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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Man brags about performing intimate examinations on women when they don't know he's a bloke.

53 replies

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 05/08/2026 10:24

https://www.reddit.com/r/transgenderUK/comments/1vfzxi4/another_day_of_being_in_female_spaces_and_no_one/

OP posts:
Myalternate · 05/08/2026 10:37

A clear cut case of vivid imagination. The scenario is all in his head.

Dumbo12 · 05/08/2026 10:37

The fantasy is strong in this one!

GreyskySexRealistsky · 05/08/2026 10:46

...thereby admitting to all and sundry that he knows he's male really.

No actual woman would write a post like that.

A fantasist and a bit dim.

PrancingPanda · 05/08/2026 11:01

Oh that reddit sub- it's wild

Whatchamacallitt · 05/08/2026 15:43

These TIMs are always obsessed with talking about their boobs and their genitals. Most obviously male behaviour.

GreyskySexRealistsky · 05/08/2026 15:46

Somebody actually spoke up!

"I don't think you should perform intimate examinations on women who don't know."

Waiting for the deletion....

MrPrettyDamnCosmic · 05/08/2026 15:49

This is a MtF transexual GP boasting in a medical journal about giving intimate examinations to women back in 2017. He is still practising as a GP.

A lot of my patients were quite conservative — many female patients wore long clothes, or the hijab — but they allowed me to examine them despite my change. In fact, after my transition, they even allowed me to perform more intimate examinations that they did not let me to do when I was a male GP. Every single one of them refused my offer of a chaperone even when they knew that I am transgender.

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5565847/

What it’s like to be a transgender patient and a GP - PMC

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5565847/

Whatchamacallitt · 05/08/2026 15:56

MrPrettyDamnCosmic · 05/08/2026 15:49

This is a MtF transexual GP boasting in a medical journal about giving intimate examinations to women back in 2017. He is still practising as a GP.

A lot of my patients were quite conservative — many female patients wore long clothes, or the hijab — but they allowed me to examine them despite my change. In fact, after my transition, they even allowed me to perform more intimate examinations that they did not let me to do when I was a male GP. Every single one of them refused my offer of a chaperone even when they knew that I am transgender.

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5565847/

Sounds like AGP fantasy to me. I can't imagine that Muslim women would accept a trans-identified man performing intimate examinations on them for a minute.

That said, if patients actually know the doctor is a trans-identified man and can make an informed choice regarding whether to accept such an examination from them then I think that is fine.

The issue is where they lie by omission and so women are unknowingly accepting intimate care from a man.

Whatchamacallitt · 05/08/2026 15:57

GreyskySexRealistsky · 05/08/2026 15:46

Somebody actually spoke up!

"I don't think you should perform intimate examinations on women who don't know."

Waiting for the deletion....

I recognise the handle. She's a TIF who regularly posts reasonable responses on that forum only to be downvoted massively. It's not surprising that one of the few reasonable commenters is female.

BEAchDays2 · 05/08/2026 15:58

Fantasist is fantasist on the Internet. I’m shook. 🙄

Justme56 · 05/08/2026 15:58

Looking at a previous post by the same person he has just finished training as a mental health nurse.

Whatchamacallitt · 05/08/2026 16:00

Justme56 · 05/08/2026 15:58

Looking at a previous post by the same person he has just finished training as a mental health nurse.

God help the vulnerable mentally unwell women he will encounter. That said, if he's training as a mental health nurse why is he performing breast and cervical examinations? Sounds like a sexual fantasy to me.

GreyskySexRealistsky · 05/08/2026 16:05

MrPrettyDamnCosmic · 05/08/2026 15:49

This is a MtF transexual GP boasting in a medical journal about giving intimate examinations to women back in 2017. He is still practising as a GP.

A lot of my patients were quite conservative — many female patients wore long clothes, or the hijab — but they allowed me to examine them despite my change. In fact, after my transition, they even allowed me to perform more intimate examinations that they did not let me to do when I was a male GP. Every single one of them refused my offer of a chaperone even when they knew that I am transgender.

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5565847/

Maya Forstater was investigated by the police over "malicious communication" about this doctor when she asked whether female patients could truly consent to being examined by this doctor.

She was interviewed under caution at Charing Cross police station and claims an officer asked her if she realised her tweet could be viewed as "transphobic".

icingonmycupcake · 05/08/2026 16:25

MrPrettyDamnCosmic · 05/08/2026 15:49

This is a MtF transexual GP boasting in a medical journal about giving intimate examinations to women back in 2017. He is still practising as a GP.

A lot of my patients were quite conservative — many female patients wore long clothes, or the hijab — but they allowed me to examine them despite my change. In fact, after my transition, they even allowed me to perform more intimate examinations that they did not let me to do when I was a male GP. Every single one of them refused my offer of a chaperone even when they knew that I am transgender.

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5565847/

No woman would refuse a chaperone when being examined by a man.

Even a man in a frock.

GreyskySexRealistsky · 05/08/2026 16:27

The wording is just awful. It makes me go cold.

they even allowed me to perform more intimate examinations that they did not let me to do when I was a male GP.

It's the words "even" and "let" that really turn my stomach.

icingonmycupcake · 05/08/2026 16:29

Whatchamacallitt · 05/08/2026 16:00

God help the vulnerable mentally unwell women he will encounter. That said, if he's training as a mental health nurse why is he performing breast and cervical examinations? Sounds like a sexual fantasy to me.

Mental Health Nurses don't do intimate examinations.

So either he's fantasising. Or he's sexually abusing vulnerable women.

Both are horrendous.

Pingponghavoc · 05/08/2026 16:29

I'm always amazed how the users of the sub dont seem to realise how they come across?

If the community really wanted the world to see them as 'quiet people just wanting to get on with their lives', why tolerate these posts?

Half of the posts are wallowing in the misery of being marginalised, the rest are highlighting why women are giving them a wide berth.

MrPrettyDamnCosmic · 05/08/2026 16:33

Pingponghavoc · 05/08/2026 16:29

I'm always amazed how the users of the sub dont seem to realise how they come across?

If the community really wanted the world to see them as 'quiet people just wanting to get on with their lives', why tolerate these posts?

Half of the posts are wallowing in the misery of being marginalised, the rest are highlighting why women are giving them a wide berth.

Half of the posts are wallowing in the misery of being marginalised, the rest are highlighting why women are giving them a wide berth.

Not forgetting the posts from older TiMs grooming vulnerable adolescents.

MrPrettyDamnCosmic · 05/08/2026 16:40

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This message has been withdrawn at the poster's request

TakingMyChancesWithTheRabbits · 05/08/2026 16:51

@MrPrettyDamnCosmic Wrong thread?

MrPrettyDamnCosmic · 05/08/2026 16:53

TakingMyChancesWithTheRabbits · 05/08/2026 16:51

@MrPrettyDamnCosmic Wrong thread?

Whoops! I'll report it for deletion. Thanks.

AlwaysExtraHot · 05/08/2026 16:56

GreyskySexRealistsky · 05/08/2026 16:27

The wording is just awful. It makes me go cold.

they even allowed me to perform more intimate examinations that they did not let me to do when I was a male GP.

It's the words "even" and "let" that really turn my stomach.

Spot on.

pontefractals · 05/08/2026 17:09

icingonmycupcake · 05/08/2026 16:25

No woman would refuse a chaperone when being examined by a man.

Even a man in a frock.

Tbf, I might not require a chaperone if it was an openly male doctor who I knew and trusted but that's kinda moot because all make HCPs I've seen in the last few years have insisted - it's for their protection as well as mine, after all. If it was someone trying to conceal their sex, male OR female, I'd want a chaperone because to me that's starting the interaction with a lie and I don't trust you after that.

Pingponghavoc · 05/08/2026 17:29

MrPrettyDamnCosmic · 05/08/2026 16:33

Half of the posts are wallowing in the misery of being marginalised, the rest are highlighting why women are giving them a wide berth.

Not forgetting the posts from older TiMs grooming vulnerable adolescents.

I agree.

WrongKindOfFeminist · 05/08/2026 18:17

One lone voice considers the rights of women.

'I don't think you should perform intimate examinations on women who don't know. '

Thank you, random redditor.

Unfortunately, most of the people on that board either don't give a fuck how women feel, or actively seek to transgress boundaries.

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