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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Man brags about performing intimate examinations on women when they don't know he's a bloke.

53 replies

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 05/08/2026 10:24

https://www.reddit.com/r/transgenderUK/comments/1vfzxi4/another_day_of_being_in_female_spaces_and_no_one/

OP posts:
Whatchamacallitt · 05/08/2026 19:20

WrongKindOfFeminist · 05/08/2026 18:17

One lone voice considers the rights of women.

'I don't think you should perform intimate examinations on women who don't know. '

Thank you, random redditor.

Unfortunately, most of the people on that board either don't give a fuck how women feel, or actively seek to transgress boundaries.

She's since doubled down.

I wonder how long until she will be banned for describing him as 'biologically male'.

RogueFemale · 05/08/2026 19:47

Another dissenter half an hour ago saying "Way to go to get trans people accused of being predators 🙄" and the OP replies with "???"

RogueFemale · 05/08/2026 19:58

Men like OP stink of incel. No woman would touch him so he's turned his misogyny into the fantasy that he's a fake woman. A comical fantasy of lesbians lusting after him and men ogling his moobs.

Whatchamacallitt · 05/08/2026 20:01

RogueFemale · 05/08/2026 19:47

Another dissenter half an hour ago saying "Way to go to get trans people accused of being predators 🙄" and the OP replies with "???"

Nice to see more resistance, even if that comment does centre the reputation of the poor transes rather than the women being violated.

dinodart · 05/08/2026 20:08

Pingponghavoc · 05/08/2026 16:29

I'm always amazed how the users of the sub dont seem to realise how they come across?

If the community really wanted the world to see them as 'quiet people just wanting to get on with their lives', why tolerate these posts?

Half of the posts are wallowing in the misery of being marginalised, the rest are highlighting why women are giving them a wide berth.

i wish the various trans subreddits were required reading for people who back this ideology. they just put it all out there, how vile and perverted they are.

WickedWitchoftheDesk · 05/08/2026 20:11

MrPrettyDamnCosmic · 05/08/2026 15:49

This is a MtF transexual GP boasting in a medical journal about giving intimate examinations to women back in 2017. He is still practising as a GP.

A lot of my patients were quite conservative — many female patients wore long clothes, or the hijab — but they allowed me to examine them despite my change. In fact, after my transition, they even allowed me to perform more intimate examinations that they did not let me to do when I was a male GP. Every single one of them refused my offer of a chaperone even when they knew that I am transgender.

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5565847/

This is the appalling Kamilla, isn’t it? He said pretty much the same thing when I had my obligatory online NHS practice staff training with him. Proper creepy man.

Whatchamacallitt · 05/08/2026 20:13

Now he's claiming to be a 'female clinician'.

chirrupybird · 05/08/2026 20:14

I don't think women can refuse a chaperone for the safety of male doctors not getting accused of assault, would presumably apply to someone admitting they are male.

Whatchamacallitt · 05/08/2026 20:17

chirrupybird · 05/08/2026 20:14

I don't think women can refuse a chaperone for the safety of male doctors not getting accused of assault, would presumably apply to someone admitting they are male.

I have no issue with a regular male clinician personally (though I'd refuse a TIM). I've never had one perform an intimate examination without a chaperone being there. I'm not even asked if I'd like one, it's just a case of 'I need so and so here as a chaperone to our examination'. I fully understand and would do the same in his position as his professional reputation is also on the line.

GreyskySexRealistsky · 05/08/2026 20:21

This is "stealth". This what stealth means in reality.

RogueFemale · 05/08/2026 20:28

Whatchamacallitt · 05/08/2026 20:13

Now he's claiming to be a 'female clinician'.

And getting told he's a trans man. Ha!

RogueFemale · 05/08/2026 20:36

RogueFemale · 05/08/2026 20:28

And getting told he's a trans man. Ha!

Correction. She (the trans -identifying woman) replied to "I'm a female clinician" with "You're a trans man?" - meaning she's asking if he's a trans-identifying woman, which she knows he isn't, from his original post.

ChequerToRed · 05/08/2026 20:49

Let’s face it, we’ve known for many long years that 99.9% of TIMs don’t have the blindest clue what ‘feeling like a woman’ is. It seems to me that they don’t get much further on from ‘I like boobs and wearing a skirt.’.
It’s a silo for angry, weird and dysfunctional men.

ZoeCM · 05/08/2026 20:49

Whatchamacallitt · 05/08/2026 15:57

I recognise the handle. She's a TIF who regularly posts reasonable responses on that forum only to be downvoted massively. It's not surprising that one of the few reasonable commenters is female.

This is a recurring pattern on trans subs. TIFs are likelier to call out misogyny. When I first peaked, I searched for "TERF" and "MRA" on a trans sub to see which got more hate. I found countless threads railing against TERFs. I got two results for MRA, one of which was a post from a TIM saying that MRAs aren't necessarily misogynistic. The other result was an anti-MRA thread by a TIF.

Whatchamacallitt · 05/08/2026 20:58

RogueFemale · 05/08/2026 20:36

Correction. She (the trans -identifying woman) replied to "I'm a female clinician" with "You're a trans man?" - meaning she's asking if he's a trans-identifying woman, which she knows he isn't, from his original post.

Lol I love that. She's pointing out the insanity of his claim in the most subtle way.

Whatchamacallitt · 05/08/2026 21:06

What a surprise all the comments have been deleted. I bet she's been banned.

RogueFemale · 05/08/2026 21:15

Whatchamacallitt · 05/08/2026 21:06

What a surprise all the comments have been deleted. I bet she's been banned.

Yes, it seems she's been cancelled for wrong-think. But she wasn't a special trans-identifying man so doesn't matter what she thinks, one must conclude.

WrongKindOfFeminist · 05/08/2026 21:23

Whatchamacallitt · 05/08/2026 19:20

She's since doubled down.

I wonder how long until she will be banned for describing him as 'biologically male'.

Comment deleted.

RogueFemale · 05/08/2026 21:35

dinodart · 05/08/2026 20:08

i wish the various trans subreddits were required reading for people who back this ideology. they just put it all out there, how vile and perverted they are.

Also just desperately sad. The photo posts asking for validation, hoping to 'pass' - and it's an obvious man in drag - and they all go ooh, love the eyeliner, like they think women do. The other day a post about packing/packers? - not sure, -but I gathered it was about women stuffing their crotch for it to look like they had male genitalia. And they were doing it wrong and the stuffed wad was stinking. One of the two replies said they'd fashioned something with crochet.

dinodart · 05/08/2026 22:23

RogueFemale · 05/08/2026 21:35

Also just desperately sad. The photo posts asking for validation, hoping to 'pass' - and it's an obvious man in drag - and they all go ooh, love the eyeliner, like they think women do. The other day a post about packing/packers? - not sure, -but I gathered it was about women stuffing their crotch for it to look like they had male genitalia. And they were doing it wrong and the stuffed wad was stinking. One of the two replies said they'd fashioned something with crochet.

yes, some of it is quite sad too. i read r/detrans sometimes and man, the misery they have there, I feel so bad for the girls who were sold this ideology when they young kids and cut off their breasts and took testosterone... -_- some of them have absolutely horrifying stories of trauma and mental issues, and then were sold trans ideology as the answer and now how to live with the resulting health issues and social fallout.

the way detransitioners are treated by TRAs is also horrible, like some of them lose their friend circle even. i think just the social implications make it hard to stop being part of this ideological movement even once they realize they no longer want to be a part of it, no longer want to take HRT.

RogueFemale · 05/08/2026 22:41

dinodart · 05/08/2026 22:23

yes, some of it is quite sad too. i read r/detrans sometimes and man, the misery they have there, I feel so bad for the girls who were sold this ideology when they young kids and cut off their breasts and took testosterone... -_- some of them have absolutely horrifying stories of trauma and mental issues, and then were sold trans ideology as the answer and now how to live with the resulting health issues and social fallout.

the way detransitioners are treated by TRAs is also horrible, like some of them lose their friend circle even. i think just the social implications make it hard to stop being part of this ideological movement even once they realize they no longer want to be a part of it, no longer want to take HRT.

We can see already that dissent is forbidden from the fact that the TIF's comments were deleted on this particular thread. I'm glad I witnessed this and saw the comments before deletion. It's a cult and no-one is allowed to question the cult.

I'm not going to look at r/detrans. I already know more than I want to know, now about two years after peaking. You can always go deeper, as Linehan has done and it has sent him a bit crazy, really, because it is very very dark at the bottom of the pit, and he has been repeatedly targeted and attacked by the TRAs.

A friend commented to me the other day that he'd got darker - a friend who understands but does not follow this stuff as I do - we were just initially talking about Father Ted. And I said yes, and said what I thought was the reason.

tobee · 05/08/2026 23:26

One of the replies referring to us on Mumsnet that we wouldn’t like that they won’t do as they are told. And they wonder why we think of them as spoiled teenagers. 🙄

RogueFemale · 05/08/2026 23:28

New dissenter an hour ago:
"Hard disagree. If someone requests a female member of staff then you should step away. The vast majority of people will not care but for those that do - you absolutely should be respecting their beliefs. Literally everyone decent would do this. No drama, no outing, no nonsense. Though I'm not convinced you're not a TERF from Mumsnet posting to spark hate towards trans people."

Destined for censorship, but good to see quite a few of them know that TIM are men.

GreyskySexRealistsky · 05/08/2026 23:47

It's so telling that he went straight for the body parts of cervix and breasts.

He could have made exactly the same point by referring to arm, leg, shoulder, whatever. But no. Cervix and breasts. Exerting control over female body parts. And a dash of jealousy. It's rapey. Good on those redditors who spoke out.

Odditea · 05/08/2026 23:48

Chilling