transitioning does to a body is done with the consent of the person going through the transition, it shouldn't have an impact forced on someone else.

Maybe do something useful to help women rather than obsess over a tiny minority for once.

thanls for showing me that you know nothing about female sports.

BabyGrooverBug · 03/09/2026 20:16

Graham Holland 小光頭 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 🇬🇧 🇹🇼 @itsafrogslife
377 parkruns at 199 venues in 11 countries, plus 338 volunteer credits at 60 locations. Then there's my 7 years as an RD. What's your definition of a newbie?

I identify as having done 378 parkruns in 204 venues.

grafittiartist · 03/09/2026 20:27

I am so glad to find this thread.
I don’t feel the same about park run because of the injustice over categories. I still love the whole concept and the event- but am angry that they dismiss women so easily.
Am also sick of the comments about on SM- there doesn’t seem to be as much (vocal) support. We are being painted as the baddies here.

Rollingpinofdoom · 03/09/2026 20:43

Mouldemort · 03/09/2026 19:09

It’s only GCs who are genital obsessed - in your case so much so that you glossed over me saying cheek swabs.

You are the only person mentioning genitals sweetie. No one else has. That’s why it stuck out like a sore thumb. And who says I'm GC? It’s literally my first week on Mumsnet. I can see why TRA are losing the hearts and minds battle though.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 03/09/2026 20:53

Rollingpinofdoom · 03/09/2026 20:43

You are the only person mentioning genitals sweetie. No one else has. That’s why it stuck out like a sore thumb. And who says I'm GC? It’s literally my first week on Mumsnet. I can see why TRA are losing the hearts and minds battle though.

Men often arrive frothing and wailing on here when they see women speaking without their permission.
You'll get used to it 😁

Rollingpinofdoom · 03/09/2026 20:55

MrsOvertonsWindow · 03/09/2026 20:53

Men often arrive frothing and wailing on here when they see women speaking without their permission.
You'll get used to it 😁

I am agog with anticipation lol. I’ve been lurking for a while, then decided to bite the bullet.

KnottyAuty · 03/09/2026 21:16

Liverpoolxxx · 03/09/2026 09:09

Random thought but we need some male jockeys to turn up on their steeds and insist on taking part. I mean the men won’t mind their records being taken, now will they???

As long as the horses identify as humans what problem could there be?

I might start anthropomorphising a mo-ped. Would tgat be ok too?

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 03/09/2026 21:25

Rollingpinofdoom · 03/09/2026 20:55

I am agog with anticipation lol. I’ve been lurking for a while, then decided to bite the bullet.

I hope you enjoy the ride! Just don't expect any of the drive-by TRAs to make any sense, that's all.

Rollingpinofdoom · 03/09/2026 21:29

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 03/09/2026 21:25

I hope you enjoy the ride! Just don't expect any of the drive-by TRAs to make any sense, that's all.

Gave up on that a long time ago. Was in a relationship with a TIM. It didn’t end well. The funny thing is, I’d never been on Mumsnet until he kept wanging on about it and trying to get me to promise I’d never darken its doors 😂😂😂😂. Apparently everyone on here is evil transphobes. So I lurked for a bit, liked what I saw and decided to add my two pennies worth.

EdithStourton · 04/09/2026 08:34

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 03/09/2026 12:53

Do you know how few trans people actually do Parkrun? Or are any good?

Jfc, they can't even amble round a park without attracting hyperbolic nonsense like this.

The average decent sportswoman will easily outpace anyone at a parkrun, male or female. Do some research on female sporting excellence (especially at endurance events), how very few trans women could begin to compete with them, what transitioning does to the trans female body - and get some perspective.

Maybe do something useful to help women rather than obsess over a tiny minority for once.

Do some research on female sporting excellence
I think you'll find that a lot of us have.

And it only takes one or two keen TW running in different places over a few months to totally trash the top women's rankings. And in any case, why should a woman somewhere down in the 50s rankings of her local parkrun be knocked down even one spot by some bloody bloke?

I am so bloody sick of women being dismissed and expected to roll over for the male of the species.

I cannot express how much more bolshy, stroppy and obstinate this whole trans business has made me.

Datun · 04/09/2026 10:06

I cannot express how much more bolshy, stroppy and obstinate this whole trans business has made me.

I instantly acquired what I call late onset feminism. It's meant to 'piss you off and then set you free'.

I'm still at the pissed off stage.

TwisterSpice · 04/09/2026 10:09

Whilst I wholeheartedly agree, the fault doesn’t lie with park run. Runners put their sex down in their account, that’s where the data gets pulled from. So if Steve puts his sex as F, he’ll get recorded in the women’s category. Not really park runs fault.

Helleofabore · 04/09/2026 10:10

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 03/09/2026 12:53

Do you know how few trans people actually do Parkrun? Or are any good?

Jfc, they can't even amble round a park without attracting hyperbolic nonsense like this.

The average decent sportswoman will easily outpace anyone at a parkrun, male or female. Do some research on female sporting excellence (especially at endurance events), how very few trans women could begin to compete with them, what transitioning does to the trans female body - and get some perspective.

Maybe do something useful to help women rather than obsess over a tiny minority for once.

You know there is a thread dedicated to just sports evidence among the threads on FWR, don’t you? Maybe you should take the time that many others have done and read the links in that thread.

‘Do some research’ sounds like projection from someone who hasn’t

heathspeedwell · 04/09/2026 10:24

TwisterSpice · 04/09/2026 10:09

Whilst I wholeheartedly agree, the fault doesn’t lie with park run. Runners put their sex down in their account, that’s where the data gets pulled from. So if Steve puts his sex as F, he’ll get recorded in the women’s category. Not really park runs fault.

It's up to Parkrun to sort this out. If they can prevent people from cheating in the age categories, they can prevent people cheating in the sex categories.

Apparently if they catch people lying about their age, they can simply delete that person's records altogether, which sounds like a good deterrant.

Also the fact that there are people who cheat is further proof that for many people it is a competition.

Pingponghavoc · 04/09/2026 10:35

There's a difference between park run saying sex is self determined and park run expecting everyone to be truthful, but having little control over how people register themselves.

And the problem isn't men cheating to look like they are better than they are, its men using the event as validation of their belief that they are women.

AstonCanKissMyArse · 04/09/2026 11:12

Plus there is no sane way for volunteers to check and police participant's sex.

I'm so tired of this old chestnut.

Most rules cannot be policed all the time. If I choose not to wear a seat belt in my car, its unlikely that I'll ever get caught. But its still illegal, for very good reasons. Rape its incredibly difficult to prosecute, but we haven't just scrapped all the laws and said there's no point - it remains illegal to show that this is unacceptable in our society.

We gave previously relied on the social contract, the expectation if you like, that men will stay out if women's spaces/sports. This social contract has now been smashed to pieces by organisations like parkrun telling males they can do as they please without consequence (if they cared they could threaten to delete all records held by these cheats as they do if a false age is found to have been given. But they don't. Its all very Pontius Pilate).

Its utter nonsense to wring our hands and say that nothing can be done.

And as for genital inspections? 👀 That's just a TiMs wank fantasy. The TRAs seem to think we're all 'schroedingers Terf' - at the same time so prudish and pearl clutching that we are afraid of penises, but also 'obsessed with genitals'. Like all the other TRA bingo card bs, it makes zero logical sense.