“They literally cannot stop themselves”
No. They justify their behaviour, make it ok in their heads. They know really it’s wrong, but they want to do it, so they make excuses for themselves. I want to dismember this person, slowly, my rage and disgust makes me feel like it’s ok. But, I know it’s not, so I will control my urges. I can stop myself, and so could he, if he wanted to. It’s spoiled manchild misogynist entitlement, nothing more.